[axiomatic]

I was reading the massive thread : How to get laid on okcupid like a boss

Who are these girls you bang? Students Waitresses Anything

Well, so far I haven't been successful in getting numbers from a chic from OKC or POF. Forget about banging LOL

So, who do you target primarily ?
Any suggestions !

I get replies for almost everything I write...I don't know why, but it goes on and on...not attention whores...but something else. I dealt mostly with students

[Sphere]

Read the whole thread. Twice. There's gold in there.

[Ovid]

I 'approach' anyone hot who doesn't look like they'd be more trouble than they're worth. (E.g.: "my three kids with different fathers come first in my life.") Teenage girls who 'juz wanna hang out n meet sommmmmeee ppl,' wholesome looking nurses/teachers/vet assistants/cashiers, college girls, foreign au pairs, whatever. If they are attractive enough to pass the boner test and don't scream "I am a drug-addicted whore with multiple STDs who will try to steal your GPS if you give me a ride on our date" then I will send them a message and see what happens.

[dvjackson]

Girls whose profiles don't put me to sleep out of sheer blandness are at least likely candidates, if a girl is worth it she's going to try to put some effort into her profile so she doesn't look like every other girl out there.

[soup]

There's already an OKC thread

[RandalGraves]

I second re-reading the OKC thread, especially the first 50 pages. There's gold in there.

Go for the girls you find attractive and just understand that OKC has an awful 2:1 ratio of guys to girls. Have fun and don't take it seriously. Learn to find the details that tell important things about a girl: Does she live apart from her parents? Check job and city. Is she in a DTF profession? Check to see if she's a teacher or a nurse. Is her profile bland or does she have a strong personality that you can work with? Is she showing off her tits/ass or is she a little more reserved?

In terms of converting messages to dates, you gotta get the interaction off OKC as quick as possible. Ask if she wants to get a drink by the 3rd or 4th message, then ask for her phone number.

[axiomatic]

(04-03-2013 07:44 PM)RandalGraves Wrote:  

I second re-reading the OKC thread, especially the first 50 pages. There's gold in there.

Go for the girls you find attractive and just understand that OKC has an awful 2:1 ratio of guys to girls. Have fun and don't take it seriously. Learn to find the details that tell important things about a girl: Does she live apart from her parents? Check job and city. Is she in a DTF profession? Check to see if she's a teacher or a nurse. Is her profile bland or does she have a strong personality that you can work with? Is she showing off her tits/ass or is she a little more reserved?

In terms of converting messages to dates, you gotta get the interaction off OKC as quick as possible. Ask if she wants to get a drink by the 3rd or 4th message, then ask for her phone number.

I tried that mantra, but it failed wonderfully. All the conversations I had were very very long and I am wondering what phrases should I put in. I couldn't so far get a chics #..

[Vicious]

The hot ones.
Read the okc thread.

[axiomatic]

(04-04-2013 01:41 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

The hot ones.
Read the okc thread.

I am not a super hot dude.....will they still respond. I mean online interaciton?

[Lights]

IS THERE ANYONE ON HERE THAT REFUSES TO USE ONLINE DATING.