Quote: (07-10-2013 04:39 AM)Tony.5678 Wrote:
Ok I am going to try it. Are these ok/not beta?
1) Just going up to her and saying 'can I have your opinion on .....' and then just going from there. Hopefully she will say 'yes' and I will just think of something girly for her to talk about and hope she talks for a while about it. Hopefully I can keep the conversation going (a bit worried it is going to dry up pretty quickly). Maybe after 3-5 mins, just stop her and tell her I have to go and say something like 'it was nice meeting you, lets catch up another time. Add my number to your phone'
How does that sound? I don't think I can keep the conversation going for 15 mins so I want her to get the impression I am interesting and then leaving it at that. Then when I have her number just text her a few times (no more than 5) and give off the impression I like her, then asking to meet up with her for longer (i.e at least 4 hours)? During this time I may go for a kiss and hopefully a bang at the end.
Is that realistic and from your experiences would it work?
For night game:
Just something like if I see a girl waiting at a bar or alone somewhere where it is quieter, going up to her and saying "Sorry I'm late, did I keep you waiting long". She may be a bit shocked and say something along the lines of 'what' or just be confused so I'm not sure about it.
Other one I could try (i saw it somewhere) is when walking to the club, if I see another girl walking somewhere else on a night out (perhaps a different club), as we walk past each other I kind of stop her with my arm and say 'hey you are going the wrong way to 'name of club'... come with me'.
You're thinking way too fucking much and putting way too much importance on the opener. The opener is the least important part of the interaction, it's the vibe you convey that matters.
Do yourself a favor and stop theorycrafting on the Internet. Go out and find some girls. Say "hi, how's it going" and go from there. The more spontaneous the better.