[Scoundrel]

From the Washington Post article:

Quote:

Two eggs failed to survive the thawing process. Three more failed to fertilize. That left six embryos, of which five appeared to be abnormal. The last one was implanted in her uterus. On the morning of March 7, she got the devastating news that it, too, had failed.

Adams was not pregnant, and her chances of carrying her genetic child had just dropped to near zero. She remembers screaming like “a wild animal,” throwing books, papers, her laptop — and collapsing to the ground.

“It was one of the worst days of my life. There were so many emotions. I was sad. I was angry. I was ashamed,” she said. “I questioned, ‘Why me?’ ‘What did I do wrong?’ ”

She's pregnant now, albeit with someone else's embryo. Assuming she actually gives birth, the baby will have no genetic connection to her whatsoever.

Then there's this doozy of a story, about a different woman:

Quote:

When MeiMei Fox froze her eggs at 37, the process went more smoothly than she expected. The retrieval, where the doctor removes eggs from the ovaries with a long needle, went without a hitch. She remembers going home and taking a nap.

“I was thrilled and thought it was the best decision I ever made,” she said.

Fox immediately started dating “without thinking about long-term commitments but just enjoying the moment.” She blogged about her experience in HuffPost. As fate would have it, she found “the love of her life,” a filmmaker and fellow writer, months later. The two were soon married.

For almost two years, they tried to get pregnant naturally. When Fox was about to turn 40, she decided to use her frozen eggs.

She was living in Los Angeles; her eggs were in San Francisco. Her new clinic called her old clinic and had them shipped south.

“They knew from the minute they opened the package something was wrong,” Fox recalled. A lab tech later showed her the straws in which the eggs were stored, and how they had leaked.

Fox was beyond devastated. But after three years of traditional IVF and fertility treatments with her current eggs, she gave birth to twin boys.

“There’s a happy ending, but with a lot of pain and heartbreak and $100,000 along the way,” she said. “Their grandparents are always asking if I started their college fund. I’m like, ‘The college fund went into creating them.’ ”

[N°6]

Wouldn’t it be better value for everyone if husbands were given the married man premium on top of their salaries to fund the allowances of stay at home mothers who could then make university and career choices once the kids were at school and semi-independent?

[CynicalContrarian]

Perhaps there's a silver lining to man's destructive tendencies (or God's destruction of the Tower Of Babel every now & then as the case may be).

Mankind can never reach a state where he can subvert nature too much & cause a total imbalance...

[Captainstabbin]

Freezing eggs - even with the new techniques - is a failure. Not only does the woman have a dramatically lower chance of successfully carrying the child to term, but the child is likely to have genetic damage.

Does a late 30s, or 40+ year old woman really have the patience and energy to look after a problem child? Of course not, she's lucky to keep up with an unusually calm, well-mannered child.

The practice, while not effective, feeds a woman's self esteem while charging her insurance company (and us) a fortune.

Quote:

Just 2,000 babies have been born from cryogenically frozen eggs in the world—and only 20, for instance, in all of Great Britain.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

Quote:

Two eggs failed to survive the thawing process. Three more failed to fertilize. That left six embryos, of which five appeared to be abnormal. The last one was implanted in her uterus. On the morning of March 7, she got the devastating news that it, too, had failed.

Adams was not pregnant, and her chances of carrying her genetic child had just dropped to near zero. She remembers screaming like “a wild animal,” throwing books, papers, her laptop — and collapsing to the ground.

Yup - pretty much what I expected.

Now she has a child essentially as a surrogate mother - and a single one at that bitter and dejected.

So empowering.....

[Bill Brasky]

(03-13-2018 03:06 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

Quote:

Two eggs failed to survive the thawing process. Three more failed to fertilize. That left six embryos, of which five appeared to be abnormal. The last one was implanted in her uterus. On the morning of March 7, she got the devastating news that it, too, had failed.

Adams was not pregnant, and her chances of carrying her genetic child had just dropped to near zero. She remembers screaming like “a wild animal,” throwing books, papers, her laptop — and collapsing to the ground.

Yup - pretty much what I expected.

Now she has a child essentially as a surrogate mother - and a single one at that bitter and dejected.

So empowering.....

The desperation just to have something come out of her body is alarming. There is absolutely no genetic connection to this child. She has burdened herself with the worst part of having a child which is carrying it for 9 months and then the pain of actually having it.

This kid is nothing more than something for her to check off her bucket list and salvage some semblance of having "had it all." This woman needs to be shamed.

[Foolsgo1d]

Its not going to go away. If you were a business man and people are willing to throw god knows how much $$s at you to get them pregnant, then you better damn well find a way to take those off their hands.

Or else!

[Isaac Jordan]

(03-13-2018 04:17 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

Its not going to go away. If you were a business man and people are willing to throw god knows how much $$s at you to get them pregnant, then you better damn well find a way to take those off their hands.

Or else!

Seriously though, has anyone here researched IVF/fertility products companies? After reading this thread I'm thinking it should be the cornerstone of my "red pill portfolio," along with cat food/pet products, antidepressant pharmaceuticals, and tattoo removal (assuming some sort of patent-able process), just to name a few.

[Hell_Is_Like_Newark]

(03-14-2018 06:40 PM)Isaac Jordan Wrote:  

Seriously though, has anyone here researched IVF/fertility products companies? After reading this thread I'm thinking it should be the cornerstone of my "red pill portfolio," along with cat food/pet products, antidepressant pharmaceuticals, and tattoo removal (assuming some sort of patent-able process), just to name a few.

Went through the IVF process with the wife (we were trying for kids for years). All the firms I researched are privately held.

There is money in IVF drugs (until they come off patent). So you might want to research which pharma firm is waiting on pending FDA approval on the next generation of fertility drugs.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

I am investing in a more final solution:

[kosko]

(03-13-2018 01:37 AM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

From the Washington Post article:

Quote:

Two eggs failed to survive the thawing process. Three more failed to fertilize. That left six embryos, of which five appeared to be abnormal. The last one was implanted in her uterus. On the morning of March 7, she got the devastating news that it, too, had failed.

Adams was not pregnant, and her chances of carrying her genetic child had just dropped to near zero. She remembers screaming like “a wild animal,” throwing books, papers, her laptop — and collapsing to the ground.

“It was one of the worst days of my life. There were so many emotions. I was sad. I was angry. I was ashamed,” she said. “I questioned, ‘Why me?’ ‘What did I do wrong?’ ”

She's pregnant now, albeit with someone else's embryo. Assuming she actually gives birth, the baby will have no genetic connection to her whatsoever.

Then there's this doozy of a story, about a different woman:

Quote:

When MeiMei Fox froze her eggs at 37, the process went more smoothly than she expected. The retrieval, where the doctor removes eggs from the ovaries with a long needle, went without a hitch. She remembers going home and taking a nap.

“I was thrilled and thought it was the best decision I ever made,” she said.

Fox immediately started dating “without thinking about long-term commitments but just enjoying the moment.” She blogged about her experience in HuffPost. As fate would have it, she found “the love of her life,” a filmmaker and fellow writer, months later. The two were soon married.

For almost two years, they tried to get pregnant naturally. When Fox was about to turn 40, she decided to use her frozen eggs.

She was living in Los Angeles; her eggs were in San Francisco. Her new clinic called her old clinic and had them shipped south.

“They knew from the minute they opened the package something was wrong,” Fox recalled. A lab tech later showed her the straws in which the eggs were stored, and how they had leaked.

Fox was beyond devastated. But after three years of traditional IVF and fertility treatments with her current eggs, she gave birth to twin boys.

“There’s a happy ending, but with a lot of pain and heartbreak and $100,000 along the way,” she said. “Their grandparents are always asking if I started their college fund. I’m like, ‘The college fund went into creating them.’ ”

I have been saying that this industry is a ATM for consistent money. You are selling women a crude gamble to hedge against nature with no promise. Women pay big money to roll the dice and you still get your money in the end.

[hv123]

Tattoo removal could be massive in years to come.

[king bast]

My sister spent somewhere ~$100,000 on several rounds of IVF and she finally fell pregnant on what was to be her last attempt.

That kid is now 6 or 7, and although hes so young, I can say with 99% certainty that that kid is (going to be) gay as they come. G. A. Y. After all of that time, money and heartache to propagate their seed, it's now going to die just one step further down the line. Sad.

[Sidney Crosby]

50K to freeze eggs or have a family when young and spend the 50k on daycare?

[Genghis Khan]

(03-15-2018 09:00 PM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  

50K to freeze eggs or have a family when young and spend the 50k on daycare?

For women:

there is a 0.0000001% probability they can waste away their youth, find Mr. Alpha Millionaire/Provider, and have amazing kids in their 40s and 50s while always being happy, living a fabulous jet-setting life with their 6ft3 super hawt husband who picked them for their maturity, experience and "career" achievements.

there is a 99.99999999% probability that plan will fail.

Women will always pick the first option, in the off-chance they're the one bitch in a hundred trillion to make it work.

Women are perennial optimists.

[TrifeLife]

(03-15-2018 11:26 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

For women:

there is a 0.0000001% probability they can waste away their youth, find Mr. Alpha Millionaire/Provider, and have amazing kids in their 40s and 50s while always being happy, living a fabulous jet-setting life with their 6ft3 super hawt husband who picked them for their maturity, experience and "career" achievements.

there is a 99.99999999% probability that plan will fail.

Women will always pick the first option, in the off-chance they're the one bitch in a hundred trillion to make it work.

Women are perennial optimists.

When you perceive reality as if you are starring in your own movie, of course you presume you are headed towards a happy ending

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(03-15-2018 11:26 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

(03-15-2018 09:00 PM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  

50K to freeze eggs or have a family when young and spend the 50k on daycare?

For women:

there is a 0.0000001% probability they can waste away their youth, find Mr. Alpha Millionaire/Provider, and have amazing kids in their 40s and 50s while always being happy, living a fabulous jet-setting life with their 6ft3 super hawt husband who picked them for their maturity, experience and "career" achievements.

there is a 99.99999999% probability that plan will fail.

Women will always pick the first option, in the off-chance they're the one bitch in a hundred trillion to make it work.

Women are perennial optimists.

Meet that one woman:



The dream lives on!

Essentially it's a lottery numbers hypergamy plan that works out for one in a million.

[Captainstabbin]

^^^^That still baffles me. He's 33, she's 36. The dude could pick any sub 28 year old on the planet and he chooses her? Sure he'll have her pregnant before her next birthday, but still.

His brother is married to a 36 year old and she's had 2 kids and is about to have a 3rd. No way Meghan will be able to catch up, she'll be lucky to have 2 before drying up.

[ChefAllDay]

Here is another warning story for those of you with women in their prime who want to put off off having babies until they conquer their career.

https://www.ctvnews.ca/health/couple-tak...-1.3979210

I am sure this happens way more than reported.

[CynicalContrarian]

(06-20-2018 07:57 AM)ChefAllDay Wrote:  

Here is another warning story for those of you with women in their prime who want to put off off having babies until they conquer their career.

https://www.ctvnews.ca/health/couple-tak...-1.3979210

I am sure this happens way more than reported.

Couple takes legal action against Toronto fertility clinic over damaged eggs, embryos

An Ontario couple has filed notice of legal action against a Toronto fertility clinic after an alleged storage tank malfunction damaged their eggs and embryos.
In documents filed in Ontario Superior Court last week, the Mississauga, Ont., husband and wife, identified only by their initials, are seeking damages for negligence, breach of contract and breach of fiduciary duty. The notice of action seeks to commence a class-action lawsuit on behalf of the couple and any other affected individuals.
According to the court document, the couple was informed in late May that one of the cryogenic tanks owned by the ReproMed fertility clinic had malfunctioned. As a result of the malfunction, the couple’s nine embryos and 15 eggs were deemed “likely not viable,” the document claims.


Oh noes...
They relied on others & the others did not fulfill the requirements...