In a drugged up state a week or so back I asked a girl in my social circle (who was also intoxicated) if she was dtf. She wasn't, but no big deal - that isn't a problem, win some lose some.
The problem lies with the fact that she told our whole circle. I expected that. It was a daft move (don't shit where you eat) and I'd read it wrong. However, no one was really bothered and aside from some playful teasing from my (male) friends no one really mentions it.
However, we were all out last night and I'm informed that she's told everyone that I attempted another move on her. I have no issue with being depicted as horny/forward or whatever, my issue is with her lying and attention whoring.
I know I will call her out - but my debate with myself is whether to cut off contact completely from her ( thus risking relations with my close male friends who she is also close to ) or to just deny it. I feel not standing up for myself in this situation will be a bit dishonorable and would show a lack of self respect.
This is a can of worms that shouldn't have been opened. But now that it has been, how would you guys proceed without damaging relations with your male friends (who for the majority aren't 'red pill')?
The problem lies with the fact that she told our whole circle. I expected that. It was a daft move (don't shit where you eat) and I'd read it wrong. However, no one was really bothered and aside from some playful teasing from my (male) friends no one really mentions it.
However, we were all out last night and I'm informed that she's told everyone that I attempted another move on her. I have no issue with being depicted as horny/forward or whatever, my issue is with her lying and attention whoring.
I know I will call her out - but my debate with myself is whether to cut off contact completely from her ( thus risking relations with my close male friends who she is also close to ) or to just deny it. I feel not standing up for myself in this situation will be a bit dishonorable and would show a lack of self respect.
This is a can of worms that shouldn't have been opened. But now that it has been, how would you guys proceed without damaging relations with your male friends (who for the majority aren't 'red pill')?
