[renotime]

This reminds me of a joke.

"Why do women fake orgasms? Because they think I give a fuck."

[Beyond Borders]

(08-08-2013 02:28 AM)renotime Wrote:  

This reminds me of a joke.

"Why do women fake orgasms? Because they think I give a fuck."

Reminds me of another.

"What's the definition of making love?

Something my girlfriend does while I'm fucking her."

[darklightdispatch]

I'd highly recommend the ebook "Sex God Method." Its essential premise is that psychological/emotional stimulation should be the foundation of your sexual approach. It's not about having perfect physical technique, but about fantasy, connection, and the overall experience. The book definitely lays it out well, with a lot of good specifics. I've been meaning to re-read it, actually.

[Benoit]

(08-07-2013 09:37 PM)RASER Wrote:  

Females are emotional reptiles, you need to blabber on in there ears, let them hear what they want to hear etc

He was associated with a lot of old-school PUA guys, but David Shade's "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms" is actually legit - lots of techniques and guidance for using them, and there's a big section on talking dirty that really helped me when I went through it.

The audio version helps with tonality, although everyone has their own style it's a good starting point.

[Ryre]

(08-05-2013 07:17 AM)crippler Wrote:  

There's a correct order and technique for giving a woman multiple orgasms within 60 seconds - working from inside out:

1. Deep Spot - 99% chance no-one's taken her there before, may need multiple sessions with some women to get them off.
2. G-Spot - go straight to the spiderman hand and go to town, she's already warmed up and if your technique's good she'll pop like champagne.
3. Clit - finish off with a bit of rapid frottage, this has to be last as most women get over-sensitive after a clitoral orgasm.
   

Beware, this can exhaust a chick to the point where she's physically incapable of being an active partner. Definitely a powerful ego-boosting move though, watching the look of disbelief in her eyes as she completely loses control is grade A.

I am curious about G-spot versus deep spot stimulation. My understanding is the more or less as far as you can reach in, curling your fingers up a bit--if she's aroused the deep front wall of her vagina may feel firm and domed, like the roof of your mouth. (Turning your hand over and curving your fingers down toward her back can also be good.) The G spot, though, is 1-2 inches inside on the front inside wall (may feel ike a rough or spongy spot).

I have felt this spongy spot, but times when I have tried to stimulate it, I've usually had the girl redirect me to the deep spot.

I guess what I am wondering about is 1) whether people have had success stimulating the G spot as opposed to the deep spot, and 2) whether the 'spiderman hand' is really the way to do it. I associate that with the deep spot. The G spot, being much shallower, can be touched with only two joints of your finger inside, and I've read that a gentler touch is better.

[soup]

It's called the deep spot for a reason, but you can obliterate a girl with the spiderman hand thing that hits the gspot and makes them flood or squirt.

[gandt]

(08-08-2013 02:36 PM)soup Wrote:  

It's called the deep spot for a reason, but you can obliterate a girl with the spiderman hand thing that hits the gspot and makes them flood or squirt.

How long do you typically go at them with the spider hand for? On average let's say.

[Benoit]

(08-08-2013 02:54 PM)gandt Wrote:  

(08-08-2013 02:36 PM)soup Wrote:  

It's called the deep spot for a reason, but you can obliterate a girl with the spiderman hand thing that hits the gspot and makes them flood or squirt.

How long do you typically go at them with the spider hand for? On average let's say.

If it takes you more than a couple of minutes you're doing it wrong (at least for that girl).