[Chewbacon]

So I am gaming this one girl, who is my prime target. However, I ended up meeting her best friend on a separate night out. I nonchalantly asked the best friend out for drinks for this weekend, who subsequently agreed - but I'm still working on my prime target, who is busy with exams this weekend. I'm wondering what I can do to mitigate the possibility of the friend telling my prime target about our little "date". To be honest, the friend is about a 6, whereas the target is about an 8. I'm into both, but I obviously want the 8 more than the 6, and I'm afraid doing anything with the 6 will jeopardize my chances with the 8, should she talk. I have considered cancelling on the 6, but in all honesty I'd like to reserve her for a fallback FB if the 8 doesn't work out. I'm in a small collegetown, so word spreads within the overlapping social circles. These are FOB asian girls, for reference.

[lurker]

You don't have to hook up with the 6 right away. Game her but keep it chaste and she'll wonder even more, especially if you're also going out with her hotter friend.

[Mage]

Not really a mistake. Make them both jealous. Don't say that it was a "date" present it as something totally innocent, tell "we are just friends", she will have no reason to blame you but she will still feel threatened and the need to fight for you.

[bonkers]

Depends on how good friends they are.

If they are 'just friends' then it will work for you. My friend was trying to hook up with an 8 for ages but she wasn't that interested. He then went on a date with a 5-6 friend of the 8s and bam the 8 was all over him.

If they are BFFs, then it could work against you, especially if the 6 stakes her claim first. The 8 (who would gets more attention in day to day life) will feel bad for cutting her less attractive friend's lunch.

[Dulceácido]

Put the 6 on ice, but stay in touch with her. Just use the occasional text or social media to maintain your value. Should be easy, she has already agreed to go out with you, so you have perceived value. Just don't do anything to fuck it up and you're golden. If you do decide to go out with her (which I would avoid), make damn sure to keep it totally on the friendship tip and stay in a very public (i.e. crowded with witnesses) venue... Go out of your way to avoid any kino or any escalation. Just friends. Ice cold.

No way I would trade a fuck-buddy 6 for a potential roll with a solid 8. 6's are a dime a dozen. Get your head on straight.

[Parlay44]

Girls don't care as much about sharing a guy if it's just about sex. Chances are one of them has taken leftovers from the other. Their's an Alpha/Beta dynamic to female relationships as well.

[RandalGraves]

(04-25-2013 08:18 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Girls don't care as much about sharing a guy if it's just about sex. Chances are one of them has taken leftovers from the other. Their's an Alpha/Beta dynamic to female relationships as well.

In my experience, that has not been true at all. Girls WILL talk to their friends about you, and it will put them on guard against you for coming off like a player if you try to get both.

[guerrilla]

Think it depends how gamey you are. The more casual the better. Think cool and casual social circle game rather than caveman ones game.

Only one way to find out for sure... Get those reference experiences man

[Ingocnito]

(04-25-2013 05:55 AM)bonkers Wrote:  

Depends on how good friends they are.

If they are 'just friends' then it will work for you. My friend was trying to hook up with an 8 for ages but she wasn't that interested. He then went on a date with a 5-6 friend of the 8s and bam the 8 was all over him.

If they are BFFs, then it could work against you, especially if the 6 stakes her claim first. The 8 (who would gets more attention in day to day life) will feel bad for cutting her less attractive friend's lunch.

This is absolutely one of the best ways to convert the better girl for the bang. Girls jealously buttons are flat out On/Off switches with no in betweens in many cases.

Unless of course the target is a 8-9 and the friend is a 4-5. In which they'll think you're gross for doing her.

[gusfring]

But this seems like a perfect teachable Seinfeld moment where George advises Jerry on gaming girl friends.

I mean what could go wrong. Plus I have always wanted to try this personally and see if it would work.

[funkyzeit]

"Best friends"

Females are incapable of being true friends to each other. Openly seduce when alone with either one of them, they will never tell each other as long as you produce tingles.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Count me amongst the ones who say just keep going for the 6 and odds are the 8 will become jealous. Women are wired to want what their friends want or have.

I've had this happen, and the weird thing is that even if the higher-ranked woman doesn't like you that much, she still wants you to choose her over her friend. Strange.

[thegmanifesto]

(04-25-2013 01:02 AM)SHANbangs Wrote:  

So I am gaming this one girl, who is my prime target. However, I ended up meeting her best friend on a separate night out. I nonchalantly asked the best friend out for drinks for this weekend, who subsequently agreed - but I'm still working on my prime target, who is busy with exams this weekend. I'm wondering what I can do to mitigate the possibility of the friend telling my prime target about our little "date". To be honest, the friend is about a 6, whereas the target is about an 8. I'm into both, but I obviously want the 8 more than the 6, and I'm afraid doing anything with the 6 will jeopardize my chances with the 8, should she talk. I have considered cancelling on the 6, but in all honesty I'd like to reserve her for a fallback FB if the 8 doesn't work out. I'm in a small collegetown, so word spreads within the overlapping social circles. These are FOB asian girls, for reference.

Just use different fake names with each.

Problem solved.

[YoungDominican]

holy shit man i was just talking to my bro about this today, good advice on here i'll just keep gaming them both