Also know as "The Fragmented Approach".
Let me try to explain this..
I recently went out day gaming with a new forum member. We went to a Whole Foods.
I saw a cute girl walking towards us. Blond, thin, well dressed, striped pants.
She got close, She was walking past us, I reached out and tapped her on the arm.
"Ooooo, nice pants, those are hot""
She slowed down almost to a complete stop because I grabbed her arm.
"Thank you", she said.
I looked her up and down. I gave her a little seductive look. She smiled. I smiled. We walked our separate ways.
The other forum member said -- "Gio, she liked you, you grabbed her and she liked it".
"Yup, did you see that?", I replied.
"Why don't you get her number?" he said.
"The situation didn't allow it, I will talk to her again"
The forum member looked confused. He thought I lost my chance with this girl. The opener went well, but I let her walk away.
"I will see her again and re-engage her", I told him.
A few minutes later we are at the food bar. Guess who comes walking right over to us? The blond.
I pretended I didn't see her. I was actually already talking to another thin blond.
She walked right up to me..
"Whats for lunch" she said.
"You read my mind, are you psychic?", I replied.
"yes I am"
"me too"
"haha"
"haha"
"I think I'm gonna start with some brown rice and veges", I said.
"oh you are healthy"
"ya, kind of, but sometimes I just eat whatever, don't let me influence you, just get what you want, don't be healthy"
"ok, i won't, i'm actually eating light because I drank too much last night"
"oh shit, i thought i smelled booze on you"
"shut up, did you really?
"no, just playin"
I play it aloof and I start to walk around to the other side of the food bar. She quickly gets her food.
I say, "this salad look good".
She says, "I know I got some"
I just laugh and make eye contact with her. The other forum member and I are still getting food. She walks away.
"Gio, are you going to give up on her", he says.
"no, watch this"
I go up to the front and she is standing in line. I go up to her with a smile.
"hey enjoy your lunch"
"thanks", she says.
I say, "your welcome, listen, i know this is random but put your number in my phone, I want to call you later and flirt with you"
"oh my god, you are so funny", she says.
"i just want to see how our chemistry is"
"I'm flattered but I'm engaged"
She shows me the ring. I say goodbye and I eject. It was a fail but a lesson was learned.
The forum member said -- "Gio, I have never heard you discuss this on the forum, you broke up the approach into 3 parts"
I replied --"Yes, the first contact was just an introduction, then she re-engaged me and we built some comfort, then I went for the number close"
I explained that there is no rush. I knew I was going to see her again. If I didn't accidently bump into her again, I would just go find her and pretend to accidently bump into her again.
I don't have to do an "all or nothing" approach. If it was on the street or on public transportation, I would have to do that, but, here in the grocery store, I can "frament" my approach. I can break it up and take my time. This is often a better strategy then the more aggressive stuff.
This Fragmented Approach can be used whenever you know you will see the girl again..
Grocery stores, cafes, libraries, gyms, class, etc.
I think this concept is really necessary for gym game, school game., and co-worker game. You build the comfort and attraction over time. You don't go for it all in one shot.
For experts, this is just common sense. But, for newbies, I think its an important concept to understand.
You don't have to approach and go for the number close every time. Sometimes, its better to be patient and use a more "fragmented" approach.
Make a comment, say hello, introduce yourself, chat a little -- Then go your seperate ways. See her again, chat her up again, build a bit more comfort -- But, don't force it. See her again, now you know each other, now you can be a bit more aggressive.
Even in a bar or club setting, this strategy can be useful.
Let me try to explain this..
I recently went out day gaming with a new forum member. We went to a Whole Foods.
I saw a cute girl walking towards us. Blond, thin, well dressed, striped pants.
She got close, She was walking past us, I reached out and tapped her on the arm.
"Ooooo, nice pants, those are hot""
She slowed down almost to a complete stop because I grabbed her arm.
"Thank you", she said.
I looked her up and down. I gave her a little seductive look. She smiled. I smiled. We walked our separate ways.
The other forum member said -- "Gio, she liked you, you grabbed her and she liked it".
"Yup, did you see that?", I replied.
"Why don't you get her number?" he said.
"The situation didn't allow it, I will talk to her again"
The forum member looked confused. He thought I lost my chance with this girl. The opener went well, but I let her walk away.
"I will see her again and re-engage her", I told him.
A few minutes later we are at the food bar. Guess who comes walking right over to us? The blond.
I pretended I didn't see her. I was actually already talking to another thin blond.
She walked right up to me..
"Whats for lunch" she said.
"You read my mind, are you psychic?", I replied.
"yes I am"
"me too"
"haha"
"haha"
"I think I'm gonna start with some brown rice and veges", I said.
"oh you are healthy"
"ya, kind of, but sometimes I just eat whatever, don't let me influence you, just get what you want, don't be healthy"
"ok, i won't, i'm actually eating light because I drank too much last night"
"oh shit, i thought i smelled booze on you"
"shut up, did you really?
"no, just playin"
I play it aloof and I start to walk around to the other side of the food bar. She quickly gets her food.
I say, "this salad look good".
She says, "I know I got some"
I just laugh and make eye contact with her. The other forum member and I are still getting food. She walks away.
"Gio, are you going to give up on her", he says.
"no, watch this"
I go up to the front and she is standing in line. I go up to her with a smile.
"hey enjoy your lunch"
"thanks", she says.
I say, "your welcome, listen, i know this is random but put your number in my phone, I want to call you later and flirt with you"
"oh my god, you are so funny", she says.
"i just want to see how our chemistry is"
"I'm flattered but I'm engaged"
She shows me the ring. I say goodbye and I eject. It was a fail but a lesson was learned.
The forum member said -- "Gio, I have never heard you discuss this on the forum, you broke up the approach into 3 parts"
I replied --"Yes, the first contact was just an introduction, then she re-engaged me and we built some comfort, then I went for the number close"
I explained that there is no rush. I knew I was going to see her again. If I didn't accidently bump into her again, I would just go find her and pretend to accidently bump into her again.
I don't have to do an "all or nothing" approach. If it was on the street or on public transportation, I would have to do that, but, here in the grocery store, I can "frament" my approach. I can break it up and take my time. This is often a better strategy then the more aggressive stuff.
This Fragmented Approach can be used whenever you know you will see the girl again..
Grocery stores, cafes, libraries, gyms, class, etc.
I think this concept is really necessary for gym game, school game., and co-worker game. You build the comfort and attraction over time. You don't go for it all in one shot.
For experts, this is just common sense. But, for newbies, I think its an important concept to understand.
You don't have to approach and go for the number close every time. Sometimes, its better to be patient and use a more "fragmented" approach.
Make a comment, say hello, introduce yourself, chat a little -- Then go your seperate ways. See her again, chat her up again, build a bit more comfort -- But, don't force it. See her again, now you know each other, now you can be a bit more aggressive.
Even in a bar or club setting, this strategy can be useful.
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