I can't understand women.
So I had a ONS with this girl I share some friends with couple of months ago. Didn't have much contact afterwards for a while but from time to time we would have small chats over facebook but not much. She was the one usually opening conversations and asking stuff like "Hey, are you going out tonight?" but I never saw her again.
Couple of days ago we were in a party together and we made out for a while but nothing else happened. Next morning she's writing to me something like: "hey good morning![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
how are you feeling? "
So we chatted a bit, she said stuff like I'm a very good kisser, that we should see each other for some more "kissing" soon so I suggested going for a drink during the week since we don't usually go to the same places and I would never see her otherwise. She agreed and we said we would talk later in the week to confirm hour and place.
The day before the "date" I talk with her for a bit, she gives me her phone and says she'll be busy during the day but that she would be "all mine in the evening". The day of the date I text her to confirm place and time and at first she's like "ok, where do you want to meet?". When I tell her where it takes her a while to reply and she texts me "I will be in xx at about 10 with my friends, come join us".
So in the last moment our "date" changed to hanging out with her friends. I told her to have fun with her friends, that maybe we would meet some other day. She then texted me with something like: "ok we can meet some other time", and some minutes later apologizing with some lame excuse. I did not reply.
I liked the girl a bit, she's cute and seemed at least worth knowing. But right now after she pulled that stupid flake/lame excuse I don't really feel like talking to her and I won't unless she contacts me again and tries to make up for that dick move.
As I didn't reply to the last text I find it hard to think that she will try to contact me again. She would be in too a humilliating position after I didn't reply to her.
Story short: a girl I had a ONS with shows a lot of interest over chat. We arrange to have a drink and in the last moment our "date" changes to hanging out with her friends, I tell her to have fun with her friends (don't go). She comes out with lame excuse, I don't reply to her text.
Was it a bad idea to ask her out for a drink? Maybe I should've waited for her to ask. Somehow asking a girl out for a drink doesn't come that natural to me, seems too beta and to show too much interest (makes me look weak and I'm never that interested anyways, which when the girl really likes me raises her expectations too much).
Stay strong guys.
So I had a ONS with this girl I share some friends with couple of months ago. Didn't have much contact afterwards for a while but from time to time we would have small chats over facebook but not much. She was the one usually opening conversations and asking stuff like "Hey, are you going out tonight?" but I never saw her again.
Couple of days ago we were in a party together and we made out for a while but nothing else happened. Next morning she's writing to me something like: "hey good morning
how are you feeling? "So we chatted a bit, she said stuff like I'm a very good kisser, that we should see each other for some more "kissing" soon so I suggested going for a drink during the week since we don't usually go to the same places and I would never see her otherwise. She agreed and we said we would talk later in the week to confirm hour and place.
The day before the "date" I talk with her for a bit, she gives me her phone and says she'll be busy during the day but that she would be "all mine in the evening". The day of the date I text her to confirm place and time and at first she's like "ok, where do you want to meet?". When I tell her where it takes her a while to reply and she texts me "I will be in xx at about 10 with my friends, come join us".
So in the last moment our "date" changed to hanging out with her friends. I told her to have fun with her friends, that maybe we would meet some other day. She then texted me with something like: "ok we can meet some other time", and some minutes later apologizing with some lame excuse. I did not reply.
I liked the girl a bit, she's cute and seemed at least worth knowing. But right now after she pulled that stupid flake/lame excuse I don't really feel like talking to her and I won't unless she contacts me again and tries to make up for that dick move.
As I didn't reply to the last text I find it hard to think that she will try to contact me again. She would be in too a humilliating position after I didn't reply to her.
Story short: a girl I had a ONS with shows a lot of interest over chat. We arrange to have a drink and in the last moment our "date" changes to hanging out with her friends, I tell her to have fun with her friends (don't go). She comes out with lame excuse, I don't reply to her text.
Was it a bad idea to ask her out for a drink? Maybe I should've waited for her to ask. Somehow asking a girl out for a drink doesn't come that natural to me, seems too beta and to show too much interest (makes me look weak and I'm never that interested anyways, which when the girl really likes me raises her expectations too much).
Stay strong guys.
