[aphelion]

http://english.globalrencai.com/do-not-m...re-age-30/

"Finding your soul mate requires that you first commit to loving yourself enough to make choices that make you happy. To measure how well you’re doing in loving yourself, simply stop running, and quiet the noise long enough to ask “am I really happy?” If you avoid this question, you’ll never create a good life for yourself.

Being fulfilled as an independent woman is the basis for finding Mr. Right and having a successful life."

"Men respect women who make their own money, as one Wall Street man memorably reminded a beautiful young gold-digger. And a smashing job puts you in touch with the kind of man you couldn’t access if you were a dummy. The sexiest women are the achievers because they’re the most interesting and exciting."

"As I grew into my 30s, as body parts sagged but spirit soared along with my career, something funny happened in my love life. I started attracting a narrower band of men, of much higher caliber. The man-boys disappeared and I was left with successful, self-assured real men. Dating became fun."


It must be a full moon, because we're dealing with full on were-hamster here. No ordinary hamster has this much power.

[Anaguma]

Lol, what a luckbox.
She found some uber beta and blasted out kids at the buzzer @ 39 and 41.
After all, if she can roll double sixes, then why can't everyone else?

Someone should light up her comments section:
http://www.globalrencai.com/do-not-marry.../#comments

[2Wycked]

This isn't just about the hamster, but her profound misunderstanding of the arc of society.

Note the sleight of hand with respects to her career - she thinks a career makes her smart & interesting. Not only is that projection of her sexuality, she represents the false idea that education = intelligence. Also, she papers over apparent lack of personality with an emphasis on career success. From my perspective, I don't put alot of weight on career success because I know how much BS there is out there in corporations/govt jobs.

She talks about later in life marriages having more passion than younger ones - makes no sense. "Knowing what you want" is little more than stating you are settling. Passion=sexual attraction.

Also, her mention of financial stability is troubling. First, is the dual income problem. Women's employment hasn't created more wealth, but necessitate middle class people have two working parents. Also, why later in life? Studen loans - which keep pushing back family formation. People my age may sink into lower middle class status just because of greedy government collectors.

All bluster is that - rationalization. Unable to come to terms with the broken system that prevents family formation, rewards hypergamy, discourages male social investment and enslaves young people with crushing levels of debt before they can even buy beer - they just cough up dumb shit like this.

Articles like this will get more prevelant, insistent and hateful the closer we move collapse - espcially when more sad stories of student loan debt come out

[Samseau]

If Chinese women are smart enough to get into America and make a living here, then they will be able to have their cake and eat it too.

Any woman can get married in America, the game is stacked for women until age 50 in America.

But if she's stuck in China - she's a future cat-lady.

[Derpface200]

Joy Chen is a Chinese-American Feminist. She has it made.

That being said, most actual Chinese people aside from the Western fetishists will laugh their asses off at this hamster.