I think they weren't expecting "alphaness" or whatever you wanna call it from you since you befriended them for some time, and when you did, they instinctively tested if you were alpha or orbiter/beta/whatever. I would try to push or schedule another date, and if this happens again I'd drop them.
About your game, just follow the advices above: bang first, friendship second. In short, the traits that you need to work on are persistence and aloofness, but remember: persistence is key as long as it doesn't turn into neediness (basically, if you feel like you are "selling out" or becoming a "pussy beggar" it's time to stop pursuing), and aloofness is only useful when it makes a girl lust for you (ie. ignoring her constantly AND never making a move before bang can be bad but it can be good to ignore her post-bang); if you still wanna bang those girls you should try to schedule another date with them and act unapologetic about those "incidents" - you are a man who is following one of the prime directives of manhood: bang as much as possible. Why should you apologize for being a man to them?
About your game, just follow the advices above: bang first, friendship second. In short, the traits that you need to work on are persistence and aloofness, but remember: persistence is key as long as it doesn't turn into neediness (basically, if you feel like you are "selling out" or becoming a "pussy beggar" it's time to stop pursuing), and aloofness is only useful when it makes a girl lust for you (ie. ignoring her constantly AND never making a move before bang can be bad but it can be good to ignore her post-bang); if you still wanna bang those girls you should try to schedule another date with them and act unapologetic about those "incidents" - you are a man who is following one of the prime directives of manhood: bang as much as possible. Why should you apologize for being a man to them?
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