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Approaching 4 girls
05-23-2013, 12:29 AM
So last night I approached 3 girls and it went pretty well (this is a university campus)...I then approached 4 girls and opened with a rough english translation of 'Hello Ladies' and I'm guessing the alpha from the group, looked smiled said hello and then she just started laughing maniacally. Of course the rest followed. The only thing going through my head was 'wtf what do I do with this bag of bones'. Before I would have felt a resounding 'FU go to hell' sort of reply but this time it was just funny. Just wish I had a good way to make the best of something like that.
Now that I think of it I probably should have negged her? Or should I have ignored her and started working the friends over? What would have worked best in that kind of situation?
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Approaching 4 girls
05-25-2013, 12:21 PM
Your in a university campus. Aren't there any girls alone sitting somewhere?
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05-25-2013, 01:10 PM
Well if they all laughed from the start then it probably has something to do with how you are portraying yourself and your confidence. Or perhaps it can be the way you dress and your general demeanour.
Were you smiling?
Were you confident?
Were you engaging in interesting conversation and leading the interaction? (I can answer this one for you. No you weren't since you just left the whole thing hanging after saying "hello ladies").
By the sounds of it the "hello ladies" line came across to them as a cheesy run of the mill pick up line.
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Approaching 4 girls
05-25-2013, 04:50 PM
Stop thinking about it.
Try other girls.
The only way to get good is to do it.
Before you can be mildly good at something you have to suck at it first.
Don't think so much, do what feels natural
And stop the hello ladies shit.
Every time I read hello ladies I think of an old, creepy and rich Arab man
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