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06-07-2013, 12:57 AM
Let me preface this by saying that I don't have oneitis.
Lots of women are sluts and whores. We know this because we've played the game and seen it happen over and over. It's common on this forum to shit on women because they do things that deserve to be shitted on.
However, I have this one girl in my rotation who is down to earth, feminine, attractive, fun to talk to, submissive, and ready to fuck on any call. I don't put her on a pedestal, but it is nice to know that some of the traits that some of us look for on this forum can actually be found in America.
Has anyone else found a Western girl who is able to impress you with her personality and looks while maintaining her feminine nature?
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06-07-2013, 02:34 AM
Of course, I call them "girl in my rotation".
However, that's as far as I will go. Some people call them " girlfriend,"friend," "fuck buddy" etc. The worse of all is "wife."
Every man thinks they have found gold at one point but some of us know that gold exist in all shapes and sizes.
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06-07-2013, 01:54 PM
Yes. But they're not common.
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06-09-2013, 09:15 AM
There are over 100 million women in this country. There's got to be a few good ones. I meet a few every year.
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06-09-2013, 10:50 AM
Of course. Be optimistic.
I approach maybe 20-30 girls a night when I do night game. My night game is very direct, not verbally but through body language.
Let's say 30 girls:
Maybe 10 are really cold and don't give me the light of day.
Another 10 are semi-cold and if I do well the first few seconds I might be able to hook them.
5 of these might go well. I might have a short dance with them or they will stick around for at least a couple minutes. They will probably be receptive to my directness and reciprocate (lean in, come closer when I pull them in by the neck).
The last 5 will go really well. Either a great dance, a kiss/makeout, she will stick around for a while, I am able to isolate her from her friends, she will offer me her number without me asking etc.
These 5 girls are usually very feminine as opposed to the others. Why? because they complied and fell into my direct frame, and see me as above them in terms of value. They qualify, might get a little nervous, give me huge tells of attraction etc.
All girls have some feminine side/nature to them, even if some are more than others. It's just about making it a man-woman interaction, being the masculine, and forcing her to be the feminine.
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06-09-2013, 02:17 PM
Its not about recognizing if she's good, its about recognizing if the game you're spitting is tight enough to make her be good.
Even the sweetest, most down to earth girl will start treating you like shit when she feels like it... usually after you start failing shit tests.
If there's any way to gauge how good a girl is, its by looking at her past relationships, how she treats other people (even betas), and how deceptive she is with those around her. If she treats everyone like shit except for you, then its a matter of time before you're going down on her after some other dude done spunkd in her.
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06-09-2013, 02:28 PM
Case in point, I dated this girl for 3 months. Sweet as can be, never flaked, gave me her free time, hour long blowjobs, drove to see me when I was out of town. I also treated her pretty well, and told her how I felt. Well, one day the flakiness begins... I call her on her shit, she accuses me of being controlling, instant break up.
As soon as she sensed that she had things locked down, she lost the tingles. The real question is what can you do to prevent her from losing that loving feeling?