Historically, the prescription for dealing with LMR or Last Minute Resistance involved disengaging from the task at hand, doing a little freeze-out on the girl, and re-approaching the bang at a later time.
I've done this, and it has worked, but I've been experimenting with a different way of handling LMR.
Instead of freezing her out, I engage her by talking. This isn't an argument, but is more of a calling a spade spade, recognizing the elephant in the room kind of moment.
I do this when I'm sexually messing around with a girl (my dick is out, she's blowing, but she seems reluctant, for example). I can tell she's conflicted. Most girls will be weirded out by the fact that they are about to fuck a complete stranger on a first date. This is what players have to deal with.
Instead of trying to pretend that nothing happened I bring it up with the girl.
I'll tell her things like:
"Do you want me, yes or no?" She'll reply with some convoluted BS about not being sure or whatever, but I'll keep pushing her into a yes/no answer.
Then I'll tell her something like "I'm really confused. When I'm with someone, I need to feel like we are in it together (I do a kind of "go-team" gesture).. I need to feel a sense of freedom."
I've never had a girl who disagreed with this notion.
I might then look at them with a straight face and "I want to fuck you. Do you want me?"
The point is that I'm not trying to hide the awkwardness of the moment. I'm confronting it head on. I believe this a sign of strength of frame.
I ignore her ramblings. It's all a big shit-test as far as I'm concerned. If I've got a girl naked in my bed, I'm going to push things forward instead of letting the air out of sails by disengaging.
So far, it's worked with three out of four girls. I feel much better doing this then trying to pretend like everything is cool and passive aggressively going to my computer to fake like I'm looking something up (or whatever it is the Mystery Method prescribes).
To do this, I believe you need to have already established that you are not a normal, boring guy. You are cool guy who doesn't live by the normal people rules. You aren't used to girls being indecisive in these matters. It's not that it makes you uneasy, but it's "confusing".
The girls tend to key in on this possibility that they might be doing something wrong, or socially uncool by being so "confusing". You put the ball in their court and are "being honest" with them. You are forcing them to make a decision. By not making a decision, they are being socially awkward.
I've done this, and it has worked, but I've been experimenting with a different way of handling LMR.
Instead of freezing her out, I engage her by talking. This isn't an argument, but is more of a calling a spade spade, recognizing the elephant in the room kind of moment.
I do this when I'm sexually messing around with a girl (my dick is out, she's blowing, but she seems reluctant, for example). I can tell she's conflicted. Most girls will be weirded out by the fact that they are about to fuck a complete stranger on a first date. This is what players have to deal with.
Instead of trying to pretend that nothing happened I bring it up with the girl.
I'll tell her things like:
"Do you want me, yes or no?" She'll reply with some convoluted BS about not being sure or whatever, but I'll keep pushing her into a yes/no answer.
Then I'll tell her something like "I'm really confused. When I'm with someone, I need to feel like we are in it together (I do a kind of "go-team" gesture).. I need to feel a sense of freedom."
I've never had a girl who disagreed with this notion.
I might then look at them with a straight face and "I want to fuck you. Do you want me?"
The point is that I'm not trying to hide the awkwardness of the moment. I'm confronting it head on. I believe this a sign of strength of frame.
I ignore her ramblings. It's all a big shit-test as far as I'm concerned. If I've got a girl naked in my bed, I'm going to push things forward instead of letting the air out of sails by disengaging.
So far, it's worked with three out of four girls. I feel much better doing this then trying to pretend like everything is cool and passive aggressively going to my computer to fake like I'm looking something up (or whatever it is the Mystery Method prescribes).
To do this, I believe you need to have already established that you are not a normal, boring guy. You are cool guy who doesn't live by the normal people rules. You aren't used to girls being indecisive in these matters. It's not that it makes you uneasy, but it's "confusing".
The girls tend to key in on this possibility that they might be doing something wrong, or socially uncool by being so "confusing". You put the ball in their court and are "being honest" with them. You are forcing them to make a decision. By not making a decision, they are being socially awkward.