solid posts as always Gio!
kosko, I find if I make myself believe I'm already great friends with the girl or something I'll be way more comfortable and 'natural' when approaching.
Today I went to a bunch of different stores. I talked to all the employees I could, at the shoe store there was a hot chick working. I could picture myself as at the very least a good friend with her so I said "im looking for some summer shoes, I'm hoping if that I buy some It'll stop raining" she giggled and started saying how it should be getting better soon. We talked for a few minutes until another customer came in. Put me in a great mood for the rest of the day.
Then I went to starbucks and the barista was a fat lesbo. I tried, but I couldn't keep a conversation. I asked some general questions but it seemed really forced.
Later on I actually got a phone number from this waify/nerdy chick.
I went to the thrift store and picked out this jacket I couldn't decide if it was cool or not. I went to text a friend to ask their opinion and thought "shit why don't I just ask that cute girl over there" I walked over with the same mindset that I would have had if a friend were with me, rambled a bit. Made a macklemore joke, learned a bit about her then got her number.
kosko, I find if I make myself believe I'm already great friends with the girl or something I'll be way more comfortable and 'natural' when approaching.
Today I went to a bunch of different stores. I talked to all the employees I could, at the shoe store there was a hot chick working. I could picture myself as at the very least a good friend with her so I said "im looking for some summer shoes, I'm hoping if that I buy some It'll stop raining" she giggled and started saying how it should be getting better soon. We talked for a few minutes until another customer came in. Put me in a great mood for the rest of the day.
Then I went to starbucks and the barista was a fat lesbo. I tried, but I couldn't keep a conversation. I asked some general questions but it seemed really forced.
Later on I actually got a phone number from this waify/nerdy chick.
I went to the thrift store and picked out this jacket I couldn't decide if it was cool or not. I went to text a friend to ask their opinion and thought "shit why don't I just ask that cute girl over there" I walked over with the same mindset that I would have had if a friend were with me, rambled a bit. Made a macklemore joke, learned a bit about her then got her number.