The falling in love thing is interesting. I don't think it's "good" or "bad" or whatever.
I will say it can help you grow a lot. I mean, talk about a challenge to your frame control skills and the strength of your terms. And yeah it gets emotionally volatile but it's also the most beautiful thing to see a girl completely submit to you, utterly give herself to you to do with whatsoever you please.
For me I also feel like it's a gift I give to a woman. Not because I'm so amazingly great and it's a big ego thing. But because I AM great and strong, and self-actualized, and how many times will this girl really feel such a strong feeling for a worthwhile man in her life? Maybe a handful? Fuck it, I don't mind dealing with the fallout.
I will say it can help you grow a lot. I mean, talk about a challenge to your frame control skills and the strength of your terms. And yeah it gets emotionally volatile but it's also the most beautiful thing to see a girl completely submit to you, utterly give herself to you to do with whatsoever you please.
For me I also feel like it's a gift I give to a woman. Not because I'm so amazingly great and it's a big ego thing. But because I AM great and strong, and self-actualized, and how many times will this girl really feel such a strong feeling for a worthwhile man in her life? Maybe a handful? Fuck it, I don't mind dealing with the fallout.