[Player_1337]

In the spirit of appraising the signs for girls who are down for some domination:

First meet with a new girl last night. After initiating some gradual kino, I could tell that she was receptive. Over the course of the evening, I proceeded by pulling her hair, pressing her against the wall, holding her hands behind her back (grasping her wrists firmly with one hand). These actions were accompanied by heavy kissing, and meticulously biting her neck and lips. She verbally expressed her satisfaction. Eventually gave her a spank before parting ways.

This chick seems like a prime candidate for some BDSM and I'm looking forward to pushing her boundaries. Have to get some photos of her blindfolded and tied up.

[Giovonny]

I do a lot of this stuff but I don't think its anything special. To me, its just sex. Most girls are down to experiment with the limits of their comfort zone.

I can't lie, I do enjoy it.

[NeVerGymLess]

(08-23-2013 09:01 AM)soup Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 05:39 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

Make a profile then go to places. You can click your city or State/Province and start grinding threw profiles .


This girl , was a 18 year old into a daddy/babygirl fetish . Made me rape her and talk about mommy catching us .

And herein lies the contradiction with this thread.

It's not real domination. It's play domination. Like little kids playing doctor.

That you even say she "made" you do anything shows that she was in charge.

Dominate her with game and by stretching her pussy out in sex. Take her to the brink.

I started out as a nudist and got introduce into the kink scene . Shit , I let female Dommes play with me for the first couple months to learn the game. I could gave a fuck if I control all of her and every Dungeon party i went to every master/ Dom said the sub had all the power at the end. I'm into this shit to fuck as many girls as a I can and its working..

[soup]

(08-23-2013 04:19 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(08-23-2013 09:01 AM)soup Wrote:  

(08-22-2013 05:39 PM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

Make a profile then go to places. You can click your city or State/Province and start grinding threw profiles .


This girl , was a 18 year old into a daddy/babygirl fetish . Made me rape her and talk about mommy catching us .

And herein lies the contradiction with this thread.

It's not real domination. It's play domination. Like little kids playing doctor.

That you even say she "made" you do anything shows that she was in charge.

Dominate her with game and by stretching her pussy out in sex. Take her to the brink.

I started out as a nudist and got introduce into the kink scene . Shit , I let female Dommes play with me for the first couple months to learn the game. I could gave a fuck if I control all of her and every Dungeon party i went to every master/ Dom said the sub had all the power at the end. I'm into this shit to fuck as many girls as a I can and its working..

Breakdown your game.

[Neo]

Interesting post. Never really been into the bondage thing, but will probably give it a shot at some point seems fun. Don't understand the hate on this guy and his thread.

[NeVerGymLess]

(08-23-2013 06:58 PM)soup Wrote:  

Breakdown your game.

Build a body like a greek god. Its soo easy , once your muscular . I don't even try .

[Technics]

Fantastic thread. don't have anything to contribute on the bondage, but this is something I've been wanting to start

[Sonsowey]

So I just got my first fetlife bang

I sent out like 10 messages one night and then they cut me off, they do that if you send out more than just a few. I didn't check it until today and I had a bunch of responses, more than on say OkCupid or whatever from the same amount of messages.

One of the girls I hit up this morning, a little back and forth, and she came over tonight, during our convo she mentioned something about her preference for "cock worship" but generally the texting was all logistical and not really building attraction at all.

Se was tall slim nice ass passed the boner test but nothing to write home about

She came over and we drank for a while, talking about whatever, definitely didn't game her much, she talked a LOT about whatever we were going on about so I kinda just let her talk more.

Then whatever we're talking and she just takes off her shorts. She's like "Oh I'm just hot here" and I'm like "Oh ok I have AC in my room."

We go in, put on some music, and then just go at it, she's really into sucking cock and goes at it like a true pro. I was choking her and slapping her face, choking her w my hands and cock, she was into that. Hadn't ever slapped a chick while she was sucking me off before. She sucked my dick till I busted then went to take a shower, and we fucked. Choking, slapping, I got out a belt and pulled it tight around her neck as I hit it from behind, which actually marked her neck up pretty bad. She was into all of it. Although she apparently had never had a belt around her neck or anything. Dunno I guess fetlife people can actually be pretty tame, I've done that with other chicks before...

She talked freely about fucking other people, at fetlife parties and shit, I wrapped it up even though I usually don't cause y'know, this chick definitely gets around. We just ended up commiserating about like when you're your horniest all your prospects seem to dry up and other player problems. She's basically got more of our mindset about sex than the average girl mindset.

So yea, that was the least "problematic" fuck ever no fake lmr no bs she just wanted to get fucked and suck cock.

This was not "spiritual" domination or soul collection, when we talked I wasn't like "Listen bitch you worthless whore worship your master" we were just talking whatever normal. This was just a girl with a high sex drive who liked it rough looking for people who were down to give that.

[iknowexactly]

(08-24-2013 10:13 AM)NeVerGymLess Wrote:  

(08-23-2013 06:58 PM)soup Wrote:  

Breakdown your game.

Build a body like a greek god. Its soo easy , once your muscular . I don't even try .

Does someone, in the abstract, in general, have to juice to get to where you are? (Not you of course, you're natty)

[horn]

It's not true that it is remotely easy to build a large, muscular body.

For example, I can [and have] gotten down to sub 5-7% body fat thru just playing hoops and lifting daily, but I'm going to look more like Bruce Lee than Arnold. Which is nice and all, but wearing anything long-sleeved they cannot tell, unlike if you look like Michelangelo's David and your shoulders pop from blocks away. Girls notice on the beach, not in a bar/club/office/walking down 5th Ave.

[iknowexactly]

(08-27-2013 04:34 PM)horn Wrote:  

It's not true that it is remotely easy to build a large, muscular body.

For example, I can [and have] gotten down to sub 5-7% body fat thru just playing hoops and lifting daily, but I'm going to look more like Bruce Lee than Arnold. Which is nice and all, but wearing anything long-sleeved they cannot tell, unlike if you look like Michelangelo's David and your shoulders pop from blocks away. Girls notice on the beach, not in a bar/club/office/walking down 5th Ave.

good info, were you pounding down tons of food/protein getting down to 6%?
I've heard you've got to eat huge amounts to gain much muscle.

Arnold was juicing like there was no tomorrow when he was huge,
I wonder how dangerous it is to get say 1/3 of the way from Bruce to Ahnold.

[Jaylow]

You eat less to lower body fat.

[horn]

Not me, I was eating 6x a day - lots of protein, steaks, shakes, sashimi, almonds.

[Jaylow]

Your body is not beyond science. The amount of meals you eat a day means nothing.

If you eat less calories under this calculation you lose body fat. Its as simple as that.

[Walderschmidt]

Awesome thread. Plus one rep from me.

[Basil Ransom]

Read Scorpion's post. Fuck.

Backstory: couple days ago, girl messages me on an online dating site. Very young, lives across the world, into BDSM. I'm dismissive because she's so far, and keep telling her to do shit to prove she's interested, and she keeps coming back. Webcammed briefly, she's real. Trouble is she got my real full name when I failed to sanitize one of my accounts, and she got to see it. She's already found my profile on a real social network. My name isn't exactly John Smith either. She's already getting really into me - should I stop contacting her? The only real endgame is her flying to see me anyway, and if she did that, she might be devoted enough to stalk me.

I wouldn't bother with a girl so far, but she was pretty determined. Plus I looooove freaks.

[iknowexactly]

(08-30-2013 03:12 AM)basilransom Wrote:  

Read Scorpion's post. Fuck.

Backstory: couple days ago, girl messages me on an online dating site. Very young, lives across the world, into BDSM. I'm dismissive because she's so far, and keep telling her to do shit to prove she's interested, and she keeps coming back. Webcammed briefly, she's real. Trouble is she got my real full name when I failed to sanitize one of my accounts, and she got to see it. She's already found my profile on a real social network. My name isn't exactly John Smith either. She's already getting really into me - should I stop contacting her? The only real endgame is her flying to see me anyway, and if she did that, she might be devoted enough to stalk me.

I wouldn't bother with a girl so far, but she was pretty determined. Plus I looooove freaks.

I would look at the worst likely case scenario, not the worst case scenario.

Is there a licensing board you report to, like are you a lawyer or something ( don't answer here obviously).

If you aren't in a politically sensitive position it's one thing-- irate ex-girlfriends are a dime a dozen, but if you are something like a schoolteacher ....

Also, proof her before you fly her anywhere, else it oculd be Federal.

Good questions to screen for craziness:
1) Ask her what her father's like. If he was abusive, you have a good chance soon she will see you with his face in stead of yours.

2) Ask her if she ever had a stalker or needed to get a restraining order. If she picks crazies, or drove someone crazy, it' s not a good sign.

3) Ask how she's doing in her education. If she's all over the place, bad sign of inconsistency. Low functioning bitches usually ditch out of school because they can get by with their pussy and don't want to follow schedules or do what they're told. Cause they're special. Or just too impulsive.

[Sphere]

OP is absolutely correct. Not sure about a first date situation but I don't doubt he's done it.

I believe that the haters in this thread are unclear about what OP is talking about. This shit works.

I currently "own" two women and have no time for more at the moment. One knows about the other and doesn't care. When she met me it was as if she had been thirsty for her whole life and I gave her her very first drink of water. She is so very grateful. The other suspects the one but couldn't bear to be without what I provide. I brought it to her and helped her discover that she is a dirty pain slut, and she can't get enough of it. I make her call me "Daddy".

You have to enjoy it. I, for one, am absolutely transported when I'm dishing out a serious beating. I don't give spankings. I give beatings. If they can sit comfortably the day after, I've failed to deliver a proper beating.

Afterwards, it's important to fuck them like they've never been fucked before. Once you've dominated them, given them pain and then given them the fuck of a lifetime, you will hold a special place in their hearts forever.

However, and this is a big huge "however", when girls become that attached to you, you can't be casual about breaking it off if you decide to. There is the potential for some serious bunny boiling shit to go down.

Your mileage may vary.

[Basil Ransom]

Thanks for the advice iknowexactly. Along the questions you posed about myself and her, it's decidedly a mixed bag (her stated age is 18+, should be easy to verify). I think the solution is, as always, mack more girls locally and see if I still care enough to pursue it.

Is there a mechanism for getting written consent to 'abuse?' Eg what if you were married to a total BDSM freak and one day she goes to the cops about shit you've done to her, with her consent. How do people in 'the community' address this risk? Slapping a girl in the face is nothing in the BDSM world, but surely enough to get you in court.

It's a truism within BDSM that the sub holds the real power. This is reductive to the point of being false. That's like saying an employee holds the real power in the labor market, because an employee can always bail. The truth is more complicated - if the employee is essential and unreplaceable, he will have lots of leverage over his boss. If he is replaceable, as the vast majority of employees are, his power is much diminished. The more a girl fears losing you, the more power you have over her, just as a boss has more power over a man more beholden to financial obligations like children and a housewife. If she blanches at the thought of losing you, thinking no one else can satisfy her, then, your power is heightened. If she is indifferent, she will leave at the slightest disturbance. There is no equality in the sexual market, and BDSM relationships are no exception.

[reaper23]

Real bdsm is a consensual power exchange. You simply can not have one with put the other.

Ethical bdsm I should say.

Dom sub are yin and yang.

I need them and they need me.

[DVY]

^^^This quote from House of Cards stuck with me- "Everything [in life] is about sex, except sex, which is about power"

[Sphere]

(08-30-2013 01:02 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

Is there a mechanism for getting written consent to 'abuse?' Eg what if you were married to a total BDSM freak and one day she goes to the cops about shit you've done to her, with her consent. How do people in 'the community' address this risk? Slapping a girl in the face is nothing in the BDSM world, but surely enough to get you in court.

Many such relationships will have explicit written contracts. Do a Google search for BDSM contract for further information. My understanding that these are admissible as evidence under the circumstances that you describe.

[Samseau]

(09-03-2013 01:13 PM)Sphere Wrote:  

(08-30-2013 01:02 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

Is there a mechanism for getting written consent to 'abuse?' Eg what if you were married to a total BDSM freak and one day she goes to the cops about shit you've done to her, with her consent. How do people in 'the community' address this risk? Slapping a girl in the face is nothing in the BDSM world, but surely enough to get you in court.

Many such relationships will have explicit written contracts. Do a Google search for BDSM contract for further information. My understanding that these are admissible as evidence under the circumstances that you describe.

Those contracts wouldn't mean shit in a court of law. Words on paper can always be manipulated to mean something else. Her word over yours, you'll get punished no matter the outcome.

The best, and only way, to give yourself insurance against false-rape accusations, is to make sure you spend a lot of cuddle time with a girl after a heavy session of BDSM. Cuddling makes a woman feel really good, and if she feels good then she won't cry rape.

[Cr33pin]

BDSM is a way for guys to do filthy things to younger girls even when you are in your 50s. If you are like a bonafided Dom master you can snatch up all kinds of young poon. I see a lot of young hoes looking for old doms on the fetlife.com An lots of pics with the young girls all chained up an shit with some old as "Dom"

I also went to a local birthday party for some lady on fetlife last weekend.... lots of fatties there and a 6'3 old guy dressed as a woman on her wedding day. Everyone was super nice tho and the food was delicious!

[horn]

(08-28-2013 08:12 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

Your body is not beyond science. The amount of meals you eat a day means nothing.

If you eat less calories under this calculation you lose body fat. Its as simple as that.

Nobody said it was. Learn how to read. We weren't discussing lower body fat. Stop with the de-rails, nobody cares about your pet websites.