[el mechanico]

I refuse to be scared of women. I'm going to punch you in the face and go to jail if I have to and they all know it. Most of this can be avoided by just being slick.

We need a entire new thread about this. Theres been alot of relationship talk here lately.

[Cattle Rustler]

We need a "Red-Pill and Saul Goodman type lawyer" thread.

That way we can get one on the go in case SHTF. Trying to find one is quite difficult these days.

[JimNortonFan]

This is like reading your dog's diary and seeing that the puddle the dog told you was water was actually piss.

You probably suspected it was piss but you believed the dog when she said it was a spilled water bowl.

Dogs piss on the carpet, it's what they do.

Women let themselves get banged by dudes. It's what they do.

Think about it. Your "best friend" is friends with an RVF member. He probably likes to bang a lot. So he did.


I went out with this girl in college. I put her up on the pedestal and decided that she was too good to try and bang after she played hard to get after a date.

She ended up dating a friend of mine. The way it happened is I asked her up to my dorm room and she asked if I'd let her into the dorm so she could see my friend. I did it.

I was pissed at first but the guy was so cool I just got over it. We were best buddies through college. He ended up marrying her. He told me she got fed up with me not making the big move on her. Anyway, she wrapped the poor SOB around her finger and manipulated the shit out of him because he put her up on the pedestal after he banged her. He went from being in control to ceding all power to her because she slept with him. I couldn't say anything for obvious reasons.

I moved on to a gorgeous crazy Asian chick who every other guy in my social circle wanted but couldn't get.

Who cares about any one girl?

[CJ_W]

@op Wow. . .

wow.

some questions:

1)Do/Did you use condoms with your girl? if no: why not? (this is the main reason why I use condoms 100% of the time)

2)Why did you move in with a girl. . .that is just bad bad bad bad badbadbadbadbadbadbadbadbadbadbad bad.

3)Why did you make her your gf? Don't you know not to already?

4)Is it just me or are there just a lot of clueless guys in the red pill whatever? I mean These are some BAsic Basic Basic mistakes that people like even my grandmother would warn mew against:

My Grandmother's advice
1)DO NOT move in/live with/co-habitate etc. . . with a woman you are not married to.

. . .that's pretty much it.

Advice from my dad(given to me 15 years ago when I was a teenager)

1)"Don't get married."

. . .That's pretty much it.

This is advice I got from my family right before the internet even came out (it was just those 28k modems that were out then)

That was the best advice I ever got from anyone. and saved me Lots and lots of pain.

[jariel]

I make sure that the girls I deal with fear me, so I don't have to deal with any of the bullshit that's been mentioned on this board lately.

You have to not be afraid to raise your voice, throw something, hit a wall, when around a woman.

She should love you and worship you, but you really only get there if she also fears you.

[vinman]

I've paid for a couple of abortions. Am I sure that they were actually mine? Who GIVES A FUCK?!? I wan't about to take a chance. You dodged a bullet and the primary lessons to take away from all of this is you dodged a bullet, and are saving yourself longterm grief. You can't put a price on peace of mind.

[GameTheory]

[teh_skeeze]

You have no one to blame but yourself for reading her diary and not liking what you see. My main girl recently went through my phone while I was in the shower and saw a text from the conquest from the night before. She confronted me about it. I flipped that shit on her and told her to beat it for breaking my trust. If you are going to go through my phone, don't get mad at me for not liking what you see. After she calmed down I told her she can either accept it, or kick rocks. She's still my main girl, and hasn't gone through my phone. If she has, she hasn't said a damn word about it.

[Samseau]

(10-03-2013 10:33 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

You have no one to blame but yourself for reading her diary and not liking what you see. My main girl recently went through my phone while I was in the shower and saw a text from the conquest from the night before. She confronted me about it. I flipped that shit on her and told her to beat it for breaking my trust. If you are going to go through my phone, don't get mad at me for not liking what you see. After she calmed down I told her she can either accept it, or kick rocks. She's still my main girl, and hasn't gone through my phone. If she has, she hasn't said a damn word about it.

That works as a man, but not as a girl. You can't have your girl sleeping behind your back, it pretty much means she doesn't give a shit about you.

For guys, it's different. It's just sex. But if a woman cheats it's because she don't give a fuck about ya.

[teh_skeeze]

Maybe I used a bad example. The point of my story is that he has nobody to blame but himself for getting upset from getting information by violating someone's privacy. Don't get me wrong, it's good that he got the information (mainly that his friend is a bit of a snake). However, there's no sense in getting upset about what's in the past. All you can do is move forward. The biggest mistake is going back in the first place. I understand why past flames get back together trying to recapture the past, but there's a reason it didn't work out in the first place.

[Pyre]

Damn, I thought this thread was about me being able to read your girl's diary (with all the juicy bits included) not that you read it & only posted about one incident

[germanico]

(10-03-2013 01:23 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

Well, after reading her diary I found out she slept with my best friend about a week after I moved to Boston.

Ex best-friend.

Give her the choice to get her shit out of the house or you get too keep it, you shouldnt be paying for stuff that she leaves behind, and you should be getting your own furniture anyways.

Better keep those 1500 and get your own thats yours to keep no matter what. If she leaves anything behind, sell it.

[Ternarydemonite]

On the bright side, an abortion is way cheaper than any pregnancy. Think it wasn't yours? Try to prove in a court it isn't your spawn. An abortion is cheaper than most lawyers.

[eradicator]

(10-03-2013 05:35 PM)Laner Wrote:  

When she came out of the room she must have been hitting herself because she played the victim so well and looked shaken up.

Buddy just froze and didnt say a word until he was under arrest and in the presence of his lawyer. Lawyer made the police apologize and were laughed at by not knowing the difference between red wine and blood.

She ended up admitting everything. Otherwise who knows.

Yet another reason not to stick your dick in crazy

[Laner]

(10-03-2013 11:30 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(10-03-2013 05:35 PM)Laner Wrote:  

When she came out of the room she must have been hitting herself because she played the victim so well and looked shaken up.

Buddy just froze and didnt say a word until he was under arrest and in the presence of his lawyer. Lawyer made the police apologize and were laughed at by not knowing the difference between red wine and blood.

She ended up admitting everything. Otherwise who knows.

Yet another reason not to stick your dick in crazy

The red flags are so much more apparent at the age I am now. I often wonder what life would have been like if I knew these things in my early 20's (buddy is 24 and his girl is 21). I saw crazy in her, he saw crazy hot and wild sex.

Perhaps its better to find out the hard way what women are capable of.

[silverbullit]

Guess you need a new best friend.

[anamericaninbangkok]

Remember these words:

Heartless
Cold
Brutal Efficiency
Cover Your Ass

Do not let her words sway you no matter what.

Many, many years ago I was living with a girl. Things weren't going well. She got pissed off at me and slammed the door in my face. Well, she intended to slam it in my face, instead, she slammed it hard as fuck on my arm. Hurt like hell. I remained composed, but got in her face. She didn't give a fuck she nearly broke my arm but it was on like fucking Donkey Kong. She didn't like me getting in her face so she start slapping me. I backed away and walked out the door and down the hallway to the kitchen. I get in the kitchen and she's still trying to hit me. She punches me in the face. That was the last straw...I gave a her a short right to the chin (50%) and down she went...down goes Frazier, down goes Frazier! The bitch was out cold and dropped like a sack of fucking potatoes. I jumped on my motorcycle and split.

The next day, the cops come-a-knocking. "Sir, turn around and put your hands behind your back." Off to jail I went. I spent the night in jail and the following morning, I'm released. She's waiting outside the jail to take me home. I go home with her, fuming. She's all emotional, crying, sobbing like the little cunt that she was. I walked in and told her, "You're out." My name was on the lease. "If you don't leave, I'm throwing your ass out." She left. When she came back to pick up her shit, I had a friend with me. I never talked to the twat again. I had been with her for around two years. She tried to communicate with me and I refused to say a word to her.

Bitches are far more mercenary than most guys...men need to be fucking emotionless, heartless, and cold. I'm of the opinion that if a woman punches you, she deserves a smack or to have her ass knocked out. If they want to be equals, they need to be treated as such.

[Altair]

(10-04-2013 09:51 PM)anamericaninbangkok Wrote:  

Remember these words:

Heartless
Cold
Brutal Efficiency
Cover Your Ass

Do not let her words sway you no matter what.

Many, many years ago I was living with a girl. Things weren't going well. She got pissed off at me and slammed the door in my face. Well, she intended to slam it in my face, instead, she slammed it hard as fuck on my arm. Hurt like hell. I remained composed, but got in her face. She didn't give a fuck she nearly broke my arm but it was on like fucking Donkey Kong. She didn't like me getting in her face so she start slapping me. I backed away and walked out the door and down the hallway to the kitchen. I get in the kitchen and she's still trying to hit me. She punches me in the face. That was the last straw...I gave a her a short right to the chin (50%) and down she went...down goes Frazier, down goes Frazier! The bitch was out cold and dropped like a sack of fucking potatoes. I jumped on my motorcycle and split.

The next day, the cops come-a-knocking. "Sir, turn around and put your hands behind your back." Off to jail I went. I spent the night in jail and the following morning, I'm released. She's waiting outside the jail to take me home. I go home with her, fuming. She's all emotional, crying, sobbing like the little cunt that she was. I walked in and told her, "You're out." My name was on the lease. "If you don't leave, I'm throwing your ass out." She left. When she came back to pick up her shit, I had a friend with me. I never talked to the twat again. I had been with her for around two years. She tried to communicate with me and I refused to say a word to her.

Bitches are far more mercenary than most guys...men need to be fucking emotionless, heartless, and cold. I'm of the opinion that if a woman punches you, she deserves a smack or to have her ass knocked out. If they want to be equals, they need to be treated as such.

decisive ruthlessness is key. lotta guy who learn game and try to become alpha forget to cultivate this. they're merely happy getting ass but still being soft internally

[Duke Castile]

frenchie how about an update? (I hate it when guys come on her asking for advice, they get gold, then disappear)

[Vaun]

What a horrible situation to have put yourself in. You could very well fuck your entire life over here if you're not careful.

This is very serious stuff man. Either, you have a kid with her and you end up paying her a large chunk of your income for the next 20 years, seriously inhibiting your chances in life(a new car, a bank account, travel, education, more women, a nice home, general freedom, starting a business, on and on). Or, since she was such an evil conniving cunt before, who gave no care for you at all, and in my opinion committed one of the worst acts against you someone could, who is to say she doesn't make false domestic violence claims against you, or tries to have you beaten up, or worse? You don't really seem to care all that much. You're not worth it? You don't love yourself that much? Then since not, this is what will probably happen to you if you stick around.

Is she on the lease? No - then get the fuck out.

Get a protection order if she is slow or nutty, imho they are both kind of the same. Oh, and call a lawyer.

If she has to stay, then pack your stuff and leave. Crash at someones place, go back to moms, whatever, just get out of there before you get her pregnant, or you get a DV charge, or another false paternity claim, or your 'buddies' come over and start tag teaming her while you are fixing your phone.

[Neo]

(10-03-2013 09:40 PM)jariel Wrote:  

I make sure that the girls I deal with fear me, so I don't have to deal with any of the bullshit that's been mentioned on this board lately.

You have to not be afraid to raise your voice, throw something, hit a wall, when around a woman.

She should love you and worship you, but you really only get there if she also fears you.

Agree with this. For the OP the situation is what it is at this point, but a girl who fears you will not pull this shit.

I read some advice on pick up and it's like just not care, anger shows you're out of control, blah blah blah. Sure if the girl is a fuck buddy or whatever no reason to care, but if dating seriously she has to know that you are capable of crazy shit. The threat is stronger than the execution.

Instilling fear can be done simply through a death stare or the stuff above.

It's especially effective when you're a pretty chill guy who rarely gets angry. Then she does something or something happens and you get really fucking angry. What does she think? 'Holy shit, I've never seen this side of him before, I'm scared and I better not piss him off.'

[Duke Castile]

(10-05-2013 07:31 PM)Neo Wrote:  

(10-03-2013 09:40 PM)jariel Wrote:  

I make sure that the girls I deal with fear me, so I don't have to deal with any of the bullshit that's been mentioned on this board lately.

You have to not be afraid to raise your voice, throw something, hit a wall, when around a woman.

She should love you and worship you, but you really only get there if she also fears you.

Agree with this. For the OP the situation is what it is at this point, but a girl who fears you will not pull this shit.

I read some advice on pick up and it's like just not care, anger shows you're out of control, blah blah blah. Sure if the girl is a fuck buddy or whatever no reason to care, but if dating seriously she has to know that you are capable of crazy shit. The threat is stronger than the execution.

Instilling fear can be done simply through a death stare or the stuff above.

It's especially effective when you're a pretty chill guy who rarely gets angry. Then she does something or something happens and you get really fucking angry. What does she think? 'Holy shit, I've never seen this side of him before, I'm scared and I better not piss him off.'

Jariel's advice would be great in any other place but the US.

Punching a wall? Guess what? That's called a "terrorist threat" and you'll be arrested for it in addition to the DV charge.

Girls follow the advice of the last person they talked to. You get this girl pissed enough and it doesn't mean a damn thing.

It only takes one to ruin you.

[Cattle Rustler]

As fisto mentioned, women listen to the last person. I remember my mom telling my dad that her coworkers told her she could take away 60% of his check if they divorced among other BS.

Was it true? Nope
Did she listen? Yes
Why? Because they were her coworkers.

Merely mentioning something about kids or her will be enough reason for cops to take you in for domestic violence or making threats.

[Samseau]

(10-04-2013 09:51 PM)anamericaninbangkok Wrote:  

Remember these words:

Heartless
Cold
Brutal Efficiency
Cover Your Ass

Do not let her words sway you no matter what.

Many, many years ago I was living with a girl. Things weren't going well. She got pissed off at me and slammed the door in my face. Well, she intended to slam it in my face, instead, she slammed it hard as fuck on my arm. Hurt like hell. I remained composed, but got in her face. She didn't give a fuck she nearly broke my arm but it was on like fucking Donkey Kong. She didn't like me getting in her face so she start slapping me. I backed away and walked out the door and down the hallway to the kitchen. I get in the kitchen and she's still trying to hit me. She punches me in the face. That was the last straw...I gave a her a short right to the chin (50%) and down she went...down goes Frazier, down goes Frazier! The bitch was out cold and dropped like a sack of fucking potatoes. I jumped on my motorcycle and split.

The next day, the cops come-a-knocking. "Sir, turn around and put your hands behind your back." Off to jail I went. I spent the night in jail and the following morning, I'm released. She's waiting outside the jail to take me home. I go home with her, fuming. She's all emotional, crying, sobbing like the little cunt that she was. I walked in and told her, "You're out." My name was on the lease. "If you don't leave, I'm throwing your ass out." She left. When she came back to pick up her shit, I had a friend with me. I never talked to the twat again. I had been with her for around two years. She tried to communicate with me and I refused to say a word to her.

Bitches are far more mercenary than most guys...men need to be fucking emotionless, heartless, and cold. I'm of the opinion that if a woman punches you, she deserves a smack or to have her ass knocked out. If they want to be equals, they need to be treated as such.

What kind of charges did you have to deal with? Did you ever shake them off?

[anamericaninbangkok]

(10-05-2013 08:20 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(10-04-2013 09:51 PM)anamericaninbangkok Wrote:  

Remember these words:

Heartless
Cold
Brutal Efficiency
Cover Your Ass

Do not let her words sway you no matter what.

Many, many years ago I was living with a girl. Things weren't going well. She got pissed off at me and slammed the door in my face. Well, she intended to slam it in my face, instead, she slammed it hard as fuck on my arm. Hurt like hell. I remained composed, but got in her face. She didn't give a fuck she nearly broke my arm but it was on like fucking Donkey Kong. She didn't like me getting in her face so she start slapping me. I backed away and walked out the door and down the hallway to the kitchen. I get in the kitchen and she's still trying to hit me. She punches me in the face. That was the last straw...I gave a her a short right to the chin (50%) and down she went...down goes Frazier, down goes Frazier! The bitch was out cold and dropped like a sack of fucking potatoes. I jumped on my motorcycle and split.

The next day, the cops come-a-knocking. "Sir, turn around and put your hands behind your back." Off to jail I went. I spent the night in jail and the following morning, I'm released. She's waiting outside the jail to take me home. I go home with her, fuming. She's all emotional, crying, sobbing like the little cunt that she was. I walked in and told her, "You're out." My name was on the lease. "If you don't leave, I'm throwing your ass out." She left. When she came back to pick up her shit, I had a friend with me. I never talked to the twat again. I had been with her for around two years. She tried to communicate with me and I refused to say a word to her.

Bitches are far more mercenary than most guys...men need to be fucking emotionless, heartless, and cold. I'm of the opinion that if a woman punches you, she deserves a smack or to have her ass knocked out. If they want to be equals, they need to be treated as such.

What kind of charges did you have to deal with? Did you ever shake them off?

Ruthless was the word I was looking for - sometimes it pays to be this way.

As far as the charges, she either retracted her statement to the police or told them she wasn't testifying against me because the charges were dropped. I never asked. I thought about pressing charges against her but just wanted out of the situation.