[TrojanTraveler]

hey everyone,

need some help here in Lima, Peru. I'm experiencing what I think is some strong discrimination in Lima but I can't tell. I'm half white and half Indian, i'm actually very good looking and 6'3". Had amazing success in Colombia but falling flat on my ass in Lima, Peru.

My story so far:

Just arrived here 4 days ago and have been out on maybe 8 dates
with girls on Latin American Cupid to test the waters. These are like 1 to 2 hrs, having cocktails, sharing stories and flirting.

I got insane amount of interest from solid 7.5's, 8's, and 8.5's on Latin American Cupid BEFORE I arrived, added them on Facebook, got the numbers and chatted online. When I got here and called, the 7.5's and higher fled, no interest,, no response to messages or calls.

I probably met up with 7's (solid 7's mind you, these would be 8's in the USA) and there was little to no follow up interest, at times the girls were very self-righteous on the dates, sort of full of themselves and their lives, and didn't listen very well or weren't that interested. They also didn't respond to Kino (touching and being caring) at all. I didn't even kiss one on the 1st date.

A bit about my abilities:

I spent about 50 days in Colombia recently and banged a total of 14 girls, a few 8's and plenty of great 7's. (yes 14 girls, it was freaking crazy and a TON of hard, hard work) In Colombia, as well, if a girl likes you , the next day after you meet her, she'll IM you on Facebook or Whatsapp to show interest that you should calll her again.

Over here i'm getting almost the opposite interest, this is worse than the USA. If I call a girl the 2nd day, she'll say something about getting together with her and a "amiga". in Colombia this means she's interested in you a friend and nothng more or wants to use you to pay for drinks and stuff. In some cases, i'm not even getting a response.

Not to mention, any girl that is legitimately fine is ignoring me on Facebook, hanging up on me, this is like the opposite of Colombia or even the U.S.

NOW, One big detail. I am 35 years old, I look maybe 27 years old, am 6'3", thin, a bit athletic, half-white, half-Indian, I'm a good looking guy, a bit exotic, but am brown for sure with the height, body, hair of a Gringo BUT skin color and nose of a person from India, a bit native looking like the people in Peru. and they LOVE white guys with blue eyes here, it's crazy, DIFFERENT from Colombia where it doesnt' really matter .

I live in L.A and have generally been able to game/date up in my life. I"m the president of a company and have been on TV a lot. I've got confidence and a great sense of humour. In Colombia I have 7's and 8's IM'ing me over and over why I'm not calling them back after I've had sex with them.

MY QUESTION: WTF am I doing wrong here in Lima , Peru? I've read EVERY post on this board. Is it because I'm not white and , being half-Indian I come across as being a bit native and perceived "lower status"? I speak nearly fluent Spanish. I took 4 semesters at the University of Miami and know the jokes, and everything. Maybe I need to speak more English?

Maybe just beginners luck or Latin American Cupid but I was killing it in Colombia, I mean in Bogota and Barranquilla, Medellin was tough I'll admit. I'm going to practice normal game as well walking out and about, but I wanted to run some Cupid game and learn first. WOW, quite a shocker.

THANKS EVERYONE !

[Belize King]

The way you are talking yourself up, you sound like a troll. If you had so much success in Colombia, then you shouldn't have a problem. I dont know what to tell you. Personally I think you are about to get flamed so prepare for it if you arent't a troll. PM InternationalPlayboy. He seems to have the most Peru experience if you want a real answer.

Go back to colombia if you are on vacation and just try to get laid. If you are there for the surfing or experience then continue to game on and you should catch a few girls. If you are in Lima then hit the datasheet and see what's up.

Good luck and game on.

[worldwidetraveler]

[Brodiaga]

Are you looking for advice or are you bragging?

[TheBulldozer]

I think he's ing

[speakeasy]

8 dates in 4 days? The math of that sounds a bit suspect to say the least.

[travolta]

Maybe these girls are weirded out by your excessive use of pick up jargon?

[germanico]

(05-16-2013 12:14 AM)travolta Wrote:  

Maybe these girls are weirded out by your excessive use of pick up jargon?

Perhaps they are weirded out by the excessive importance you give to your racial characteristics.

What the fuck is a "nose of a person from India"?

[TrojanTraveler]

hhaha,, no seriously, definitely not bragging, sorry if I came off that way. just wanted to explain to you the crazy
night and day situation i'm experiencing with as many details as possible.

Let's just say i'm a normal good looking guy, but with Indian features. I'm used to getting a good but not amazing amount of attention from girls.
The girls in Colombia loved my jokes and style, not all , but many. Trust me, I was surprised, Colombia was awesome!

Just not having good luck here guys, it's really night and day. Lima has really sucked balXs compared to Colombia , I just don't get it.
I met a girl today for a first date, and she came with her gay friend. I've spoken to here for like a month online. I didn't freak out, I don't like to do the whole, "with amigo" or "amiga" thing for the first date but I went along with it and played it like a champ.

but... the girl showed almost no interest in me the whole night after I paid for everything, to enter into clubs and alcohol adn everything.

I don't get it. I'm striking out on 9 girls now, almost no interest in Lima, and these girls aren't nearly as hot as the girls in Colombia.

I read all the datasheets. GREAT info, but most have said the same thing, it's like 50/50. I am honestly going after very good-looking girls, not going after whatever chick that's boneable.

Anyone whose had some experience in Lima, drop me some advice here. Read tons of stuff how they don't like people who aren't white and this could be a factor.
Even the founder of this board himself didn't like Lima and had trouble there he said.

Again, sorry if I came off as a co*k haha, for sure, just a normal guy, trying to game on and I'm persistent!!!

Thanks for the advice.

[TrojanTraveler]

Thanks for the great advice TexasMade...
Will PM Int'l Playboy.

I WILL continue to game on but man, this has been a tough one.
Feel like i'm back in the states here. This place feels like Miami,
It's very Americanized at times with that screwed up American girl attitude..... Something feels out of place....

Will update you soon, hopefully with WAY better news.

lates

TT

[kazz]

If you killed it in Colombia, perhaps you should share some info.

[Duke Castile]

Now girls are racist when they don't like you. If it weren't for bojangles I'd give up on Indian guys completely.

[TrojanTraveler]

(05-16-2013 04:18 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

Now girls are racist when they don't like you. If it weren't for bojangles I'd give up on Indian guys completely.

Hey buddy, to clariffy, if you do a search on other threads regarding Peru youll find tons of people complaining about how Peru is racist. Did you see any of the posts by Mixx about this, he said it was really bad and didn't like it there. a lot of people have mentioned how it's a messed up society becausse the women there are indigenous and feel like they need to ethnically cleanse their own genes to get their families as white as they can.

And have you seen some of the pictures and stuff of the hot girls down here? They go for the muscular Miami tatooed types and spend all their time in the discotecas. Felt different in Colombia. Felt like anyone could be a star if they wanted to. This place feels like Miami but a bit backwards socially..

Have you read any of the stuff on the Lima threads regarding this? It's reallly messed up and this is what i'm expereiencing down here, I think.

Need your HELP guys, IF you know the scene down here, I don't need my own race bashed, this doesn't help.