I say this as guy who is good looking, wealthy, but only 5'5... and currently has a 5'6 blond sleeping in his bed.
Sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. Certain women are biologically "programmed" to want tall men. It's usually short girls, or girls who are very tall. You're usually fine with girls who are 5'3-5'6; they tend to not give a shit. (I'm addicted to short girls. I find they're the hardest nuts to crack).
You can have cash, looks, fitness, hobbies, game, and pretty much everything and sometimes you'll just get blown out on the height issue.
My only advice is to wear boots and lift big. Every inch counts, especially when it comes to approaches. Once you bang them, the height issue usually goes away.
However, you also have to accept that some women simply won't date shorter men. Chalk it up to their loss. You don't want to date women who aren't physically attracted to you anyway -- it makes life too difficult. You want them to be offering you blowjobs, not begging for them.
Candidly, I got blown out this week for the "short" reason. I get the girl back to my house, get her naked, but she's putting up some LMR. I'm a bit surprised, but I'm cool about it, whatever. Usually once they're back at my house and naked it's game on. During the night we'd had tons of kino, kissing, etc. I thought I'd set it up pretty well.
Next day she sends me a text along these lines: "Hank, you're such a great guy, I had so much fun, and I so want to like you. But I can't get over the physical attraction thing. I just usually date guys who are 6 foot tall and over. I came back to your house for sex, but I just couldn't get over the height thing. I'm so sorry, because I love spending time with you. I really hope we can still hang out. I had so much fun with you."
It is what it is (and of course, she is still trying to hang out, and now getting pissed about my complete lack of interest). My response was along the line of "cool, no worries." Then she sent me a few texts along the lines of "I'd like to hang out. What are you up to?" I responded two days later very benignly, with basically "work stuff, kind of jammed up this week. love to hang but gotta make moves and shakes." And of course, this pissed her off, leading to a bunch of text messages about how awful men are, how bad dating is, yadda yadda.
Girl in my bed this morning? Sees I have morning wood and goes down on it without me asking or trying.
To quote the Rational Male, "desire cannot be negotiated."
"Some things are in our control and others not." -Epictetus
Sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. Certain women are biologically "programmed" to want tall men. It's usually short girls, or girls who are very tall. You're usually fine with girls who are 5'3-5'6; they tend to not give a shit. (I'm addicted to short girls. I find they're the hardest nuts to crack).
You can have cash, looks, fitness, hobbies, game, and pretty much everything and sometimes you'll just get blown out on the height issue.
My only advice is to wear boots and lift big. Every inch counts, especially when it comes to approaches. Once you bang them, the height issue usually goes away.
However, you also have to accept that some women simply won't date shorter men. Chalk it up to their loss. You don't want to date women who aren't physically attracted to you anyway -- it makes life too difficult. You want them to be offering you blowjobs, not begging for them.
Candidly, I got blown out this week for the "short" reason. I get the girl back to my house, get her naked, but she's putting up some LMR. I'm a bit surprised, but I'm cool about it, whatever. Usually once they're back at my house and naked it's game on. During the night we'd had tons of kino, kissing, etc. I thought I'd set it up pretty well.
Next day she sends me a text along these lines: "Hank, you're such a great guy, I had so much fun, and I so want to like you. But I can't get over the physical attraction thing. I just usually date guys who are 6 foot tall and over. I came back to your house for sex, but I just couldn't get over the height thing. I'm so sorry, because I love spending time with you. I really hope we can still hang out. I had so much fun with you."
It is what it is (and of course, she is still trying to hang out, and now getting pissed about my complete lack of interest). My response was along the line of "cool, no worries." Then she sent me a few texts along the lines of "I'd like to hang out. What are you up to?" I responded two days later very benignly, with basically "work stuff, kind of jammed up this week. love to hang but gotta make moves and shakes." And of course, this pissed her off, leading to a bunch of text messages about how awful men are, how bad dating is, yadda yadda.
Girl in my bed this morning? Sees I have morning wood and goes down on it without me asking or trying.
To quote the Rational Male, "desire cannot be negotiated."
"Some things are in our control and others not." -Epictetus
