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08-09-2013, 10:03 PM
So I'll only slightly change details to protect the innocent.
There is a Japanese girl aged 22, who is currently an exchange student. She is leaving NYC towards the end of this month. She doesn't dress like a hippy, and THANK GOD she doesn't smell like one, but her attitude is kind of like one. She is always talking about "that's beautiful" "You're beautiful", etc.
She makes sketches of people, pretty much anyone that is willing to spare some time (leading me to believe I'm not really special). I met her and she did some sketches of me in a public space. We got along well, but she may have just gotten along well enough with any other man or woman that would've been in my place at the time.
She'll be coming over to my neighborhood and to my apartment to do some more sketches. She's already gone to another girl's place and to another guy's place to do sketches though, and I'm assuming things were just platonic. I'm thinking of having her come over around 8pm, and we'll work drinks into the mix too.
She is from a small town in Japan, and goes to University in another small town, so I'm thinking that can attribute to her nice-ness and innocence. Another problem is she says that I'm a "Nice Guy". I've only met her once during the day time, and there was some light touching (hug for hello, hug for goodbye, hand on the small of the back, arm around the shoulder once, etc.). How can I get her tipsy and wanting to fuck too? I feel kinda shady about bringing her over to my home on only the 2nd "date", but I'm kind of impatient, and would rather take advantage of her innocence before 1 or more people do.
She probably won't need a fancy dinner or to go to a bar as I can probably just have drinks and some music in my place. Btw, I tried to invite her somewhere the day before our scheduled night meeting next week (just to give her more time to be comfortable w/ me and so I can snag her on the 3rd "date"), but her schedule won't allow it.
How would you guys seal the deal here?
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08-10-2013, 12:59 AM
>>She is always talking about "that's beautiful" "You're beautiful", etc.
Just show her your beautiful dick
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08-10-2013, 10:44 AM
Yes I was just kidding. Just do some research on kino escalation
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08-10-2013, 11:28 AM
Inviting a girl to practice drawing n her seein ya as a nice guy to begin with n then going full 'put your hand on my boner' imagined scenario is ... ummm..
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08-10-2013, 11:57 AM
Get her trust and go caveman.
You won't regret it.
"Christian love bears evil, but it does not tolerate it. It does penance for the sins of others, but it is not broadminded about sin. Real love involves real hatred: whoever has lost the power of moral indignation and the urge to drive the sellers from temples has also lost a living, fervent love of Truth."
- Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
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08-10-2013, 03:31 PM
I will look up kino-escalation and will return, but just based off what it sounds like:
we already hug (though I can tell she's not used to it, since its not really her culture), Small of the back gets touched often...
Are you guys suggesting I do hand holding like as we run to see something cool, or run across to catch the green light (seems like something I'd do with a toddler). Comment how beautiful her neck looks, talk a little about romance and then work my way into a kiss, followed by more kissing, followed by Mr. grabby-hands, etc.
Is that how it happens. I don't want this girl to get attached though, and as stupid as this may sound (I may need to reassess this statement), I don't want the girl to thing I like her (because I can't have her hanging around).
Anyway, I'll shoot her a text Sunday or Monday night to see if she's up to anything and hopefully meet her and try to advance things a little further. After I do that, if she still keeps our mid-week appointment, then I'm probably good to go as my escalation didn't stop her from breaking our previous agreement agreement. As of now though, there is no second meeting, and it might just go from "1st time meeting in public to--->less than 1 week later, being in my home/bedroom (It is a studio) with no in-between.
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08-10-2013, 10:51 PM
Usually the wisdom on the forum goes that if you're asking about a particular girl then you have already lost her. Focus on being better overall. As for escalating.. Japanese are not puritans. They are ok with casual, especially with white or black American men. So ifyou want to get this aactually happen then read Thuthmosis recipe, but here are basic steps
Invite her to come over to do whatever, once she comes in, let her set her things n go out for an h to have a drink somewhere close by, flirt, state your interest, head back, if shes interested then wjen she comes back she will not suddenly run, so let her do her thing, draw, sketch, while you put on the music n have some more drinks ready.. then as shes drawing joke n stuff, if shes laughing n drinking you sexualize the jokes n move closer / disrupt her sletching, as your sexual aytraction to her is more important than her business. If she jokes back youre in n go for the kiss. But again. Read Thuthmosis' recipe
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08-12-2013, 12:48 PM
Great gif
I will try to invite her for 1-2 drinks tonight. I invited my other friend too (I know he won't steal her from me). I was thinking of running what I guess would be "high school game". For example, when I excuse myself to go to the bathroom, and they have a moment to talk, he will already be instructed to tell her:
Friend: "Mr. GoodThread told me he really likes you"
Her: "Yea, he's such a nice friend"
Friend: No , I mean he says he likes you more than a friend, but he doesn't say to you because he didn't want to scare you/be rude/ etc. (I have up to this point only met her once on a non-date). But don't tell him I said anything (index finger held toward lips to keep things quiet)
So...even though this is really cheesy and corny, this girl is giving me more of a childish-vibe anyway, so, now when I do turn it up and escalate when she comes to my neighborhood on Wednesday, she'll have in her mind that I'm looking for more than just friendship.
*This is a moth to the flame situation for me (as my wifey is coming to the states soon), but it should all be wrapped up within the next 3 days, so I just say "f-it, lets see what happens"
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08-12-2013, 01:25 PM
Lol. Op is a fag or a troll.. or both
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08-12-2013, 02:29 PM
you are without a paddle. bringing a friend and having him prop you that hs bs.. it's a short drinks date where and when you can display some of you that your gf likes to a similar girl.. and you want to fail that? are you so timid that a girl scares you? rejection avoidance much? fucking show up. who are you? show up and deliver. present who you are and what you want. a girl will not think less of you.. ok.. do 60yearsofchallenge hand caressing "test" ... touch her hand when drinking and flirting. if you caress her hand as you look at her, not timidly, and she caresses back she likes you and will allow you to escalate