[Sonsowey]

Hey, I'm new to game, getting that experience, and here's a big problem.

I can approach girls, engage in conversation, and I'm good looking and confident enough that I usually get a pretty good reaction at the get go.

And then, the interest I saw at first starts to fade. I can engage them for a while, but I feel opportunities slipping through my fingers.

I'm just not *hooking* the girls. Engaging someone in conversation, telling stories etc. isn't enough, I need to really build attraction more than I am, need to DHV more.

In fact, reading mystery method, that was something that bothered me. He was just like "so then you DHV, and when the hot girl starts putting her hands all over you, tell her 'hands off! this isn't free!'".

But if there's initial attraction, how to really hook girls and draw them in so they're not just having a conversation to be polite?

[texaschili]

Are you escalating with physical contact during this exchange?

[MiXX]

I have to agree, it sounds like you are not being "touchy" enough with girls...touch, touch - take away..touch. And don't just stay touching on her shoulder and wonder why she is not physically comfortable with you - escalate from social touching (handshake, shoulder, arm), to personal (lower back, leg, neck), to romantic (kissing)...and finally - sexual touching in that order.

[robreke]

(07-29-2010 09:00 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

I have to agree, it sounds like you are not being "touchy" enough with girls...touch, touch - take away..touch. And don't just stay touching on her shoulder and wonder why she is not physically comfortable with you - escalate from social touching (handshake, shoulder, arm), to personal (lower back, leg, neck), to romantic (kissing)...and finally - sexual touching in that order.

As far as touching , are you referring mostly to bar/nightgame.....or daygame also? I do almost all daygame and it doesn't seem appropriate to touch too early in my interactions in daygame as opposed to a bar/night environment.

Roosh's daygame has helped me quite a bit in many respects....but I'm still having trouble building enough attraction so when I ask for the number...I get a "yes"