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Have I screwed this one up? - And I'm pretty sure I have - or not?
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Have I screwed this one up? - And I'm pretty sure I have - or not?

I met this girl exactly a week ago at a bar. Unfortunately the bar is not close to me (40 minutes away), perhaps that's why I was taking more risks and didn't care and ended up hanging out with these two fairly attractive girls all night.

After we leave, she tells me to follow her back to her place, unfortunately she has moved back home, and her dad is up and tells her there's no way I'm coming in (despite her being in her mid 20s). Then her friend is really drunk, so we have to take her home. Despite both of these things killing the mood, she ends up sneaking me into her place later on, and we made out for awhile, but to be completely honest I had this fear her dad would show up at any minute and chase me off, so I didn't push for the bang.

We talk and text a little over the weekend, but I figure... well I didn't bang her, it's over and just stop responding to idle bs. Naturally, later Monday night I get a text asking if she's going to see me this week. She also kept asking for reassurance that I had fun hanging out with her Friday, which I found odd. Anyway, we make plans for last night (Thursday) and she drives out to see me.

Well here I screw things up by taking her with me to what I thought was a party, and was actually just a friend of mine trying to get anyone to drink with him. That set the mood poorly (IMO) although she kept making jokes about it.

I got her out of there as soon as I could, and went to another friend's place, and could sense the air had been sucked out of the night. I opted to start drinking (another mistake I'm sure) and I don't know what flipped in her, but she re-initiated kino with me. My friends went to sleep, and even though I thought the night had sucked, she still wanted to make out and fool around a little. Then, she's worried about waking my friends up, so we leave and go back to my house.

Unfortunately (again) I moved back home a few months ago, so now after we fool around more, she's worried about waking my mom up. I tell her not to worry, she has work at 5am, and the girl then proceeds to set her phone alarm for 5, so we can "get up and have sex"... clever move because I pass out (shouldn't have been drinking so much earlier) and when the alarm goes off, I really don't know where I am anymore and just shut it off as quick as possible. Well we wake up at 8, and now she says she has to go. I get her to stay longer, fool around again, but I can tell that sex is not happening, and as she's groping me she throws out this off the wall comment, saying she doesn't even know how my dick will fit all the way in her. Now, I'm definitely blessed, but what the hell kind of remark is that if you don't want to bang? She ended up leaving a little after 10, but not before saying something along the lines of she doesn't usually take guys home with her the first night she meets them or have them finger her the second time they hang out. This wasn't spoke in an angry way though.

She's going camping with her family the rest of the weekend and after she gets back my next night off isn't until the 21st, so I feel like this might be a lost cause. Maybe I'm not being patient enough, but I've been wading my way through 5s and 6s lately, so with this girl being an 8, I wanted to bang her. What should my next move be, if any? Or am I over-analyzing this crap, and have given her too much value because of her looks...
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Have I screwed this one up? - And I'm pretty sure I have - or not?

Dude relax. Sounds like natural progression. That's something that I don't get with Americans, just because you don't bang a girl the first couple times you hang out doesn't mean you can't have an awesome relationship. Just take your time man, go with the flow. Sounds like she's already yours.
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Have I screwed this one up? - And I'm pretty sure I have - or not?

Yes.. you're over-analyzing this crap. Getting over that is basically the first step to cultivating a positive vibe.
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Have I screwed this one up? - And I'm pretty sure I have - or not?

I thought so, thanks for the reassurance guys. She called me up last night and asked if I wanted to meet her camping today. I declined as I don't need to be meeting her family already, or driving an hour and a half to not have electricity. I'm going to try to go out tonight and hope to meet a new girl and build momentum that I can use with both.
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Have I screwed this one up? - And I'm pretty sure I have - or not?

Update: Hung out again last Tuesday, despite her grandfather's funeral the next day... I knew she wouldn't be able to hang out too late, so I tried to keep things casual. Made out before she left, and everything went well. Got a text from her saying she got home fine, and I replied saying to call me the next day. Didn't hear from her tho, wrote it off due to the funeral. Still haven't heard from her yet, which is kind of odd, so I sent her a "whats up?" this morning, and nothing... what the fuck?

I feel I was very close to banging her, but now I don't want to call her and put myself in a position where I'm chasing her, however, I felt with everything that had gone down so far, I would get the bang this weekend. Thoughts/suggestions?

In my head I figure if I call later tonight, and she doesn't answer it was lost anyway, so what does it matter, and I can just forget it after as I've yet to try anything beyond that text.


Update: And she actually lost her phone, that just seemed so... unlikely.
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