I apologize for the lengthy thread but I want to be detailed and thorough. I've had a few scenarios similar to these and feel like I'm missing something in my date game. Had another date where I got the girl home but couldn't close on the bang.
To set the stage, the first date we met at a bar midway between where we both live and things went pretty good. Lots of banter, flirty conversations and a ton of kino on my part. About 45 mins in we're making out at table. The total date lasted for almost two hours and in saying our goodbyes she aggressively kissed me, lots of T and A fondling over her clothes and I said "come on, let's go back to my place for a nightcap." She playfully pushed me away and said no, not tonight and got in her car and left.
Fast forward to last night. We met at an outdoor shopping mall walking distance to my place and split a pizza and sat at an outdoor table and ate. Again, more flirting and good conversation. After eating I said "let's go, I'll give you the tour" and we walked around the mall with my arm around her. In our joking she somehow brought up the subject of "gag balls" and I teased her about that and tried to take her into dark lingerie store but they had just closed. She also brought up reading 50 shades so I'm thinking she's definitely DTF. After a little more walking I said "let's get a drink, I'll show you my bar tending skills" and we went back to my place.
Once at my place I turned on the music, made our drinks and we sat on the couch and I showed her some recent photos I took all the while kinoing. After about 30 mins we began making out again but as soon as I would start kissing her neck she would giggle and say how ticklish she was. No problem, two steps forward, one step back. More chatting and then making out again. Finally I just stood up and said "come on" and led her to my bedroom. Once in there she started saying "I don't think this is a good idea" where I said "we won't do anything you don't want to do". More kissing and I started to take her sweater off and this is where the real resistance kicked in. She backed away and said "ok, I should go now, but thanks for the nice evening." Sensing she needed more comfort I switched gears and said "lay down, let's talk".
From there we BS'd about life, past relationships, future plans, the works. Throughout my hand was resting on her breast lightly rubbing it over her shirt. When the convo died down I went for the make out again and things started to heat up and then she jumped off the bed and said "I need to get home". At that point I walked her out to her car.
I felt like I played this one as by the book as best as I could but maybe I'm missing something here. Lay it on me guys, what the hell is going on?
To set the stage, the first date we met at a bar midway between where we both live and things went pretty good. Lots of banter, flirty conversations and a ton of kino on my part. About 45 mins in we're making out at table. The total date lasted for almost two hours and in saying our goodbyes she aggressively kissed me, lots of T and A fondling over her clothes and I said "come on, let's go back to my place for a nightcap." She playfully pushed me away and said no, not tonight and got in her car and left.
Fast forward to last night. We met at an outdoor shopping mall walking distance to my place and split a pizza and sat at an outdoor table and ate. Again, more flirting and good conversation. After eating I said "let's go, I'll give you the tour" and we walked around the mall with my arm around her. In our joking she somehow brought up the subject of "gag balls" and I teased her about that and tried to take her into dark lingerie store but they had just closed. She also brought up reading 50 shades so I'm thinking she's definitely DTF. After a little more walking I said "let's get a drink, I'll show you my bar tending skills" and we went back to my place.
Once at my place I turned on the music, made our drinks and we sat on the couch and I showed her some recent photos I took all the while kinoing. After about 30 mins we began making out again but as soon as I would start kissing her neck she would giggle and say how ticklish she was. No problem, two steps forward, one step back. More chatting and then making out again. Finally I just stood up and said "come on" and led her to my bedroom. Once in there she started saying "I don't think this is a good idea" where I said "we won't do anything you don't want to do". More kissing and I started to take her sweater off and this is where the real resistance kicked in. She backed away and said "ok, I should go now, but thanks for the nice evening." Sensing she needed more comfort I switched gears and said "lay down, let's talk".
From there we BS'd about life, past relationships, future plans, the works. Throughout my hand was resting on her breast lightly rubbing it over her shirt. When the convo died down I went for the make out again and things started to heat up and then she jumped off the bed and said "I need to get home". At that point I walked her out to her car.
I felt like I played this one as by the book as best as I could but maybe I'm missing something here. Lay it on me guys, what the hell is going on?