[babelfish669]

(02-21-2013 09:17 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Despite the helpfull advices, you need clinical help. Talk to a professional to find the real reason of your anxiety/fear will help you not only with girls, but also with other kinds of social interactions in your life eg family, work, friends.

Keep updating us!

Seriously the last thing you need is someone prescribing you some wacky pills.

Just suck it up and get on with your life, plenty of people in much more stressful and irreversible spots than you.

[23Billion]

(02-22-2013 01:20 AM)babelfish669 Wrote:  

Seriously the last thing you need is someone prescribing you some wacky pills.

Just suck it up and get on with your life, plenty of people in much more stressful and irreversible spots than you.

Yeah man I kept thinking about it and I realized I let my fears of the unknown out control to a point it started fkkng up my social life. I will face whatever comes head on.

I think I've resolved my issue a bit I think.

[tapanar]

(02-20-2013 11:39 PM)23Billion Wrote:  

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Anyway, I was busy with work like crazy and now that I am back in the GTA since I got a transfer here, I decided to start talking to girls. But I realized this. I am now EXTREMELY SCARED of talking to girls. I have this paralysing fear. I don't understand what is going on. Now I have a very good job that pays well but I am lacking in the girls department for some reason.
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Why did you return to Toronto? My advice is to go somewhere else for your next vacation. Different country or continent, warmer climate. When I lived in Toronto, after some time I found myself losing interest in talking to people in general, everyone was so fake-nice and politically correct.

[j r]

I'm scared to talk to girls as well. Most of these broads have nothing interesting to say and talking to them is fucking torture. When a meet a woman, or a man for that matter, who is capable of having an interesting conversation, I get genuinely excited cause it seems to damn rare.

You want to get over your fear of women, find a way to spend more time around them. You'll find most people to be so painfully trite that being scared just seems absurd.