[Dusty]

The only reasons younger guys might show her interest is they probably reckon its an easy low effort smash.

[Veloce]

(08-22-2013 01:18 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

^ Nice find, Samseau!

Seriously. The RVF needs an official photo-sleuth like that. Proving time and time again the sheer speed these hamsters are spinning at; they'll convince you that you should chase after them for all of the qualities OTHER than their looks. And yet, what is their main concern when it comes to being photographed? Looking as flattering, young, made up, and slim as possible of course!

[metalhaze]

"single by choice" hahaha....only one reason...they're easy.

[Bacchus]

I'm calling it. Some hog's going to write an article that says fat women make the best lovers.

[JackDavey]

(08-22-2013 07:50 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

I'm calling it. Some hog's going to write an article that says fat women make the best lovers.

I'm not proud, but I'll admit, that when I was young and stupid and unaware of my true potential, I hooked up with a chubby chick. She gave the best blowjobs I have ever had, and I've had a lot of blowjobs. Still would not do it again though.

[JackDavey]

Seven reasons to date an older woman (revised):

1. You're under 21, and she buys you alcohol.
2. She's rich, and buys you a car.
3. You're a hunchback.
4. She has a hot 18yo daughter.
5. She is your parole officer.
6. You are making and selling MILF porn.
7. She has two hot 18yo daughters.

[AnonymousBosch]

(08-22-2013 10:41 AM)Dusty Wrote:  

"As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age"

Yeah, right.

"So much so, that I wrote an entire article begging for date!"

[speakeasy]

(08-22-2013 11:08 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 10:41 AM)Dusty Wrote:  

"As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age"

Yeah, right.

"So much so, that I wrote an entire article begging for date!"

I do wonder about this though. Now we know that men with high choice are probably not chasing 35+ women for serious relationships. But I still wouldn't be surprised if such women are still getting tons of attention, even if it's from Betas, attention to a woman is still attention.

[Cattle Rustler]

(08-22-2013 11:58 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I do wonder about this though. Now we know that men with high choice are probably not chasing 35+ women for serious relationships. But I still wouldn't be surprised if such women are still getting tons of attention, even if it's from Betas, attention to a woman is still attention.

You won't believe the amount of secretive cougar/milf lovers that abound since the trend took off. Before there was not much competition but now older ladies get hit on quite a lot.

That's in addition to the betas/white knights that regularly hit on women their age.

[AnonymousBosch]

(08-23-2013 12:23 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

You won't believe the amount of secretive cougar/milf lovers that abound since the trend took off. Before there was not much competition but now older ladies get hit on quite a lot.

Cougars are simply the new Fatties: hit on because they're seen as 'easy'.

Wasn't there a recent internet dating study that rejected the whole MILF myth?

[speakeasy]

(08-23-2013 12:23 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 11:58 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I do wonder about this though. Now we know that men with high choice are probably not chasing 35+ women for serious relationships. But I still wouldn't be surprised if such women are still getting tons of attention, even if it's from Betas, attention to a woman is still attention.

You won't believe the amount of secretive cougar/milf lovers that abound since the trend took off. Before there was not much competition but now older ladies get hit on quite a lot.

That's in addition to the betas/white knights that regularly hit on women their age.

Well, I guess the silver lining is fewer competition for 20-something women. More power to the cougar-hunters.

[Cattle Rustler]

(08-23-2013 12:36 AM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

Cougars are simply the new Fatties: hit on because they're seen as 'easy'.

Wasn't there a recent internet dating study that rejected the whole MILF myth?

Haven't heard anything about the study, if you find it feel free to post it.

Cougars know they are worth more nowadays, again...swarms of young guys putting them on a pedestal.

How the trend skyrocketed: Guys are dumb enough believe they will find a cougar that will pay all their bills AND fuck them like a Russian Natasha without doing anything in return.

I blame the stupid Cougarlife commercials. Like this one: "How about I buy you a drink". The "you fold sweaters for a living" line is epic.

For the record, the site used to be pretty legit....before they turned into a scammy website. Now you buy membership for 1-3-6 months and get credits. Each message is 5 credits. The 3 month membership gets you 300 credits, so you can only message 60 girls before buying more credits....even if your membership hasn't expired. I used 95 credits before somehow my 205 credits vanished and customer support never got back to me.

P.S - There are guys who are 35 and 50 years old on there....looking for an "older woman" fantasy.

Edit: Before I get called out for flip-flopping, older women put in the work with guys their age due to competition from younger girls BUT know they are "valuable" with younger guys. They know we're just SNL or FB material, in some cases....we're the hunted.

[Kingsley Davis]

(08-22-2013 11:58 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 11:08 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 10:41 AM)Dusty Wrote:  

"As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age"

Yeah, right.

"So much so, that I wrote an entire article begging for date!"

I do wonder about this though. Now we know that men with high choice are probably not chasing 35+ women for serious relationships. But I still wouldn't be surprised if such women are still getting tons of attention, even if it's from Betas, attention to a woman is still attention.

Her whining about dating older women is just her hamster rationalizing that betas should still pay her attention while she hold out for Mr Big.

[AnonymousBosch]

(08-23-2013 12:56 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-23-2013 12:36 AM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

Wasn't there a recent internet dating study that rejected the whole MILF myth?

Haven't heard anything about the study, if you find it feel free to post it.

I remembered it from a couple of years back:

'Cougar' Phenomenon A Myth, Welsh Study Finds

It's worth a read. Note the 'media construct' comment - which is driven by Higher-Educated Childess Women. Yeah, they're speaking about relationship dating, not casual sex, but, I simply have never seen men going off with old women in the wild, except on television.

"... a clear beneficiary would be the 'cougar' or 'boy-toy' dating agencies themselves.

Hence, 'stories' like this one:

Top 10 Holiday Spots For Cougars Named

Notice who is describing her sizzling holidays?

I think it's our duty to shame other men out of taking the 'cougar' concept seriously. Shoot it down.

[Duke Castile]

You mean you PAID to get on a website to date older women?

Because they "put in the work"?

This is your choice and I respect that but if that's your only reason....

Get better at sex man. Young girls love acting like they're in a porno, especially when you make them cum like they're in one.

[Cattle Rustler]

(08-23-2013 04:51 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

You mean you PAID to get on a website to date older women?

Because they "put in the work"?

This is your choice and I respect that but if that's your only reason....

Get better at sex man. Young girls love acting like they're in a porno, especially when you make them cum like they're in one.

Thanks for your input Fisto, as always...respectful. I get what you're saying and as I get older I see your point of view. It's just that girls my age (I'm 21) seem normal to me, nothing exiting there. To each his own, you get more younger gals and I get more older ones this way.

Whenever I paid to be on the site it was for various reasons.

1 - They're centrally located, no need to search OKC.
2 - They want someone younger, there's no "hit and miss" on OKC
3 - They're don't flake as much, women on match actually want to meet...because they pay.
4 - They're dtf, after all they joined a cougar site.

My only problem with it was the mentality in some profiles, 30/40/X year olds calling themselves cougars but only want to date a man 4-6 years younger than her. It's like....do you even know what "cougar" means?

[Cattle Rustler]

accidental double post.

[JimNortonFan]

So, I was 21 and a 5'8" 37 year old divorcee with Mansfield chest and Kardashian can invites me to her place so she can do my laundry for me.

Was it Beta for me to smash?

Should I have found a younger woman?

Ham and eggs for breakfast in the morning.

No emotional hang ups regarding us "connecting".

She had her own place with a hot tub.

She'd hit the wall but as she was easily a 9 when young it didn't matter that much, she was still a 7.

I say get what you can get with the least effort. Especially the young guys. Explore the universe of possibilities.

[Sonsowey]

Dating girls with money is actually not a way to save money.

Girls without money don't need fancy dates. They're fine with whatever. Girls who already have money expect you to have more money, and take them to fancier and fancier places.

Tho in a way, in your 20s, economic status can be a stand in for age. I was seeing a girl who was late 20s when I was early 20s. I was moving out and she was still living with her parents. She called me a "baby" all the time, but I was the one gaining my independence while she was basically living the same life as a teenager, sneaking out late at night, hoping her parents didn't catch her drunk etc.

A girl who's 23 and working a high stress job may as well be 33 for all I care. Attitude change happens quick.

[UrbanNerd]

I don't know about long-term DATING of an older woman, but there is nothing wrong with banging a nice-looking one. And on that note....

...bang what you like or what gets you hard.

WAY TOO MUCH is made of that BULLSH*T about what is Beta and what is Alpha...like there is some official book or yearly award given to the "most alpha". As much as folks complain about others being "sheep that follows", too much is made about what is perceived is "beta" or "alpha" instead of tangible results. There is no damn award for "I banged the most 20 year olds and my age is 35+"...and if there is an award ceremony for that...please send me the date and the venue.

[Hencredible Casanova]

(09-02-2013 11:47 AM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

...bang what you like or what gets you hard.

Yes. Varies from man to man. Hell, even within my crew.

(09-02-2013 11:47 AM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

WAY TOO MUCH is made of that BULLSH*T about what is Beta and what is Alpha...like there is some official book or yearly award given to the "most alpha".

Yeah. Those terms have outlived their usefulness. Every man has a bit of both to varying degrees. We all come out of pussies after all. No man came into the world like this:

[choichoi]

Personally I like older women. Don't know why, maybe fetishism or deep-seated issues with my mother? Young chicks look better, of course, so I won't argue about that.

Something about white or latina women in their 30's that's just alluring to me.

[Cattle Rustler]

White women are more willing to date a younger man out of any group. A good 70-80% of my replies are from them. Latinas take up about 15-22%, and blacks/asians take the rest.

Good luck in A-stan.

Oh yeah, try making two profiles. One with your military background and one without. Some of them like men in uniform, and others don't....that way you have better percentages.

[Therapsid]

Older women are gross. The more young girls you bang, the less appealing an older broad will be for even a single night excursion.

They have their place - for guys with no game, for guys who are suffering from dry spells, for guys looking to get their dick wet in a hurry or whatever.

Consider - you'll see young guys dating young fat girls but you'll rarely ever see a young man in a relationship with a milf. Because even beta men know they're not worth more than a pump and dump.

[Cattle Rustler]

Everyone's got their preferences, some don't like 18 year olds (those are easy to game) and other's don't like X. Older women fuck like pros while younger ones don't know what to do.

Alcohol + daddy issues = bang