[Julio]

Quote:

"Can i by you a drink, or do you just want the money"

Take care with this one. I tryed it yesterday on a cute girl and she took it really bad ("That's not funny! Go to Hell ! " ) .
I think she took it as if I was insinuating she was kind of a hooker, only interested in money...

[Chick]

LOL!

[PapayaTapper]

Necro thread bump.

Lets get back to the basics and see what's changed since 2008

Let's hear your best cold approach:

Day game opener

Night game opener

Online opener

[Darkwing Buck]

For night game? "Hey mind if I join you (guys)?"

Works every. single. time.

For day game I try to use situational openers eg; "Hey what book are you reading?" "What kinda workout you doing today" "You take the classes here?" etc.

Though I'll admit my day game has been weak lately and I mainly do night game where I can be an approach machine whenever I want and I consistently get numbers, bounce groups to different venues rolling solo, and of course pull. So if I could translate a fraction of my night game success to day game I think I'd be QUITE well off.

[LINUX]

(07-03-2017 11:32 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Necro thread bump.

Lets get back to the basics and see what's changed since 2008

Let's hear your best cold approach:

Day game opener

Night game opener

Online opener

Day Game ..
"Hey! Nice shoes *wink*....)
" What's up, come to talk to me"
"Mamacita, que rico, te amo."
"Hey, I like you, here's my #, give me a call"
"Cute.. *if she's walking the dog* Her: "Thanks" Me: Not the dog.


Night Game ..
"Hey! Nice shoes *wink*...)
"Damn girl, come talk to me"
"Hey sexy"
"Gawwwdd Dammmnn"
"Let's go find a jacazzi"
"Hey, you got any molly?"
"Hey, you got any blow?"
"Hey baby, you want some beads, let's see those tits"
"Hey check out this photo of my dog, "show dick pick*, Oh shit, wrong photo."

Gym Game ..
"Hey, let me know if you need help stretching *wink*
"Fucking Hot, while getting in the jacuzzi, Her: yes, it is. Me: "not the water."

Online game..
I don't do online game so I have no clue.

Don't attempt any of this if you give off a creepy persona. Shit could go south fast.

[Vaun]

With the advent of everyone taking selfies everywhere you go, thats easy;

"can I take that picture for you"

Or, I ask them to take one of me.

[Darkwing Buck]

(07-03-2017 01:50 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

With the advent of everyone taking selfies everywhere you go, thats easy;

"can I take that picture for you"

Or, I ask them to take one of me.

Yeah that seems like it makes sense but I've tried this several times and had individual girls and groups of 2-3 literally look at me like I was complete fucking retard and say no thanks. It's fucking astounding how stupid selfie culture and social media has made people. Or maybe they thought I was unattractive but this has literally never worked for me and I've tried multiple times.

Should add I've done this in LA beach towns so maybe the girls I tried this on were extra entitled and shallow but this has YET to work for me. I no longer try to take peoples pictures unless they ask me first because these bitches PREFER a selfie these days.

[John Michael Kane]

I'm only interested in LTR game leading to marriage, so I shoot pretty much exclusively for social circle prospects. I don't use "openers" so much as I just get to know girls in that setting and take my time. Occasionally, I do online game, but I find the quality to usually be lacking compared to what I can find when embedded in a social circle, especially for LTR-oriented guys like myself. But if I usually do an online opener, I usually do something playfully teasing. Nothing vicious, just to let her know that I'm not overly serious. Usually, there's some gems to be had in the profile, so scan for something that can act as a hook.

[Vaun]

(07-03-2017 02:05 PM)Darkwing Buck Wrote:  

(07-03-2017 01:50 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

With the advent of everyone taking selfies everywhere you go, thats easy;

"can I take that picture for you"

Or, I ask them to take one of me.

Yeah that seems like it makes sense but I've tried this several times and had individual girls and groups of 2-3 literally look at me like I was complete fucking retard and say no thanks. It's fucking astounding how stupid selfie culture and social media has made people. Or maybe they thought I was unattractive but this has literally never worked for me and I've tried multiple times.

Should add I've done this in LA beach towns so maybe the girls I tried this on were extra entitled and shallow but this has YET to work for me. I no longer try to take peoples pictures unless they ask me first because these bitches PREFER a selfie these days.

You should probably work on your vibe and your look, b/c something has to be off. I do it all the time and get pretty much 100% compliance. I've done it all over the world but will say LA is probably one of the biggest bitch shield places ever, probably b/c the beaches are pretty dangerous. I get numbers and instadates all the time this way. Are you friendly or an aggressive "direct" guy?

[Darkwing Buck]

(07-03-2017 02:24 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(07-03-2017 02:05 PM)Darkwing Buck Wrote:  

(07-03-2017 01:50 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

With the advent of everyone taking selfies everywhere you go, thats easy;

"can I take that picture for you"

Or, I ask them to take one of me.

Yeah that seems like it makes sense but I've tried this several times and had individual girls and groups of 2-3 literally look at me like I was complete fucking retard and say no thanks. It's fucking astounding how stupid selfie culture and social media has made people. Or maybe they thought I was unattractive but this has literally never worked for me and I've tried multiple times.

Should add I've done this in LA beach towns so maybe the girls I tried this on were extra entitled and shallow but this has YET to work for me. I no longer try to take peoples pictures unless they ask me first because these bitches PREFER a selfie these days.

You should probably work on your vibe and your look, b/c something has to be off. I do it all the time and get pretty much 100% compliance. I've done it all over the world but will say LA is probably one of the biggest bitch shield places ever, probably b/c the beaches are pretty dangerous. I get numbers and instadates all the time this way. Are you friendly or an aggressive "direct" guy?

Friendly vibes. I'm black, buff, and tatted but pretty approachable and once my mouth piece gets going I'm pretty warm vibes and clearly a chill dude though I'm sure I can look intimidating if you didn't know me. I have no problem opening and approaching and getting instadates as well so it seems funny that you would tell me my "vibe and look" is off. I'm able to hang out with strangers and hit up different venues but not good enough to snap a pic? Come on bruh.

But like I said these happened at or by the beach with white girls so they may have been intimidated, may have just been bitches, or maybe they just weren't attracted to me and didn't wanna give me any type of opening. Who knows?

But it hasn't worked for me so I don't do it anymore. If it works for you then more power to ya!

[Premium]

Great Outfit! I know something else that would look great on you.

You can back out of this...by saying a hat......but if she likes...then your of to the races

[5-7 Hedonist]

Almost 9 year bump on this thread. I had it bookmarked for ideas.

Day game opener:
Latest one I've been playing with: "I'm helping a friend look for a lost dog. Have you seen a blah blah blah." Usually chocolate lab puppy or similar. Unapologetically lifted from the Eddie Murphy movie Boomerang.

Night game opener:
- Not in a loud bar, to open a group, I've plagiarize the about post, "I was in a lite night grocery store other day, saw a girl looking at some stuff, I said 'looking for a late night snack?' She got an unfriendly look on her face and walked away." I later realized she was looking at in the pet food aisle at dog treats." Usually gets a conversation started.

[Cavorite]

Three situations I run into frequently where I struggle to make a situational opener:

- Girl browsing birthday/holiday cards
- Girl browsing makeup/feminine stuff aisle
- Girl in pasta aisle (this one should be easy, don't know why it's an issue for me).

Any advice?

[66Scorpio]

"Ni hui shuo ying wen ma?"

[Redbaron]

(10-29-2018 08:02 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  

Three situations I run into frequently where I struggle to make a situational opener:

- Girl browsing birthday/holiday cards
- Girl browsing makeup/feminine stuff aisle
- Girl in pasta aisle (this one should be easy, don't know why it's an issue for me).

Any advice?

Lol sounds like your patrolling Walmart.

Cards - ask for help picking a card for your mother.
Makeup - tell her she's too pretty to wear a mask.
Pasta aisle - ask her what her favorite pasta is.

Once you get her attention its up to you to keep it.

[Cavorite]

Target, actually

[Heuristics]

All my openers seem to be situational. And pretty basic, among them "you looked to be having a lot of fun, so I came to say hi." , "are you going to be the replacement for my tinder date." "do you have a cigarette/ lighter?" I can't think of others, but maybe because they're all largely situational.

I need some good openers to put into use, I fear my openers are actually pretty weak.

[EwartGrogan]

I don't do day game yet, but in clubs I use "What's cookin' good lookin'?". I almost always get a laugh and then move to a situational chat.

[BasketBounce]

“Hey, what’s up?”

“This place is packed, isn’t it?”

“What are you drinking?”

Keep it simple, bruh.

[RatInTheWoods]

I used the old "you don't have to stare you can just say hello" at the supermarket the other day, this sweet Milf was eyeing me up.

When a nightclub is closing, or when you doing the gutter run late for a last hope for a lay, you can spam approach this one:

Walk up, smile, and say "Yes No or Maybe?" gets you a very quick answer you can move on in a hurry to exhaust all options, the nuclear filter if you would.