Thank god it's the 1st.
I'm probably one of the youngest members of the forum. I've been reading your guy's posts for some time now. I've recieved tons of useful advice, but nothing is working right now.
So here's my circumstances. Tall, average build, i'd say my looks are fine, and my sense of style is good. I hear advice on getting with the cool crowd, but i'm already there. Girls find me funny. I'm a witty and quick person with people i'm familar with. I'll talk loudly and become the center of attention. But that's not helping.
My lack of girls creates a lot of problems. Socially, i feel like an outsider in my group cause i'm just not pulling. I've dealt with depression because of this. I'll avoid situations where I could potentially be called out on this fact. When I'm in an uncomfortable situation i'll just shut down and become a timid version of myself. So I avoid conflict and come off as a pussy.
This shit is really side-tracking me as I prepare to apply to colleges. I'm near the top of my class and have tons of collegiate options. But this lack of girls is constantly nagging away at me. I tend to overthink and internalize shit so you could imagine the problem.
What tactics or just small tweaks should I use? I'm getting back into lifting. I'm trying to assume that alpha personality.
I'm also under 21, so day game and house parties are my only chances. I also smoke weed which I see as a possible outlet to chicks. Can you guys just point me in the right direction and give me some tips on what you did around my age? Appreciate everything in advance!
I'm probably one of the youngest members of the forum. I've been reading your guy's posts for some time now. I've recieved tons of useful advice, but nothing is working right now.
So here's my circumstances. Tall, average build, i'd say my looks are fine, and my sense of style is good. I hear advice on getting with the cool crowd, but i'm already there. Girls find me funny. I'm a witty and quick person with people i'm familar with. I'll talk loudly and become the center of attention. But that's not helping.
My lack of girls creates a lot of problems. Socially, i feel like an outsider in my group cause i'm just not pulling. I've dealt with depression because of this. I'll avoid situations where I could potentially be called out on this fact. When I'm in an uncomfortable situation i'll just shut down and become a timid version of myself. So I avoid conflict and come off as a pussy.
This shit is really side-tracking me as I prepare to apply to colleges. I'm near the top of my class and have tons of collegiate options. But this lack of girls is constantly nagging away at me. I tend to overthink and internalize shit so you could imagine the problem.
What tactics or just small tweaks should I use? I'm getting back into lifting. I'm trying to assume that alpha personality.
I'm also under 21, so day game and house parties are my only chances. I also smoke weed which I see as a possible outlet to chicks. Can you guys just point me in the right direction and give me some tips on what you did around my age? Appreciate everything in advance!