[yeahImMadMyron]

Hey fellow Rooshers, need a bit of help with a game situation

Cliffs:
-met girl and sealed the deal on 1st date (thx Roosh)
-she seems like a pretty cool girl (affectionate, very high attractiveness on my scale, makes me feel like a man when I'm around her)
-Dilemma: just got into game hardcore for 1 month and my first game bang feels already like a quality girl

Any advice on how to keep her around? I know in Bang it says to be unpredictable but I'm worried some of my random ideas might plant boyfriend-material ideas in her head or I might seem like a beta.

I don't want a relationship yet I want to continue seeing her...any date ideas or time limits on when and how long we should hang out during the week?

The goal is ultimately to get good at the game so I'm open to hearing tough love advice from y'all here since sometimes I feel like the AFC inside surges up...gotta get more player juice in my system

[lurker]

(04-23-2013 10:32 AM)yeahImMadMyron Wrote:  

sealed the deal on 1st date (thx Roosh)

(04-23-2013 10:32 AM)yeahImMadMyron Wrote:  

I'm worried some of my random ideas might plant boyfriend-material ideas in her head

[yeahImMadMyron]

lol so you're saying I don't even have to worry...she'll naturally want to come to me?

Reason why I would even worry is b/c so far I have to say she's holding on pretty well with not too many long texts...prob because she's had experience in the past with multiple bfs and knows how to hold back

I guess I'm just worried I become too aloof and she just loses interest...natural tendency in the past is to become too aloof and indifferent that I had no girls around me even as friends lol

arrgh, reading some of this feels like beta-ness but I'm confused which parts are beta-ness and which parts are OK to do for a seemingly quality girl

goal is to get good at game not become a beta so continue with the advice and smack me with tough love as necessary please...

[aphelion]

Seems like you're doing just fine. She might be a quality girl, who knows.

[BarkChompson]

How did you act on the first date when you banged her?

Keep that in mind every time you want to text.

If it seems like the "stud" that banged her on the first date would text then do it. If not, don't.

Goes for subsequent dates as well. The more you act like your ideal self, the easier it gets. You're on the road.

Keep at it!

[not-a-pua]

Whatever makes YOU feel comfortable. And if you're out and about and get another bang, how does this feel? Try yourself out.

[XXL]

- see each other once a week

- in case of "the talk" - "right now i'm really enjoying getting to know you. as soon as i know you well enough that i know that i want to commit you'll be the first one to know. as soon as i know you well enough that i know that i don't want to commit you'll be the first one to know too. but right now i'm really enjoying the process"

- date ideas - whatever that is fun and casual.

- go out and game but and don't be too physical/touchy. don't give off player vibe.

- you can even go out with her to a bar etc and talk/flirt with girls around you as you order a drink etc create some jealousy and to convey to her you have options. if your girl confronts tell her she's retarded to think that casual chit chat is something wrong. she will have much more respect towards you when she sees girls find you attractive and that you can meet them easily. that's how you set the buyer's frame more in your favor.

- forget all this beta shit. keep seeing her and spend fun time together. in the mean time meet other girls and see them on the regular.

[yeahImMadMyron]

Thanks for the tips guys, got more player juice flowin thru my system now lol

XXL -
(1) what's this "go out and game but dont be too physical"? U mean with her? We already sealed the deal so don't see why we can't be too physical. I'm thinking more of comfort + playful kino instead of sleazy kino.

(2) gaming other girls around her -- what if u fail? is that a negative? I don't mind opening others around her...is a full number close in front of her too much?

OK what I learned from yall is

-keep ideal behavior + self around her like in 1st date
-keep things unpredictable
-keep trying other girls

Sounds like a good balance to me

[XXL]

ad 1. don't escalate with other girls when you go out.

ad 2. what do you mean "fail"? i don't mean escalating etc. i meant innocent stuff like chit chat and flirt. like when you stand there talking to her and you turn around and ask 2 girls behind you a question relevant to your debate with your girl. stuff like that. to you it's nothing but girls see a lot more than a guy asking innocent question, they observe your behavior, how you look at girls, your gestures, BL, eye contact, etc and judge you "coolness' based on that. beside striking up a cono with a random girls just like that highlights your confidence and many other things. just don't take numbers or facebooks in front of her.