[Sketness]

So I take this girl out the other night, and we go to dinner ( probably my first mistake right there) we eat, then head to my place for a movie. During the movie i start to make my move. We come to my house and we chill on my bed and we start to watch a movie. I start off with playful tickling, then tried to escalate further. She was just not responding to my advances. My question is... should i just drop this girl or should I continue trying to get with her? What are your thoughts

[funkyzeit]

Yes, drop her. Something sounds so awkward about your date but I can't really point my finger on it.

The dinner mixed with "playful tickling" afterwards is kinda weird. Sounds like you didn't have enough chemistry going on.

[Sketness]

we've gone out two previous times before for coffee and have had good conversations. I forgot to mentioned that she spent the night (though nothing happened) and the next morning when dropping her off she said " thanks for being a gentlemen"

[bojangles]

ignore her, completely for a week. She'll have sex with you on the next date, then dump her

[Sketness]

won't she think im just in it for the sex then really freeze up and not put out?

[bojangles]

(03-12-2013 10:43 AM)Sketness Wrote:  

won't she think im just in it for the sex then really freeze up and not put out?

No, she'll chase you, organise date, pump then dump.

She'll get insecure and wonder why you're not talking to etc and all that crap.

[MrXY]

(03-12-2013 03:09 AM)Sketness Wrote:  

we've gone out two previous times before for coffee and have had good conversations. I forgot to mentioned that she spent the night (though nothing happened) and the next morning when dropping her off she said " thanks for being a gentlemen"

Drop her. you've already fucked it up beyond repair

[Matt3B]

First date and you take her for coffee?!

Get rid lad and try again.

[rudebwoy]

No need to dump, try one last time since you have made the investment. Follow bojangles lead, but next time invite her for drinks/movie at your place.

When she said thanks for being a gentleman, she was expecting you to attack her. Which means she might have been up for it.

[Sketness]

she doesn't drink....so how would i make it happen?

[TheCaptainPower]

One more chance and then that is it....Thats bullshit.

[Sketness]

(03-12-2013 09:33 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

One more chance and then that is it....Thats bullshit.

fair enough thats what i kind of had in mind any way. I was going to not talk to her this week and try again next week but my school has spring break next week and she might go home. should i strike sooner than later or wait

[ChocolateCockOfZeus]

Don't drop her until she gives you an ACTUAL reason to drop her. Her being a bit more of a challenge than you might be used to isn't much of a reason.

Early framing is important. Shit gets kinda weird when you haven't done any physical gaming on a girl, then out of nowhere on a 2nd date you start trying to be physical.

My question to you is: how physical were you before you started trying to tickle her? 1st date and 2nd date?

Invite her out one more time. This time, start early.

If you do decide to drop her, then for future reference: The moment you see her pull her in for a hug and a kiss on both cheeks. Lead her around by grabbing her hand and giving her a pull, and when you're moving her in front of you (like if you hold a door open or something) put your hand on her lower back and guide her through. Little things like that can play a huge role in physical escalation. Grabbing her hand and looping her arm through yours when you're walking side by side. The little things.

Putting your arm around her pulling her in while you say something in her ear during a movie. Give her the look! The "You're in danger of being fucked tonight." look, so she knows what's up and isn't weirded out when you pull her in for the kiss. Seduction, muthafucka!

Just a tip: Don't try to caveman, until you actually feel like your balls are big enough to caveman. Half-stepping=BLOWOUTS!

[Mentavious]

Drop her man. Sounds like your in the friend zone. Plenty fish to be had. Sounds like she was in it for the dinner.

I've done the whole tickling thing a few times and it has always led to sex. If she didn't get turned on by that then that pussy is dry.

[Sketness]

kinda of confused. saw her today, we had a brief conversation in which she asked me my plans for spring break, she seams interested in person, what should i do in terms of the second attempt to bang?

[BarkChompson]

(03-19-2013 02:07 AM)Sketness Wrote:  

kinda of confused. saw her today, we had a brief conversation in which she asked me my plans for spring break, she seams interested in person, what should i do in terms of the second attempt to bang?

Are you gaming girls on the side? Try opening two or three new girl every day for a week during spring break (yeah it's scary and it sucks, but it's how you get better). Don't text her for that whole week even if you want to. If you feel your thumbs moving to her name in your contacts, bite them.

Text her again afterwards with a restart. If you opened 20 girls over spring break, one if not more will probably react at least as favorably as this one.

Key word: Abundance.