[YoungBlood]

What is the minimum amount of times you can bang a chick before she starts getting attached, or rather, where she only wants your cock?

I've heard it's somewhere around 3. Thoughts?

[GenJx]

1 if youre alpha. never if youre beta
1 if shes a virgin. never if shes a whore

[Virtus]

about 7 and having a consistent desire to exclusively hang out

[Ensam]

Lots of factors. What's her relationship like with her dad? How many other dudes is she banging? How often are you seeing her?

Good relationship with dad, no other dudes it could be as few as one or two. Crappy relationship with dad and a few other guys in the picture and it may never happen.

[Fatless]

Lower value girls with fewer male prospects can and will get attached right away, same goes for younger girls with fewer relationship experiences under their belts.

It's also a matter of how much time you put into banging these girls that isn't actually banging them - if you're going on dates, building and sharing rapport (when your only goal is to bang) then you are going to build some emotional investment regardless of how many times you fuck her.

[michelin]

I agree on 3.

[MrXY]

3 with the average girl

[Wargasm]

I think that 3 is usually the maximum number of bangs I girl can endure before getting attached.

Not sure if its causation or correlation though. Girls that aren't likely to get attached to me in the first place might only bang once or twice before moving on.

I do think its much harder for girls to separate emotional bonding and physical bonding though. If a girl is willing to have sex with you 3 times she likely is developing feelings of attachment to you.

[EasyMoney]

So many factors influence this man. I think the real question is where do you rank on the sexual market place and where does she rank.

The greater the disparity in your favor, the sooner she gets attached. The greater the disparity in her favor, the later - or maybe never.

Most attractive women are having dick thrown at them 24/7 - and if your last interaction with her was sligghtly beta and she meets a super alpha and shes in the right phase of her cycle to see the difference it may be enough to find yourself in the shit heap.

Don't worry about this. Just always keep getting numbers and going on dates. A man with options is a wanted man.

[Parlay44]

There are plenty of women that are Stage 5 Clingers. They can get attached without ever having sex at all. Women get oneitis just like guys do.

[EasyMoney]

(05-21-2013 05:07 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

There are plenty of women that are Stage 5 Clingers. They can get attached without ever having sex at all. Women get oneitis just like guys do.

This is so true. I've had girls in the 4-5 range fall bat-shit-head-over-heels-join-my-cult in love with me after just a couple conversations because I was the first decent looking guy who ever gave them more than 5 minutes of social time. Its creepy, but I know how hot chicks feel when loserish beta and omega guys do this to them.

[Samseau]

There's no such number. Sex is just one factor out of a hundred that will make her attached to you. I'd say frequent sex is necessary but not sufficient.

I've fucked girls for weeks who suddenly do an about-face and walk. I've fucked girls once and had them crawling back for more the next time. I've had girls I've never fucked coming to me practically begging to get fucked. No pattern.

[Parlay44]

(05-21-2013 05:12 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 05:07 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

There are plenty of women that are Stage 5 Clingers. They can get attached without ever having sex at all. Women get oneitis just like guys do.

This is so true. I've had girls in the 4-5 range fall bat-shit-head-over-heels-join-my-cult in love with me after just a couple conversations because I was the first decent looking guy who ever gave them more than 5 minutes of social time. Its creepy, but I know how hot chicks feel when loserish beta and omega guys do this to them.

Yeah I've had that happen too. You're at a party and talking to a group of girls and try to be sociable and spread your charm and attention around. It never fails that the fatty gets all stupid about you. Girls are funny though. When they get it in their head that they wanna hook you up with their fat friend suddenly all the stars align and the logistics fall in line for you bang her. Girls start pouring shots down your throat. The hot party host offers to let you crash if you get too drunk. Some funny shit happens at parties.

[mental]

Not american: 1-3
American: 3-infinity

[Akula]

(05-21-2013 08:08 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

There's no such number. Sex is just one factor out of a hundred that will make her attached to you. I'd say frequent sex is necessary but not sufficient.

I've fucked girls for weeks who suddenly do an about-face and walk. I've fucked girls once and had them crawling back for more the next time. I've had girls I've never fucked coming to me practically begging to get fucked. No pattern.

my last LTR went from being completely madly in love with me, 2-3 bangs per week for 7-8 months with her saying "i wish you didn't ever have to leave me" to breaking up with less than 2 months later saying she could not have a serious relationship anymore with anyone. I was sort of trying to get out of it anyway - she was engaged 6 months later. Guess she found the time? Women are just so fickle and undependable.

Somebody once said on the forum that you need to stay as mysterious, distant and difficult to meet up with for as long as you can until they figure you out and the magic goes away...could be 3 months, a year, or 15 years who the hell knows!!!!!

[Doulos2Game]

The answer you seek is unattainable.

If you don't want a girl to get attach to you the best thing you can do is just not get into a relationship.

I have been having sex for over 6 months with some girls in my rotation and they never have said "I love you".

The more you keep them away the better.