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I haven't been exclusive with any girl for 6+ years. A little over a month ago I started dating a chick (while also dating, and chasing other chicks). Decided I liked her enough to run an experiment of how a chick acts differently if I got exclusive with her to see her change of behavior.
For the few weeks after agreeing on exclusivity with her everything was still the exact same, fun and easy. She seemed happy about me bringing it up and said she wasn't seeing any other guys at the time.
This chick is outta state for 2 weeks right now visiting home. She sends me a text saying what day she would be back saying "you have permission to do whatever you want, just don't tell me about it".
My immediate assumption is she is fucking other guys out there from a text like that. I eventually got on the phone with her a few days later and asked her what that text was all about.
She said it was because she didn't want to be the girl to nag and make me be exclusive, and that I had all this going for me, funny, sexy, and that I love to hit on girls. I had mentioned to her when we became exclusive I was anxious about being tied down (bad move in general, good for this experiment), and how I am used to being able to hit on whoever I want etc.. we had also had gotten a bit into each other's histories she knows I have dated a multitude of women, different races etc through general conversation. I got around to saying I thought whoever would send that free pass text is fucking other people (not angrily, just matter of factly). She put up a believable denial that did not seem overly defensive or protesting too much.
Is there any angle here other than giving me a free pass because she is fucking other guys?
My short experiment has taught me that the last 6+ years no exclusivity is a righteous path with no waste of drama, time, and energy.
I haven't been exclusive with any girl for 6+ years. A little over a month ago I started dating a chick (while also dating, and chasing other chicks). Decided I liked her enough to run an experiment of how a chick acts differently if I got exclusive with her to see her change of behavior.
For the few weeks after agreeing on exclusivity with her everything was still the exact same, fun and easy. She seemed happy about me bringing it up and said she wasn't seeing any other guys at the time.
This chick is outta state for 2 weeks right now visiting home. She sends me a text saying what day she would be back saying "you have permission to do whatever you want, just don't tell me about it".
My immediate assumption is she is fucking other guys out there from a text like that. I eventually got on the phone with her a few days later and asked her what that text was all about.
She said it was because she didn't want to be the girl to nag and make me be exclusive, and that I had all this going for me, funny, sexy, and that I love to hit on girls. I had mentioned to her when we became exclusive I was anxious about being tied down (bad move in general, good for this experiment), and how I am used to being able to hit on whoever I want etc.. we had also had gotten a bit into each other's histories she knows I have dated a multitude of women, different races etc through general conversation. I got around to saying I thought whoever would send that free pass text is fucking other people (not angrily, just matter of factly). She put up a believable denial that did not seem overly defensive or protesting too much.
Is there any angle here other than giving me a free pass because she is fucking other guys?
My short experiment has taught me that the last 6+ years no exclusivity is a righteous path with no waste of drama, time, and energy.
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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems