Quote: (10-09-2013 01:41 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
This topic again? I guess it's that time of the week.
For your game homework, go to your favorite torrent spot or cable show streaming website and look up Millionaire Matchmaker
The set up is
- a legit millionaire walks in
- the agency has a casting call
- they pick 10-20 chicks per millionaire's physical tastes
- they have mingle with 10-20 chicks
- millionaire picks 1
- the one chick and the millionaire go out on a date
Now let's think about this logically.
Every bitch who comes to the casting call knows that the guy they're gonna meet is a legit millionaire.
So by definition, these bitches are gold diggers. They don't know if these guys are hot, if they're compatible, they only know that he's rich as fuck. They've sucked dick for less financially endowed men.
During round 1, every bitch is super nice, super flirty, laughing at everything the rich guy says. EVERYTHING.
So he picks the best looking chick with the best vibe.
Then he takes them out on a fabulous date. Balloon Rides, Helicopters, Private jets, limo's, gourmet meals - the whole 9.
Before we get to the punch line
- gold digger - check
- rich guy - check
- rich guy shows off his lifestyle - check
Now lemme ask you, how many of these gold diggers end up with these whales?
100%? Naw.
70% - No
50%? - No
I think i've seen most of the episodes, and the relationship rate is less than 20%, and they're might have been 1 marriage that was the result of the show.
Keep in mind, the chick has EVERY incentive to get married to this guy and be a rich wife. There are no downsides. She could have affairs with the pool boy and then divorce the guy and get half his money, or whatever was negotiated in the pre-nup. and if she pops out some kids...forget about it.
Now most of the guys who strike it rich in the show
- stock/financial stuff
- real estate
- internet/tech stuff
- small businesses
Self Made or get a big company stock options, that's how they got rich. These are the biggest of beta providers.
But there were a handful of guys that were using the service like OkCupid.
The 2 I'm thinking of
- one guy owned a sex toy company (sex toys are for women)
- one guy owned clubs and restaurants (these businesses primarily exist to bring in women for guys to spend money on)
These guys? They weren't particularly excited about the show
- the club owner dude invited his crew along, as well as his female "assistant" - he was in the life.
- the sex toy dude is used to porn stars and strippers - so a regular woman wasn't that interesting, this is despite his desire to settle down and have some kids. He went out with a "fun girl" and realized she'd be a horrible partner. The regular chick he got with...well...you know how it is.
Now I'm not gonna say that these dudes have game, maybe they do, maybe they don't - but I will say that because of the type of businesses that they made their millions in, - they understood the female mind and what women have to really offer more than the guys with legit businesses and cashed in stock options.
Which brings me to my point.
Money is not a substitute for game.
I know club and bar owners. I know silent partners.
I know guys with 7 figure blue collar businesses.
I know the finance and real estate guys.
I know white collar company guys making serious paper.
The cash? The lifestyle?
It's not enough. They all thought it would be. Get the Porsche and the condo downtown, and the ho's would be running in.
It takes a special breed of woman to be a straight up gold-digger. Most don't have the cojones to do it. (I'm not saying they aren't out there. If you date Eastern European chicks or Black women...)
She still has to feel something in order to spread her legs eagerly. A chick needs something to latch onto, something to anchor her.
Money can turbo-charge your game, but it doesn't replace your game.
Hell even dudes doing P4P could have a better experience if they understood game. I digress.
So running game as a rich man?
The operative word here is game, you still need it, might need it even more.
WIA
Great post
I know few americans and spanish old cats here in DR worth millions of dollars but if you see them you would never guess they are worth all that money. They literally dress like bums, they live in average places and the women they pull? OMG.
But I know this other cat here, he is in his early 40s, drives expensive cars all the time and is the owner of few businesses here. The women he pulls? Crazy hot.
A guy with game and money would literally destroy a guy with money and no game and would do better than a guy with game and no money.
Your best bet is to maximise your options.
