Eventual subject of this : finger drumming--means you are blown?
I went to REI (outdoor store) in Sacramento. So this young woman about 26, 6, kind of a pinched looking face, not soft looking is helping me with trying on bicycling shoes and looking at pedals.
She seems kind of cold, definitely no sparkle. But I decided to practice asking her about herself, she was pretty knowledgable about the products so I could tell she was a cyclist herself.
We got on the mountain bike versus road bike issue, and she commented that she didn't have her own mountain bike. She said she "borrowed" mountain bikes when she wanted to ride, and "recommended" that.
From the way she was saying this I could tell she meant that since mountain biking is tough on the bike, she would borrow bikes so when they were damaged, it would be someone else's bike!!
I though this was so parasitic, I was shocked, and I politely confronted her about it.
"Well, do you pay for the parts when you do that?"
She wasn't even fazed, and commented that the "people" she know worked in bike shops so they could somehow magically work on or get free parts or something.
The worst part was I could tell she wasn't even embarrassed about being a f'ing exploitive b&tch.
I now had no interest in her, but just kept talking to her as I tried on the shoes etc.
At one point I could see her start drumming her fingers on something, just for a half second or so. Am I wrong on this, or does someone invested in a conversation EVER drum their fingers? My impression is no, this is really a boredom or irritation flag. She kept eye contact with me, but I think that was just female social skill, because almost immediately after drumming her fingers for a few seconds she started talking about her boyfriend.
It seems finger drumming is a really strong IOD to me.
What do you think?
I went to REI (outdoor store) in Sacramento. So this young woman about 26, 6, kind of a pinched looking face, not soft looking is helping me with trying on bicycling shoes and looking at pedals.
She seems kind of cold, definitely no sparkle. But I decided to practice asking her about herself, she was pretty knowledgable about the products so I could tell she was a cyclist herself.
We got on the mountain bike versus road bike issue, and she commented that she didn't have her own mountain bike. She said she "borrowed" mountain bikes when she wanted to ride, and "recommended" that.
From the way she was saying this I could tell she meant that since mountain biking is tough on the bike, she would borrow bikes so when they were damaged, it would be someone else's bike!!
I though this was so parasitic, I was shocked, and I politely confronted her about it.
"Well, do you pay for the parts when you do that?"
She wasn't even fazed, and commented that the "people" she know worked in bike shops so they could somehow magically work on or get free parts or something.
The worst part was I could tell she wasn't even embarrassed about being a f'ing exploitive b&tch.
I now had no interest in her, but just kept talking to her as I tried on the shoes etc.
At one point I could see her start drumming her fingers on something, just for a half second or so. Am I wrong on this, or does someone invested in a conversation EVER drum their fingers? My impression is no, this is really a boredom or irritation flag. She kept eye contact with me, but I think that was just female social skill, because almost immediately after drumming her fingers for a few seconds she started talking about her boyfriend.
It seems finger drumming is a really strong IOD to me.
What do you think?