[Kristian]

It's the first time I see a girl older than me(she is 22 years old) virgin..

I've been dating with her twice but in other moments we coincide in social events.(I know her for two weeks ago)

Since the begining I noticed her behaviour was quite peculiar,as for example she didn't kiss in a sexual way like the other girls..didn't stop biting at my neck..

Yesterday we were in her sofa and were getting very horny and when my hand was going under her pants she said "Stop please", and started slightly to cry.

How should I deal with this?It's only matter of time being petient?

I've to admit that I like the taste of a pure virgin

If you have some experiences with virgins please share

It has been a big coincidence that this post of Roosh appeared at this moment:

http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-have-sex-wi...n#comments

[big poppa]

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[ElBorrachoInfamoso]

Avoid virgins unless you want to catch a clinger.

[FunctionalPsycho]

What do you do when a whole country is filled with clingers? How to manage their expectations and how to leave them happy rather than bitter?

[Jazzman92]

(03-05-2013 01:43 AM)big poppa Wrote:  

I made my own virgin thread some time ago... Not bad advice in there
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-16631.html


It ended up taking me 3 months to finally succeed. My advice would be to let her know your intentions, but if she says no or she's not ready, you have to show patience.. It's not like with other girls where your persistence will probably get you the bang. I could be way off but I think with virgins, you gotta play into their frame a little and get the comfort levels up, then make your move as soon as she gives an indication of being ready.

But, like I said, let her know your intentions.. Every time you get her alone she knows that you're going to be pushing for that bang.. If she keeps hanging out with you, then she will give it sooner rather than later.

Did she end up becoming very emotionally invested? I know I've seen a lot of people say that virgins become very clingy after deflowering them would you say this is true?

[storm]

(03-13-2013 12:00 AM)FunctionalPsycho Wrote:  

What do you do when a whole country is filled with clingers? How to manage their expectations and how to leave them happy rather than bitter?

Establish rules early and strongly, be clear that it's a transcendental thing. Never play at work.

[big poppa]

(03-14-2013 12:12 AM)Jazzman92 Wrote:  

(03-05-2013 01:43 AM)big poppa Wrote:  

I made my own virgin thread some time ago... Not bad advice in there
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-16631.html


It ended up taking me 3 months to finally succeed. My advice would be to let her know your intentions, but if she says no or she's not ready, you have to show patience.. It's not like with other girls where your persistence will probably get you the bang. I could be way off but I think with virgins, you gotta play into their frame a little and get the comfort levels up, then make your move as soon as she gives an indication of being ready.

But, like I said, let her know your intentions.. Every time you get her alone she knows that you're going to be pushing for that bang.. If she keeps hanging out with you, then she will give it sooner rather than later.

Did she end up becoming very emotionally invested? I know I've seen a lot of people say that virgins become very clingy after deflowering them would you say this is true?

I think it depends on the girl, but they all get 'whipped' to some extent, some more than others. The one I deflowered is quite emotionally invested, and I think would be pretty heartbroken if I left her.

I deflowered one other a year or 2 ago, she was upset when things ended but never stalked or even tried contacting me again. So I think it can vary a bit - but if the girl was very guarded with her virginity to start with, I think the more invested she will get emotionally.

[WesternCancer]

Sacrifice her to the game gods. You'll need some candles, goats blood, goat skulls, a robe etc.

[Jaylow]

[Vet-Boy]

I need some help with this since in the area of india i am, just about every girl is a virgin.

They two im currently dealing with are both virgins. One seems more open to the idea of sex and just needs good logistics. The other which is far more attractive, an 8 keeps bringing up stupid "love" nonsense.

Both are very into making out and letting me grab their breasts and ass in movie theatres. The more open one even grabbed my dick through my pants.

Is the love nonsense just a shit test that i should ignore?

Is this all about logistics and making them feel "it just happened"

Note to neither girls have i said im committed to them or am their boyfriend. They havent brought up the subject either.

[Rawmeo]

Virgins are for LTR, non-virgins are for banging and game.

If you're looking for a LTR, I suggest you go on a few dates with her (2-3) before making a move (and you can still have a side chick during that time). Once you deflower her, she'll become your loyal GF and will be low-maintenance.

If you're looking for a harem plate, 90% of girls aren't virgins, so they are the ones you'll be wanting.

Two types, two end goals.

[Vet-Boy]

Putting work into one of the girls an 8/10, but keep running into resistance.

Mainly:

She keeps saying that she thinks I'm going to bounce as soon as i have sex with her and uses it as an excuse to not put out, uses it to try and leverage for commitment.

I dont want to commit before getting sex atleast once before because I feel she wont put out once she gets what she wants and i refuse to plead for sex and waste time with a girl who wont fufill the main thing im with her for. Im not going to settle for just having her make out and dry hump me till my balls explode from blueing.

Goal is a mini ltr

We all know girls want sex just as much a we do, but she just keeps throwing that love non sense and that she thinks sex is not that important.

Ive nexted her for now and stopped responding to her messages, but what can I do to ensure this doesnt happen next time?

I was very clear with intentions, non judgemental, good frame but could never break that "sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship" bs

Advice to prevent with other girls who will more than likely be virgins with a similar mindset?

Damn sluts here are incredibly hard to find since theyre so good at hiding

[realologist]

(07-01-2017 07:29 AM)Vet-Boy Wrote:  

Putting work into one of the girls an 8/10, but keep running into resistance.

Mainly:

She keeps saying that she thinks I'm going to bounce as soon as i have sex with her and uses it as an excuse to not put out, uses it to try and leverage for commitment.

I dont want to commit before getting sex atleast once before because I feel she wont put out once she gets what she wants and i refuse to plead for sex and waste time with a girl who wont fufill the main thing im with her for. Im not going to settle for just having her make out and dry hump me till my balls explode from blueing.

Goal is a mini ltr

We all know girls want sex just as much a we do, but she just keeps throwing that love non sense and that she thinks sex is not that important.

Ive nexted her for now and stopped responding to her messages, but what can I do to ensure this doesnt happen next time?

I was very clear with intentions, non judgemental, good frame but could never break that "sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship" bs

Advice to prevent with other girls who will more than likely be virgins with a similar mindset?

Damn sluts here are incredibly hard to find since theyre so good at hiding

You "You're right. Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship. Love is. But how do we know if we truly love each other if don't fully surrender ourselves to each other in mind, body and spirit."

[PapayaTapper]

1. Stop making out in places you cant bang (theaters, parks, etc)

2. Get her in bang location

3. Follow virgin LMR work around rules here (highlighted) from a previous post

(08-24-2015 12:45 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(08-24-2015 08:40 AM)captndonk Wrote:  

@Papayatapper
We are not making out in underwear, she brings extra shorts with her to wear them in the bed instead of her jeans. It's okay for her if I unzip her bra, but not to remove any clothing.

Well you should be in your underwear. This was the primary idea behind my last post. She resists what you do to her but doesn't control what you do right? You need to be making out with her and rubbing your boner on her. You think she won't notice? Of course she will. And guess what? The fact that she's turning you on is going to excite her...that's millions of years of evolutionary biology working for you.

(08-24-2015 08:40 AM)captndonk Wrote:  

So she came over and we watched crank, and I tried to escalate. I did some microprogress. (massaging her ass) But when I tried to get near her pussy she really fought back with what I assume all her might. She wasn't angry with me but yeah there was no point in continuing this.

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Of course she wasn't angry. She wants to be there, and guess what?...she wants to fuck you,...that is why she keeps coming over. It's only her fear and insecurity that's keeping it from happening. You need to take the lead, and you are making progress but trying to get through her defenses is going to take months of "micro progress". If your ok with that then ok.

Your leading her but by trying to "escalate" through her fear and insecurity to get her let you [enter her is the most difficult route. Think about that for a moment. It's most often lost on us a men what level of comfort and surrender it takes for a girl to let someone "enter" their body. Especially for the first time[/b] (but empathy game is a whole different topic).

I'm telling you right now that you wont get to fuck her in her precious pussy hole until after you get handjobs and maybe even blowjobs first. Ive banged a handful of virgins (3 or 4 or 5) and it always ended up this way. This basically high school game.

If you want to get to where you want to go faster you need to take a route of lesser resistance. You need to get her comfortable with your body and your needs...hence the scenario I outlined in my previous post. You want to escalate? You need to start rubbing your cock while youre making out with her, and then put her hand on it

I was joking about showing her that video (I didn't think that you really would) but ok...no harm done. Actually least you introduce sexual content and the concept of YOUR NEEDS into your interaction....and she didn't freak out...right?

When she asked why you showed her the video that's when you should have said

"I really like hanging out with you but it's painful, Im a man , my balls need release, you dont want me to be in pain do you?...blah blah blah"

[Vet-Boy]

Got a handy from the 6 in a field today

Nothing special but its progress

[PapayaTapper]

(07-03-2017 11:50 AM)Vet-Boy Wrote:  

Got a handy from the 6 in a field today

Nothing special but its progress

&

Youre welcome

[Vet-Boy]

+1 more handy from the 6

Same time and place

Pushed for a blowjob and fingering but met too much resistance to overcome

Only tolerating this because its 0 effort, literally tell her im going for a jog and that she should join me. She comes, make out + handy and leave like nothing happened. I arrive early and complete my jog beforehand ofcourse.

Non existent personality, but the amazing tits make up for it.

[Geomann180]

Virginis are a slow boil and worth the reward, in my opinion.

They get very attached after you have sex.

Pappaya Tapper's said most of what I would have told you already. Just get her comfortable, alone, and please date her for a while after you deflower one or both of them. Pumping and dumping virgins leaves behind hardened hearts and pliable legs.

G

[Iso]

Don't. You don't want a clinger