Your test levels will drop if you don't ejaculate every 7 days. Definitely don't stop unloading your load ![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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She begged me to fuck her but I could not get it up
This happens to everyone once in a while. Have a spare Viagra in your wallet (I haven't used mine in 6 years - as others have mentioned for the psychological benefit), have some lube near your bed (let her know you want to be rock-hard, and she HAS to make you rock-hard - this reverses the focus on HER) and make sure she passes the boner test!
I will literally not take a girl back to mine who doesn't get me hard - irrespective of looks.
I will literally not take a girl back to mine who doesn't get me hard - irrespective of looks.
If you're not growing, you're dying.
Get her wet then rub your shit from the top of her clit to bottom of her fuck-hole over and over again. Slide it in a little more each time. Thank me after my solution works
If you are nervous about your performance in bed before it happens you all ready have a strike against you. You can try drinking 3 or 4 beers/shots a little before sexy time to let loose a little and take the edge off. You wont always be able to pound some brew before banging but if you do it a few times an have some good sex your confidence will go up for the next time.
Theres tons of list online of food that work like natures Viagra. You should clean your diet up anyway but focusing on some of the foods with this Viagra benefit might help you feel a little more confident before sex the next time.
Try taking Zinc and ZMA. I have noticed crazy morning wood since taking these. I believe some people listed the same effect after taking apple cider vinegar for a week or so.
Lifting heavy and cardio should help with your problem in more ways then one. Being stronger an looking better will boost your confidence and cardio is good to get your blood flowing and that helps with erections.
Personally for me after being in a LTR an not wearing condoms when I would try using them to bang randoms I couldnt stay hard.... Take that as you will and do what you do at your own risk ha.
You could take this time to focus more on yourself and your life rather then banging women... If you improve your lifestyle and get in the best shape of your life the women will come. Not saying it takes those things to bang broads but they certainly dont hurt.
Best of luck bro, You can beat this shit you got all the pieces of the puzzle you just have to put them together.
Theres tons of list online of food that work like natures Viagra. You should clean your diet up anyway but focusing on some of the foods with this Viagra benefit might help you feel a little more confident before sex the next time.
Try taking Zinc and ZMA. I have noticed crazy morning wood since taking these. I believe some people listed the same effect after taking apple cider vinegar for a week or so.
Lifting heavy and cardio should help with your problem in more ways then one. Being stronger an looking better will boost your confidence and cardio is good to get your blood flowing and that helps with erections.
Personally for me after being in a LTR an not wearing condoms when I would try using them to bang randoms I couldnt stay hard.... Take that as you will and do what you do at your own risk ha.
You could take this time to focus more on yourself and your life rather then banging women... If you improve your lifestyle and get in the best shape of your life the women will come. Not saying it takes those things to bang broads but they certainly dont hurt.
Best of luck bro, You can beat this shit you got all the pieces of the puzzle you just have to put them together.
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I've had plenty of times where if a girl couldn't be bothered to blow me, I wasn't going to stay hard.
Did she have a gigantic vagina?
All this advice about porn and supplements.. other than Viagra is crap. If you work out vigorously every day your testosterone levels should be high enough, its her. (if you are 20; over 60 is another scenario.)
Did she have a gigantic vagina?
All this advice about porn and supplements.. other than Viagra is crap. If you work out vigorously every day your testosterone levels should be high enough, its her. (if you are 20; over 60 is another scenario.)
Any advice on lasting longer? My problem is the exact opposite. I get horny fast and last 30 seconds when im banging a girl with a big ass.
How do people last more longer? I dont want to be fucking for 30 seconds all the time.
How do people last more longer? I dont want to be fucking for 30 seconds all the time.
Another thing is if you have a minor flu-like virus, head cold, grippe, it can run you down.
Think about baseball, or football or basketball if you prefer. Works for me.
It was in one of the <i>Rabbit</i> novels by John Updike. Read it when I was 15 and hadn't had sex but never forgot it.
Quote: (07-23-2013 10:21 PM)MidWest Wrote:
Any advice on lasting longer? My problem is the exact opposite. I get horny fast and last 30 seconds when im banging a girl with a big ass.
How do people last more longer? I dont want to be fucking for 30 seconds all the time.
Think about baseball, or football or basketball if you prefer. Works for me.
It was in one of the <i>Rabbit</i> novels by John Updike. Read it when I was 15 and hadn't had sex but never forgot it.
One thing that helped me in this kind of situations was drinking a bit beforehand so I felt I could blame it on the booze if I got performance anxiety. Which I wouldn't get anymore since I had an excuse ready and therefore no pressure anymore.
You don't even really have to drink much, just say you were partying really hard before meeting up with her.
Also, if you have to fap try doing it laying down in bed, in a foreplay-with-a-chick type of position, so your brain is wired to associate that position with "erection time!".
+1 on bjs too, although I do remember that not working once with some sorority chick I just didn't find attractive enough. Boner test always wins.
You don't even really have to drink much, just say you were partying really hard before meeting up with her.
Also, if you have to fap try doing it laying down in bed, in a foreplay-with-a-chick type of position, so your brain is wired to associate that position with "erection time!".
+1 on bjs too, although I do remember that not working once with some sorority chick I just didn't find attractive enough. Boner test always wins.
Quote: (07-23-2013 09:05 PM)babelfish669 Wrote:
All this advice about porn and supplements.. other than Viagra is crap. If you work out vigorously every day your testosterone levels should be high enough, its her. (if you are 20; over 60 is another scenario.)
You clearly haven't been "following along."
Porn addiction has little to nothing to do with testosterone levels. There are many guys with good T levels who have sexual difficulties due to porn consumption.
Read the links earlier in the discuss and catch up before calling things "crap."
Quote: (07-23-2013 10:21 PM)MidWest Wrote:
Any advice on lasting longer? My problem is the exact opposite. I get horny fast and last 30 seconds when im banging a girl with a big ass.
How do people last more longer? I dont want to be fucking for 30 seconds all the time.
Kegels, all day every day.
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Quote: (07-23-2013 09:18 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:
A good chance it's mental. I've had this issue before too. A few of my own observations:
Some women just don't turn me on even if logic says they should. I think there's a lot to be said for chemistry. I've slept with hot women and wondered what was going on with my dick and then hooked up with some random butterface I happened to really click with and found myself rock hard and screwing for hours. There's a lot going on at the hormonal level when it comes to attraction and some people are a better "fit" than others.
On top of that, call me a "beta" if you want, but I personally find women who beg to be fucked a bit of a turn-off. I guess I'm old-fashioned but it just doesn't fit my expectation of how a woman should act.
Not to mention it creates a certain level of performance anxiety - you're essentially being demanded to perform. Just doesn't work for me that way.
If she really wants you to get hard but it's not working, have her suck your dick. This will usually cure any stage fright you're having. After you bang her a couple times the problem will likely disappear.
The last bit you said about not being able to maintain an erection when by yourself though says to me that a) you're mentally fucking with yourself over this or b) you've had a drop in sex drive and need to up your T levels. Getting in shape is often all it takes to correct the latter. The former, well, you'll just have to work your way through it alone through a bit of trial and hopefully not too much error.
I say ignore the pill reccomendations, especially if you're still young. You don't want to develop a dependency and should have other means available. They say the penis is the dipstick of health. If it's not just mental, I personally think the number one solution is getting in shape and, if that fails, maybe seeing a doctor to see if there's some underlying health concern.
Ah, and yes, condums can be a sabotager for sure.
The reasons above are why I could never P4P. I wouldn't be able to get it up for a woman I had to pay for, even if she were hot. I think the psychological and chemistry factor in sex is too important.
Quote: (07-23-2013 12:09 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
^ Damn, bro, that is terrible.
Try some l-arginine. It's a natural amino acid that stimulates blood flow to the penis.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arginine
When I used to use "NO" pre-workout supplements, even the wind blowing would cause an erection.
If you're not doing hard cardio (at least 20 minutes with your heart rate between 160-180), start doing it. More cardio = better blood flow.
Your issue is likely psychological but you can often solve psychological problems buy changing your physiology.
The problem is I am doing 'everything' right for my health, body and test levels.
- I eat a diet high in (saturated) fats.
- I take vitamin D3 every day(5000IU)
- I take 3-5g of l-arginine a day
- I have been lifting heavy ass weights for the last 1.5 years.
- I box 2x a week, will start BJJ soon as well.
- I don't drink too much
- I sleep well 5-6 nights of the week
I did a simple hormone panel blood test in April, test level came back at 11nmol/l which translates to about 340ng/dl for Americans. Went back up to 19nmol/l after 6 weeks when I stopped eating a lower fat diet and took a break from my cutting diet. It might be that my test levels have dropped again.
The girl could also be part of the issue here. She does certain things that turn me off. Like:
- Talk about other guys
- Is on her phone every 15 minutes (even though I tell her to put it away)
- Doesn't talk dirty to me when having sex
- Gets pissed when I am not being 100% nice to her. Causes a whole scene after.
- This girl is fairly tall. Before sex she flat out told me: "I could have had more guys if I was shorter"
But she does some cool things though, like cook for me.
Will check out the 'yourbrainonporn' links as well.
Quote: (07-24-2013 02:28 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:
The problem is I am doing 'everything' right for my health, body and test levels.
- I eat a diet high in (saturated) fats.
- I take vitamin D3 every day(5000IU)
- I take 3-5g of l-arginine a day
- I have been lifting heavy ass weights for the last 1.5 years.
- I box 2x a week, will start BJJ soon as well.
- I don't drink too much
- I sleep well 5-6 nights of the week
I did a simple hormone panel blood test in April, test level came back at 11nmol/l which translates to about 340ng/dl for Americans. Went back up to 19nmol/l after 6 weeks when I stopped eating a lower fat diet and took a break from my cutting diet. It might be that my test levels have dropped again.
The girl could also be part of the issue here. She does certain things that turn me off. Like:
- Talk about other guys
- Is on her phone every 15 minutes (even though I tell her to put it away)
- Doesn't talk dirty to me when having sex
- Gets pissed when I am not being 100% nice to her. Causes a whole scene after.
- This girl is fairly tall. Before sex she flat out told me: "I could have had more guys if I was shorter"
But she does some cool things though, like cook for me.
Will check out the 'yourbrainonporn' links as well.
Your situation translates into...the girl is the issue, not you. Maybe she doesn't get you off in a sexual way even though you two can get along. Try another girl too see if that gets you off. If that's the case, tell the girl to get make it her job to get you hard, just stay friends with her, or just dump her.
It happened with my ex, she has a badass personality but as soon as she took her clothes off...I couldn't get it off. She did the same thing "why can't you get hard? Your dick doesn't work" and begged. But I notched another woman, and it rode like a pony.
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Quote: (07-24-2013 02:28 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2013 12:09 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
Your issue is likely psychological but you can often solve psychological problems buy changing your physiology.
The girl could also be part of the issue here. She does certain things that turn me off. Like:
- Talk about other guys
- Is on her phone every 15 minutes (even though I tell her to put it away)
- Doesn't talk dirty to me when having sex
- Gets pissed when I am not being 100% nice to her. Causes a whole scene after.
- This girl is fairly tall. Before sex she flat out told me: "I could have had more guys if I was shorter"
But she does some cool things though, like cook for me.
Will check out the 'yourbrainonporn' links as well.
From your OP, you indicated your problem is maintaining an erection, not actually getting one.
Roosh's simple boner test is right.
If you are getting an erection, she sufficiently arouses you, I would would assert that the stuff you assign to her is not the problem.
From someone who also had to ween off too much porn, you say you lose concentration during sex and it affectsr your erection, and that to me indicates your issue has more to do with the porn you've consumed from a young age, how you've wired sex, how you've conditioned yourself to how it is meant to be.
The act of sex, not the girl herself, is the let down.
You're pounding away and it's underwhelming, that is why your mind wanders.
Quote: (07-24-2013 04:04 AM)T and A Man Wrote:
You're pounding away and it's underwhelming, that is why your mind wanders.
This is it. Also, the novelty factor of porn comes into play here. My erections were no problem when I fucked this girl for the first and 2nd time. Same with a porn clip. I can't watch a porn clip over and over again and still find it exciting.
Some excellent suggestions here already. Another one is sensate focus - Google it. Basically you try to ignore the mental chatter ("is it getting hard yet?") and concentrate on the sensual feelings of touching another human being. Really concentrate on being in all of your body, not just your mind and dick. With this approach, though, it helps if the girl is sympathetic and non-demanding, so she sounds like the wrong type.
Adrenaline will kill your boner, so anxiety and stress should be minimised. I know how difficult that is when you're desperate to put on a good show - it can become a vicious circle like you described.
As someone already said, having some fast-acting dick pills 'just in case' can relax the mind. Liquid Viagra and Levitra work fast-ish.
I don't subscribe totally to the anti-porn theory here, but it does sound like you've overdone it a bit. I'd say cut out the porn for a while and don't fap more than 2-3 times a week, see how it goes. Good luck!
Adrenaline will kill your boner, so anxiety and stress should be minimised. I know how difficult that is when you're desperate to put on a good show - it can become a vicious circle like you described.
As someone already said, having some fast-acting dick pills 'just in case' can relax the mind. Liquid Viagra and Levitra work fast-ish.
I don't subscribe totally to the anti-porn theory here, but it does sound like you've overdone it a bit. I'd say cut out the porn for a while and don't fap more than 2-3 times a week, see how it goes. Good luck!
Quote: (07-24-2013 01:36 AM)MikeCF Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2013 10:21 PM)MidWest Wrote:
Any advice on lasting longer? My problem is the exact opposite. I get horny fast and last 30 seconds when im banging a girl with a big ass.
How do people last more longer? I dont want to be fucking for 30 seconds all the time.
Kegels, all day every day.
http://www.webmd.com/urinary-incontinenc...continence
I had this problem in my teens. What always helped me was thinking about Daunte Culpepper throwing TD passes to Randy Moss.
No bullshit.
Note to self: do no watch football or any other kind of sports with RioNomad.
brazil nuts - eat them
eat broccoli, cauliflower - they remove estrogen
sleep more
cold showers
get your testosterone going
eat broccoli, cauliflower - they remove estrogen
sleep more
cold showers
get your testosterone going
It happens.
A few times in my own career-the worst one being on a beach late at night in Cuba. Girl on holiday naked on a beach chair and my cock was limper than a spaghetti noodle after being boiled in water. Luckily I met her again months later and handled things properly.
As a last resort, see if the girl will suck on your balls. If that don't work, time to go to bed.
A few times in my own career-the worst one being on a beach late at night in Cuba. Girl on holiday naked on a beach chair and my cock was limper than a spaghetti noodle after being boiled in water. Luckily I met her again months later and handled things properly.
As a last resort, see if the girl will suck on your balls. If that don't work, time to go to bed.
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my advice, try not to jerk off the day before you know you have a date, and then let her blow you slowly while you relax and unwind...this will definitely help calm your nerves
Quote: (07-24-2013 04:17 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:
Quote: (07-24-2013 04:04 AM)T and A Man Wrote:
You're pounding away and it's underwhelming, that is why your mind wanders.
This is it. Also, the novelty factor of porn comes into play here. My erections were no problem when I fucked this girl for the first and 2nd time. Same with a porn clip. I can't watch a porn clip over and over again and still find it exciting.
Nothings wrong with you. Its her. So go quickly do it with another, and lets see how it goes.
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See your doctor or go see a urologist
Get a script for low-dose Cialis.
It works wonders for anxiety-caused ED
I'm healthy and my Test levels are high, but when I know I'm going to bang a new girl I'm not totally comfortable with, I might pop 5 or 10 mg Cialis before I meet up with her (or before we go home together)
Also take ZMA, I find it helps my libido + wood
Get a script for low-dose Cialis.
It works wonders for anxiety-caused ED
I'm healthy and my Test levels are high, but when I know I'm going to bang a new girl I'm not totally comfortable with, I might pop 5 or 10 mg Cialis before I meet up with her (or before we go home together)
Also take ZMA, I find it helps my libido + wood
I tried V last night. It worked well. I'm a little afraid to have sex without it now.
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