day game met a girl who was very very open to my swagger. went to my place, had a drink, kino. she asked for a hug and i said she could kiss me. the kiss was lame, closed mouth kiss (imagine kissin ur grandma.) later i went for it again and got the same thing. i took her a bit by force locked into her eyes and explained she didn't need to act that way (she was going on about how her breath is no good, she's got no make-up etc, fyi she's like 8-9/10) she resisted. eventually she turns away from me but presses her body (back) into mine. i gently wrap my arms around her and kiss her neck. she accepts for a few moments but panics and begins posturing for the door. i'm able to explain that of course everything is consensual and it feels like she wants it (like a billion iois) looking back i think she was holding off on the make-out because we met so recently (maybe 2 hours had elapsed) and perhaps wanted to maintain some feminine mystique. i reign her back in and we go for a walk before she needs to leave. she asks me out for a day 2.
as she's getting into her car i one more time insist on a real kiss. not because i wanted it but because i don't like sex progression to be like some sort of bargaining chip (of course this is retarded since most women prolly view sex that way) she gives me a closed mouth kiss. lol, i said she's acting like a troll and that i was unsure i'd want to see her again if this is how she kissed. she got very offended. tbh i do think i went too far and i likely killed a lot of attraction this way.
i texted her like 30 min after she left and received no reply, and this morning i sent her another text also no reply. i didn't say anything too stupid, just general good to meet you and a tip about dressing warmer for our next meet. i decided to text her again this morning too to invite her somewhere i was already going that she expressed interest in but again no reply. i see no point in sending a third text.
she said she was new here and hadn't really met that many people as cool as me so i'm banking on her getting bored in a couple days (when our date is supposed to be) and to look back on my insistence as not such a big deal. so my plan till then is to maintain radio silence.
i think part of her hesitance is that we're very well matched and prolly wants a relationship with me. in light of that would it be more prudent to call out my behavior as nothing weird and that she shouldn't let it get in the way? right now i think waiting is the best move.
basically wtv you tell me to do el mech your will be done
as she's getting into her car i one more time insist on a real kiss. not because i wanted it but because i don't like sex progression to be like some sort of bargaining chip (of course this is retarded since most women prolly view sex that way) she gives me a closed mouth kiss. lol, i said she's acting like a troll and that i was unsure i'd want to see her again if this is how she kissed. she got very offended. tbh i do think i went too far and i likely killed a lot of attraction this way.
i texted her like 30 min after she left and received no reply, and this morning i sent her another text also no reply. i didn't say anything too stupid, just general good to meet you and a tip about dressing warmer for our next meet. i decided to text her again this morning too to invite her somewhere i was already going that she expressed interest in but again no reply. i see no point in sending a third text.
she said she was new here and hadn't really met that many people as cool as me so i'm banking on her getting bored in a couple days (when our date is supposed to be) and to look back on my insistence as not such a big deal. so my plan till then is to maintain radio silence.
i think part of her hesitance is that we're very well matched and prolly wants a relationship with me. in light of that would it be more prudent to call out my behavior as nothing weird and that she shouldn't let it get in the way? right now i think waiting is the best move.
basically wtv you tell me to do el mech your will be done