[chexmix]

I currently have 3 fuck buddies and while it's very fun and I'm getting laid 2-5 times a week on average, I'm not really practicing game anymore at all. The past few days I've picked up 2 new girls and they both want to make sex with me a regular weekly thing. Part of me says "I've made it!", while the other says that I'm going to get rusty and if I allow this to go on for too long, I'll be screwed in the long run when these girls decide to quit. I just will not have that much time to night game at all anymore, while day game will be still very limited.
Do you more experienced guys out there limit the amount of girls you have on call and just upgrade when you can? Or do you just try to get as many as possible to be available to hook up? When do you prioritize practicing game, over sex?

I am not trying to brag, I just want to hear first hand experience of what paths each option could take me down if I go down it long enough. Thanks for your help.

[Parlay44]

It's a dangerous place. You must focus grasshopper. Evil things like feelings develop in female fuck buddies.
Beware of accidentally pregnancy.

[space]

If you're regularly achieving quantity then try to increase quality.

[WestIndianArchie]

Only sex addicts, narcissists, and sociopaths are immune to the danger of easy and regular sex with an attractive woman.

You are in a better place than most players in that you weren't satisfied with your primary FB. Most of us, self included, will look up one day and realize we're in relationships with girls we don't love.

For mortal men, we have to decide that the chase of new pussy is actually better than the routine of good sex with an attractive chick.

Then, you have to take proactive steps to limit your contact with previous women. And then go out knowing that you might not get any new pussy.

This life isn't for everyone, not forever.

WIA

[soup]

(09-17-2013 10:49 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Only sex addicts, narcissists, and sociopaths are immune to the danger of easy and regular sex with an attractive woman.

You are in a better place than most players in that you weren't satisfied with your primary FB. Most of us, self included, will look up one day and realize we're in relationships with girls we don't love.

For mortal men, we have to decide that the chase of new pussy is actually better than the routine of good sex with an attractive chick.

Then, you have to take proactive steps to limit your contact with previous women. And then go out knowing that you might not get any new pussy.

This life isn't for everyone, not forever.

WIA

This is so true, and I'm dealing with it right now. I've got a girlfriend that I'm seeing who I'm definitely not in love with.

I get ancy or suspicious in these situations.

I think about relationships like this:

There's me, and there are all these other things that need attention. Those things could be: need for ltr, need for new pussy, need for higher quality pussy, work, music, my family, a girl, several girls, etc.

I see them all as different voices and try to understand what they want.

[Christian McQueen]

The irony of having a harem with consistent sex and wanting new pussy lies in the quest for fresh unexplored pink pussy.

Pursue gaming new girls IF that's what drives you. Don't pursue new girls for ego only.

Some guys are content with the same rotation and some have a New Pussy drive that is hard to be quenched. I figured out along time ago, it's not about frequent sex for me; it's about new sex.

Harems make you lazy from my experience; while pursuing new pussy keeps you sharp.

[MrXY]

You should always be working to bring new girls into your funnel-you won't work as hard when you have a harem as when you don't have any regular girls but you still need to be approaching, getting numbers, and trying to bang new girls

At some point, probably sooner than you think , some or all of your fuck buddies will drop off and you will want to have girls in reserve

Plus, knowing you have other girls gives you that abundance mentality which improves your game with your fuck buddies-girls can tell when you have lots of options.

[DVY]

Yes, I am going through this right now. Cutting down on my harem. Some girls I haven't seen for over 3 weeks. I enjoy hanging w/my homies more than girls, a lot more now. I need sex about 2-3 times/week, beyond that is gravy. If its new girls. I can do a new chick everyday.

[chexmix]

(09-17-2013 12:00 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

I figured out along time ago, it's not about frequent sex for me; it's about new sex.

Harems make you lazy from my experience; while pursuing new pussy keeps you sharp.

This is exactly how I feel. I think I'm going to put 2 of the girls in the reserves. Force myself to have two days at minimum for just gaming.

1 girl I know is getting attached so I'll drop that. The other is not good quality so I can drop her too. The rest are worth keeping since they are still fresh for now.

[Giovonny]

You can never have too many. You can only run out of time, money, energy, or inspiration.

The dictator of South Korea has teams of fresh girls delivered everyday.

Saddam Hussein had dorms built on his property to house girls.

The only difference between these guys and us is time, money, energy, access.

[germanico]

You need to fuck them at least once a month to keep them around.

So if you are gaming actively 2 nights a week, and take one night off for yourself. (A necessity if you are dealing with that ammount of women), then that leaves you with 4 nights to deal with your regulars.

Or you could only do social and day game and entertain your fuck buddies 6 nights a week.

[Parlay44]

Feelings

[jariel]

Fuck buddies aren't for entertaining, they're for fucking.

If you do anything outside of sex with the chick, then she's not really a fuck buddy, and she won't see herself as your fuck buddy, but as a girl you actually like.

[DVY]

@Jariel- not true. There are all shades of gray. I personally like more than f-buddies and less than GFs, hence harem chicks.

[jariel]

Actually it is.

I don't take a fuck buddy to dinner.

Furthermore, you're assuming that what you think/feel about the relationship you're having with her is similar to how she views it, and that is never the case.

[VincentVinturi]

This is just my experience but I wouldn't worry too much about getting rusty.

There's no reason you can't keep gaming new girls. Besides, the girls in your rotation...you can't just slack off with them. You still need to be dominant, firm, a good lay, etc., etc. So you'll still be practicing your game, just in a somewhat different context.

What I like about the harem model is how economical it is in terms of time, money and energy.

You get a few cute girls who you have good chemistry with into rotation and your basic sex needs are satisfied without much effort (beyond the initial effort to get them in there).

Meanwhile, you can keep meeting up with other girls at a more casual pace. And slowly, organically, you upgrade the girls you like the most to the top of the heap, and forget about the brats and lukewarm lovers.

Knowing you have several hot chicks you can bang at a text's notice helps you filter ruthlessly and calmly and refuse to put up with bad behavior. Builds character! ;-)

It also gives you a certain glow that other women sense ("this guys gets a lot of poosy...")

You asked "When do you prioritize practicing game, over sex?" Why not do both? They aren't mutually exclusive.

I try to work a lot of daygame and online game into my life. So by day I'm getting new leads and in the evening time I'm following up.

Like Germanico said, you need to give each girl a minimum dose of maintenance dick or she'll drop out of the program. So you may find that actually the hardest part is deciding which girl you want to see when, and having enough baby-juice in your ballsack to match the demand!

[LEMONed IScream]

Don't you mean North Korea?
The fat guy? Really? LOL!

(09-17-2013 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

You can never have too many. You can only run out of time, money, energy, or inspiration.

The dictator of South Korea has teams of fresh girls delivered everyday.

Saddam Hussein had dorms built on his property to house girls.

The only difference between these guys and us is time, money, energy, access.

[EsperZebrah]

[NSFW]
I had a hard time finding this video but here is the link.
"If you are jungling 5 or 6 women and the numbers don't add up, try multiplication." complete video

Some clips

[CJ]

(09-17-2013 11:17 AM)soup Wrote:  

(09-17-2013 10:49 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Only sex addicts, narcissists, and sociopaths are immune to the danger of easy and regular sex with an attractive woman.

You are in a better place than most players in that you weren't satisfied with your primary FB. Most of us, self included, will look up one day and realize we're in relationships with girls we don't love.

For mortal men, we have to decide that the chase of new pussy is actually better than the routine of good sex with an attractive chick.

Then, you have to take proactive steps to limit your contact with previous women. And then go out knowing that you might not get any new pussy.

This life isn't for everyone, not forever.

WIA

This is so true, and I'm dealing with it right now. I've got a girlfriend that I'm seeing who I'm definitely not in love with.

I get ancy or suspicious in these situations.

I think about relationships like this:

There's me, and there are all these other things that need attention. Those things could be: need for ltr, need for new pussy, need for higher quality pussy, work, music, my family, a girl, several girls, etc.

I see them all as different voices and try to understand what they want.

It's very true. Before I got into game, I was talking with my brother (who is very experienced) and he warned me to be careful, because you get to a certain point down this road in which you can no longer turn back.

Unfortunately, I believe I've reached that point. The good thing is I don't let girls get away with the typical BS they pulled on other guys, I think several moves ahead, and I know how easy a girl is to replace. The bad thing is, I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever actually love a girl again. I've had several girls tell me their feelings, only for me to reply with something like, "Oh that's just the alcohol talking." or "Ha, you don't really mean that."

[Stratos]

Fellas, I've tried a lot and prefer a main girl or two and 1 or 2 in backburner reserve for occasional meetups. That makes it very easy to get rid of any who take away energy or give any trouble, and keep things fun and casual. The funny thing is that the girls like being part of that program much more than a chump who chases them. Also line up a "friend" or two in other cities you visit for 1-2x/year rendezvous...they like that program too, the renowned "Prince from Afar".

You have to have time for your own empire building and friends, so I try not to overdo it...don't always succeed