BACKSTORY:
There's this girl, a 7, who's been my friend since I was a hopeless betaboy from years ago. Long story short, I moved across the country for a few years and wind up back here. We meet up, hook up, and have a good thing for a few weeks before she gets a boyfriend.
Queue the inevitable breakup a few months later- he dumps her because the distance isn't worth it (2 hour drive). She invites me over to her place that night, one thing leads to another and we fuck. The next day, her boyfriend wants her back. She feels guilty and tells him about what happened between us, but in a way that basically said "I took advantage of her."
Queue fight, resulting in me and her not talking for a while. She's been single since then though, happily fucking this dude every few weeks trying to win him back. She's finally accepted that it won't happen.
Huge life crisis happens to her and since she had no one else to turn to, she came to me asking for help. One beta relapse later, we're friends again.
Things go well between us, but I told her several times because of what happened I don't see us hooking up again. Dunno if I did this subconsciously or not, but it was really the proper challenge because she's tried like crazy since then.
Which prompted the following conversation, a few days ago.
Her: I just don't get why you wouldn't sleep with me.
Me: *Looks at her, raises eyebrows, doesn't speak*
Her: Like what's changed since then and now?
Me: Y'know what, fine. I'd totally, definitely sleep with you.
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: That's on you, then.
Her: Prove it! I'll give you 3 days to prove it.
Me: Hey, I don't appreciate time constraints.
Her: Alright, fine, 4 days.
Me: *same look, no words*
Her: *leans up on me* So I got this bra today, it's brand new. It's black on the outside but It's cute and pink on the inside, wanna see?
Me: *doesn't repsond*
She reaches into her low cut shirt and turns her bra inside out to show me.
Me: Huh. I didn't picture you to be the kind of girl who'd wear something so... bright.
Her: Hey! I think I look cute in pink. But I don't think you're gonna sleep with me.
Me: That's on you, then. I totally, definitely will.
Her: Uh huh. Well you have 5 days to prove it.
I drive her home, drop her off, and think nothing of it.
We meet up the next day (I work with this girl now) cause I promised i'd take her home from work. I get to her house, and drop her off. She invites me in; I decline politely.
Next couple days pass, it's day 4 of her frame. We're hanging out at her house, smoking pot and having a good time. She goes to her computer and starts talking to some guy online, I make a note of it and start texting a few people in the meantime.
Time passes, we talk some but I'm kind've wrapped up in my texts and don't really pay much attention to her. She gets pissy and says it's like talking to a wall. I look at her and say "I hear every word she's saying."
She replies "so's the wall."
I dunno why but I decided at that instant to give her another chance. I Look at her for a minute, and say "do you want to fuck?"
She gets flustered and says "What!? NO. That's weird."
So I reply, "Alright, so it's day 4 and I earnestly tried, this falls on you now."
She gets quiet for a bit, then says "I hate you. That's not fair. Besides, you wouldn't anyways."
I look at her and say, "I totally, definitely would."
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: That's on you, then.
Her body language becomes much more open to me- legs pointed at me (we're sitting down.)
Her: Why do you want to all of a sudden? I don't believe you.
Me: I want to fuck you because I want to fuck you.
Her: I think you just want to win.
Me: That's on you, then.
She slides closer, and mumbles "I don't believe you.."
I put my hand on her leg and say (yet again) "that's on you, then."
At this point she slides closer to me but I don't move my hand. It ends up right over her pussy.
Her: "Why do you want to fuck me?"
Me: "Because I want to fuck you." I move my hand a little- she's practically begging at this point.
Her: "... Where do you want to fuck me?"
Me: "Lets try your bed."
We go upstairs, start making out, fooling around, grabbing, etc. Her bra comes off. She mutters "I shouldn't do this." I ignore it. She repeats, louder this time. I still ignore it. I kiss her neck. She grabs my hair and forces me closer to her. Then she pushes my face away and says "I shouldn't do this."
I say, "I don't believe you."
She says, "You never do." (reference to last time months ago)
I look at her, irritated. Put my shirt back on and say, "bye."
I swear I hear her mutter something, but I don't turn around or say anything else.
I go downstairs, grab my belongings, and leave.
My question is, what the fuck? I know it was last minute resistance but it was so over the top how she just pushed me away that i couldn't just blow past it.
She's been online since then (AIM) and i've been invisible- I don't think she ever went to sleep. Should I wait for her to call me? If I see her at work, I plan on ignoring her- think that's the right move to make? I guess I just don't know where to go from here. Any advice would be appreciated, although I'm just expecting a bunch of "forget her" I don't think my chances are totally shot.
There's this girl, a 7, who's been my friend since I was a hopeless betaboy from years ago. Long story short, I moved across the country for a few years and wind up back here. We meet up, hook up, and have a good thing for a few weeks before she gets a boyfriend.
Queue the inevitable breakup a few months later- he dumps her because the distance isn't worth it (2 hour drive). She invites me over to her place that night, one thing leads to another and we fuck. The next day, her boyfriend wants her back. She feels guilty and tells him about what happened between us, but in a way that basically said "I took advantage of her."
Queue fight, resulting in me and her not talking for a while. She's been single since then though, happily fucking this dude every few weeks trying to win him back. She's finally accepted that it won't happen.
Huge life crisis happens to her and since she had no one else to turn to, she came to me asking for help. One beta relapse later, we're friends again.
Things go well between us, but I told her several times because of what happened I don't see us hooking up again. Dunno if I did this subconsciously or not, but it was really the proper challenge because she's tried like crazy since then.
Which prompted the following conversation, a few days ago.
Her: I just don't get why you wouldn't sleep with me.
Me: *Looks at her, raises eyebrows, doesn't speak*
Her: Like what's changed since then and now?
Me: Y'know what, fine. I'd totally, definitely sleep with you.
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: That's on you, then.
Her: Prove it! I'll give you 3 days to prove it.
Me: Hey, I don't appreciate time constraints.
Her: Alright, fine, 4 days.
Me: *same look, no words*
Her: *leans up on me* So I got this bra today, it's brand new. It's black on the outside but It's cute and pink on the inside, wanna see?
Me: *doesn't repsond*
She reaches into her low cut shirt and turns her bra inside out to show me.
Me: Huh. I didn't picture you to be the kind of girl who'd wear something so... bright.
Her: Hey! I think I look cute in pink. But I don't think you're gonna sleep with me.
Me: That's on you, then. I totally, definitely will.
Her: Uh huh. Well you have 5 days to prove it.
I drive her home, drop her off, and think nothing of it.
We meet up the next day (I work with this girl now) cause I promised i'd take her home from work. I get to her house, and drop her off. She invites me in; I decline politely.
Next couple days pass, it's day 4 of her frame. We're hanging out at her house, smoking pot and having a good time. She goes to her computer and starts talking to some guy online, I make a note of it and start texting a few people in the meantime.
Time passes, we talk some but I'm kind've wrapped up in my texts and don't really pay much attention to her. She gets pissy and says it's like talking to a wall. I look at her and say "I hear every word she's saying."
She replies "so's the wall."
I dunno why but I decided at that instant to give her another chance. I Look at her for a minute, and say "do you want to fuck?"
She gets flustered and says "What!? NO. That's weird."
So I reply, "Alright, so it's day 4 and I earnestly tried, this falls on you now."
She gets quiet for a bit, then says "I hate you. That's not fair. Besides, you wouldn't anyways."
I look at her and say, "I totally, definitely would."
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: That's on you, then.
Her body language becomes much more open to me- legs pointed at me (we're sitting down.)
Her: Why do you want to all of a sudden? I don't believe you.
Me: I want to fuck you because I want to fuck you.
Her: I think you just want to win.
Me: That's on you, then.
She slides closer, and mumbles "I don't believe you.."
I put my hand on her leg and say (yet again) "that's on you, then."
At this point she slides closer to me but I don't move my hand. It ends up right over her pussy.
Her: "Why do you want to fuck me?"
Me: "Because I want to fuck you." I move my hand a little- she's practically begging at this point.
Her: "... Where do you want to fuck me?"
Me: "Lets try your bed."
We go upstairs, start making out, fooling around, grabbing, etc. Her bra comes off. She mutters "I shouldn't do this." I ignore it. She repeats, louder this time. I still ignore it. I kiss her neck. She grabs my hair and forces me closer to her. Then she pushes my face away and says "I shouldn't do this."
I say, "I don't believe you."
She says, "You never do." (reference to last time months ago)
I look at her, irritated. Put my shirt back on and say, "bye."
I swear I hear her mutter something, but I don't turn around or say anything else.
I go downstairs, grab my belongings, and leave.
My question is, what the fuck? I know it was last minute resistance but it was so over the top how she just pushed me away that i couldn't just blow past it.
She's been online since then (AIM) and i've been invisible- I don't think she ever went to sleep. Should I wait for her to call me? If I see her at work, I plan on ignoring her- think that's the right move to make? I guess I just don't know where to go from here. Any advice would be appreciated, although I'm just expecting a bunch of "forget her" I don't think my chances are totally shot.