[Teddykgb]

(09-14-2013 08:28 AM)liveandlearn7 Wrote:  

(09-14-2013 08:15 AM)murrb Wrote:  

I used to have this problem until recently.

Once I started banging multiple women at least one time a day I could easily go 20 minutes plus easily without cumming except once I start lasting so long I run into a new problem. The girl couldn't stay wet for long enough so I had to start using lube more often in the later rounds.

Before I was banging multiple women I would masterbate every morning and by the time evening came around when I would fuck a girl having already masterbated that morning help me last much longer.

The thing with this is masturbation in the morning decreases my ability to go for multiple rounds, so if I fuck up the first round I may have to wait a long time for round 2. It also increases my chances of getting whiskey dick and lowers my drive to sarge.

Yeah for me it was a tough balance at first where I ran into that problem but it seems like recently I have broke through that barrier somehow. I don't know once specific I can attribute it to but for some reason stuff just changed.

[soup]

(09-14-2013 04:10 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

Soup, you are wrong.

You validate yourself by fucking a bunch of broads.

Guess what. That isn't that hard.

When those broads come back for more, then you are getting somewhere.

Been there done that with a pile of SNL's. It's not that big of a deal.

When they are looking for your ass, then you know you have arrived.

Edit-I've been to NYC before. That's game on easy.

Roll in the same town of 10K for 10 years and get back to me.

Not hating on you, just saying locale makes a difference.

And NYC is easy.

I do have them coming back for more, and I think it's good because it gives you more options, but game should be about you first and foremost.

I used to have "premature ejaculation".

You know what? Unless you have an actual physical disability, it boils down to anxiety.

You have to get to the root of that.

Instead of fighting against it, listen to it. What does it want? What does your dick want?

Going and boning a lot of girls can help you get over anxiety, regardless of whether or not you live a big city.

If you want to build a harem, then yes, you'd better be fucking those girls until they cum.

The most important thing is that your mind be in sync with your dick. If you are in a small town, don't have anything physically wrong with you, and you aren't lining with your orgasms, don't fight against your dick.

Your dick is your soul.

Maybe you are going to fast. Slow down.

If you feel like you are about to cum, take the tempo down. Don't start pounding until you feel comfortable.

The point is that you have to go at your own pace, not hers or what you think you are supposed be doing.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

I've noticed that going deep but slow allows me to last as long as I want. It's when I start doing machine-gun shallow thrusting that I start having problems. My theory is it that this sort of thrusting is too similar to masturbation, whereas slow but deeper thrusting is more like what sex is meant to be.

[not-a-pua]

Get a lidocain spray from the doc. There are some in low dose for premature ejaculation.

[liveandlearn7]

(09-14-2013 09:40 AM)not-a-pua Wrote:  

Get a lidocain spray from the doc. There are some in low dose for premature ejaculation.

I suggested this before but I think you'd HAVE to wear condoms, otherwise her pussy will get numb too. You'd also have to put it on on the low, in the bathroom right before sex. Way too awkward to just break out in front of her lol

[blackglasses]

Look at the wall
- pull out for a sec
- switch speeds
-jerk off before
- get bj first then eat her so u can get hard again
-take
-melatonin it's natural and helps you relax
-train your core

[not-a-pua]

Never tell her that you use that stuff! It's your secret to make her come 5 times! Apply 30 minutes before sex. Go to the bathroom, take a wet towel and wipe the dick off. Now there is no taste. Enjoy pounding.

[soup]

Just go easy. Trust yourself and your dick.

If you are cumming too fast, it means that you are rushing.

[Pilgrim37]

3 beers quarantees an extended performance and an encore!

[Pyre]

(09-14-2013 01:52 AM)Dex Wrote:  

what is your go to move when you ejaculated after a few minutes or shorter? do you play it off? Do you pretend that it didn't happen? Usually I have the opposite problem (taking 20 minutes to cum), but I was put in that position recently because I did no fap and was 2 weeks in and was so horny that I could have cummed while kissing her. I held back as long I could which was about 2 minutes.

Smile and say "first rounds for me, seconds for u "

[liveandlearn7]

(09-15-2013 12:47 PM)Pyre Wrote:  

(09-14-2013 01:52 AM)Dex Wrote:  

what is your go to move when you ejaculated after a few minutes or shorter? do you play it off? Do you pretend that it didn't happen? Usually I have the opposite problem (taking 20 minutes to cum), but I was put in that position recently because I did no fap and was 2 weeks in and was so horny that I could have cummed while kissing her. I held back as long I could which was about 2 minutes.

Smile and say "first rounds for me, seconds for u "

Slick!

[Parlay44]

I'd hate to say it but rub one out before you see her. The 2nd session is always longer.
She'll thank you for lasting longer.

[Timoteo]

(09-14-2013 02:16 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

You spew out a load of spunk and your dick goes flaccid, and you want to try to pretend like nothing happened?

On those occasions when I squirt a little sooner than I'd like (usually that first nut when I wake up), I just keep pumping like nothing happened. I actually don't go soft after I ejaculate, so she never knows I came.

How many of you maintain erection after ejaculation?