[Manystyles]

I met this chick from okcupid

We went out on a thursday and it went so well that I hit her up the next day to ask her out Sunday. Yea, kinda fast and i can't ever recall where i didn't wait at least a couple days to schedule a date 2 a week later. I guess because it was from online and there seemed to be a lot of vibing/chemistry going on i wanted to keep the ball rolling. First date we ended up getting drinks and i mentioned to her bowling afterwards. However she was wearing heels which i told her to wear and didn'[t have socks(my fault). She said, "why don't we do karoake" which she ended up paying for. After that we smoked a couple cigs and she asked if i wanted to walk around a bit(a fucking parking lot). So we are doing that. I already went for a kiss in the karaoke booth which she was a bit timid about but obliged. Outside, she was more into it and was biting me along with touching, petting and groping a bit(not my deez). I didn't go for the bang but was implying it by saying that we should both call in sick. Logistics were screwy because I ended up meeting her at a spot then driving her to second spot, meaning her car was parked at first spot.

I texted her today for the second date: "come meet me at my place and i'll drive downtown,(address).

she responded: "how about i just meet you down there?"

So second date... what should i do now? We are both driving seperate going somewhere about 15min away.

[silverbullit]

Play it out nigga. Go on the date.

I've had many situations that seemed improbable turn out to be great notches.

Hell, my best touchdowns were all at 4th down at the 60 yard line.

[silverbullit]

Play it out nigga. Go on the date.

I've had many situations that seemed improbable turn out to be great notches.

Hell, my best touchdowns were all at 4th down at the 60 yard line.

[Manystyles]

Obviously a comfort issue. Have to throw some comfort game.Also being that she came here from china @ 13. Has to some cultural diffs.

[Timoteo]

Don't worry about trying for a follow-up date "too soon." I don't believe in those kind of hard and fast rules. If you feel like the iron is hot, strike. I think if you keep with this chick, you'll get the bang shortly. She may be trying to maintain some control of the situation by not coming to your crib, and wanting her car immediately accessible. Don't sweat that. Just keep pushing up hard. She let you kiss and grope it, so she knows what's next.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(06-09-2013 06:58 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

I met this chick from okcupid

We went out on a thursday and it went so well that I hit her up the next day to ask her out Sunday. Yea, kinda fast and i can't ever recall where i didn't wait at least a couple days to schedule a date 2 a week later. I guess because it was from online and there seemed to be a lot of vibing/chemistry going on i wanted to keep the ball rolling. First date we ended up getting drinks and i mentioned to her bowling afterwards. However she was wearing heels which i told her to wear and didn'[t have socks(my fault). She said, "why don't we do karoake" which she ended up paying for. After that we smoked a couple cigs and she asked if i wanted to walk around a bit(a fucking parking lot). So we are doing that. I already went for a kiss in the karaoke booth which she was a bit timid about but obliged. Outside, she was more into it and was biting me along with touching, petting and groping a bit(not my deez). I didn't go for the bang but was implying it by saying that we should both call in sick. Logistics were screwy because I ended up meeting her at a spot then driving her to second spot, meaning her car was parked at first spot.

I texted her today for the second date: "come meet me at my place and i'll drive downtown,(address).

she responded: "how about i just meet you down there?"

So second date... what should i do now? We are both driving seperate going somewhere about 15min away.

"Outside, she was more into it and was biting me along with touching, petting and groping a bit(not my deez). I didn't go for the bang but was implying it by saying that we should both call in sick."

Her "slut defenses" kicked in. She felt she was too easy or a friend told her she was. So she's having some sort of regrets for her actions. Ironically, had you gotten a first-night bang, this would not have been a problem since the balance of power would have shifted to you. But that's that way it goes with a lot of women.

I agree with the commenter below who says you have to build some comfort level. If she went that far with you, attraction is there, so the question is what to do about it. And the answer to that totally depends on the girl and how she views sex.

One way I found to thaw a girl gone cold is to do something I joked about over at Roissy's (which he liked), which I called "My dog died" game.

The idea is this: after you've established yourself as Alpha (but ONLY after), if the girl goes cold, don't do the usual thing of ignoring it or trying to "joke" her back into a good mood (which makes you Instant Beta). Instead, make her bad mood seem trivial by hitting her with something from left field that will put her mood in perspective and/or make it irrelevant. Something along the lines of "My dog died -- I just need to talk right now" (sob sob). This makes their nurturing instincts kick in and they thaw out really quick. Most women will go from Insta-Bitch to Florence Nightingale within seconds if they hear something like this.

Just make sure not to humble-brag. You can mention you're having some issue (dead dog, sick parent, possible firing at work) but don't make it something like "My Lexus needs a new transmission" or "My raise is only going to be 10 percent!"

You might just want to use this as a Hail Mary pass depending on her mood. If her bitch shield is way up, what do you have to lose? I will say this sort of thing worked for me not just when girls went cold but when I did awful things to make them cold, so I wish you the same luck - hahaha!

[silverbullit]

Dead dog game works great.

[Christian McQueen]

Once you know the rules, you can break em.

Strike while the iron is hot.

[Therapsid]

(06-09-2013 10:06 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

The idea is this: after you've established yourself as Alpha (but ONLY after), if the girl goes cold, don't do the usual thing of ignoring it or trying to "joke" her back into a good mood (which makes you Instant Beta). Instead, make her bad mood seem trivial by hitting her with something from left field that will put her mood in perspective and/or make it irrelevant. Something along the lines of "My dog died -- I just need to talk right now" (sob sob). This makes their nurturing instincts kick in and they thaw out really quick. Most women will go from Insta-Bitch to Florence Nightingale within seconds if they hear something like this.

Just make sure not to humble-brag. You can mention you're having some issue (dead dog, sick parent, possible firing at work) but don't make it something like "My Lexus needs a new transmission" or "My raise is only going to be 10 percent!"

You might just want to use this as a Hail Mary pass depending on her mood. If her bitch shield is way up, what do you have to lose? I will say this sort of thing worked for me not just when girls went cold but when I did awful things to make them cold, so I wish you the same luck - hahaha!

I like this but guys gotta remember what you said here - it's a hail mary move. Don't squander it with a chick who's still on the hot plate. The OP here has a girl who's still into him and just isn't ready to go straight to his house. No need for dead dog game in this scenario, it'd be overkill.

But then again, maybe guys could experiment with overkilling it to speed up the lay.

[Manystyles]

Ended up being asked if I wanted to rent a movie with her.
Was in her bed and even to get there she put up so many defenses.

In bed it took me so long to get her clothes off. I'm in my underwear and she still has pants. I tried to go down her panties like 100x. The only thing I could do was stroke her from the outside. I had her squirming and moaning. I started sucking in her hip and she went crazy. Playing with my balls and stroking from the outside.

She tells me she has a 6 date rule. This is after I told her I have a 5 date rule.

Well she and I both leave for a week and won't see her til next tuesday. Any suggestions?

[Jaylow]

This should help.

I would PM Soup about any specifics.

[Que enspastic]

one of the best solutions to LMR is more comfort.

note also that LMR is sometimes completely out of your control even when you bring your A-game. accept it.

[aphelion]

Don't actually kill your dog for dead dog game tho

[germanico]

Its actually better if you meet them halfway the first time you go out.

She is interested, she is making the job easier for you.

Go for it.

[Manystyles]

(06-10-2013 06:36 PM)germanico Wrote:  

Its actually better if you meet them halfway the first time you go out.

She is interested, she is making the job easier for you.

Go for it.

Forgot to add... I remembered he favorite candy was orange so i left an orange dum dum lollipop snuck away in her bedroom. Texted her after i left to go find it. I'm hoping something like that can add to comfort.

[silverbullit]

This is when you run rape game and just take it.