There is a lot of ridicule for "cuddle friends" in the manosphere as cuddling might be perceived as a weak/ beta trait.
I wonder if cuddling is actually a bad move or an underrated weapon. As long as there is sexual activity right before ( oxytocin release) it seems to make women bond and esteem you more. I have found girls who slept over or just cuddled a bit after sex to be a lot more likely to become fwb and even stalk me than those with whom I had sex without cuddling.
Further I think general physical affection can actually create attraction even without a concurrent sexual (after) act as long as it is given in a proper way ( make them feel safe, playing to the need for " daddy"). Maybe I am misreading but many a girl I either have not seen in a while or broke up with before has said " I missed this" when I held them or let them sleep on my chest. Some of these girls I have not been overly nice or fair to otherwise, yet they come back and are always willing to please and have sex on my terms in ( my guess) return for that physical closeness.
This observation seems to even hold true in Asia ( more reserved than western culture) where I pretty much ditched a regular in Bkk and then KL only to have them happily return, pick me up from the airport, spoil me etc before mentioning how they had missed cuddling.
Do any of you have similar experiences or am I misinterpreting things? Cuddling might be an underrated tactic imho .
I wonder if cuddling is actually a bad move or an underrated weapon. As long as there is sexual activity right before ( oxytocin release) it seems to make women bond and esteem you more. I have found girls who slept over or just cuddled a bit after sex to be a lot more likely to become fwb and even stalk me than those with whom I had sex without cuddling.
Further I think general physical affection can actually create attraction even without a concurrent sexual (after) act as long as it is given in a proper way ( make them feel safe, playing to the need for " daddy"). Maybe I am misreading but many a girl I either have not seen in a while or broke up with before has said " I missed this" when I held them or let them sleep on my chest. Some of these girls I have not been overly nice or fair to otherwise, yet they come back and are always willing to please and have sex on my terms in ( my guess) return for that physical closeness.
This observation seems to even hold true in Asia ( more reserved than western culture) where I pretty much ditched a regular in Bkk and then KL only to have them happily return, pick me up from the airport, spoil me etc before mentioning how they had missed cuddling.
Do any of you have similar experiences or am I misinterpreting things? Cuddling might be an underrated tactic imho .