[phoenix101]

I can only recall of 2 "oops" pregnancies right now that I've heard of in the past year or so...in each situation the guy was of greater means.

The first situation, the guy was worth let's say low couple of million, the girl was a peer more or less but working in a regular mundane office job and already had a couple of young mouths to feed. The second guy (from Canada) probably a regular joe blow (in his 50s I think) but was probably still seen as a way out by the young girl (in Europe, of S. American roots, early/mid 20s I think; got around with a few local guys in their 50s and early 60s) who was likely making around minimum wage (~€500/mth).

[FretDancer]

(02-17-2013 01:32 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

He was making six figures and she was making peanuts, of course she is going to trap him.

Exactly. His mistake was not just trusting her with the pill, but also doing it knowing the economic difference each one had.

I really see no way out of this, unless he wants to dissapear, leave the country, head to a nice place and never go back. This however makes it very unfair for the child. Tough tough circumstances, tough decisions.

[Aliblahba]

This shit happened to a former coworker. He was big money and her a waitress, and 20 years his junior. When she announced her pregnancy, he called her a cheating whore and kicked her out. For 9 months her family tormented him, and all she'd talk about was how much child support was going to be owed. Fucking snakes.

He kept his cool, and the day the kid was born, walked into the hospital and announced, "You stupid bitch, I had a vasectomy years ago. Fuck you and your bastard child." He said the look on her and her families face was priceless.

Man=1
Women=0

[Parlay44]

[SpiderKing]

(02-17-2013 02:54 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

This shit happened to a former coworker. He was big money and her a waitress, and 20 years his junior. When she announced her pregnancy, he called her a cheating whore and kicked her out. For 9 months her family tormented him, and all she'd talk about was how much child support was going to be owed. Fucking snakes.

He kept his cool, and the day the kid was born, walked into the hospital and announced, "You stupid bitch, I had a vasectomy years ago. Fuck you and your bastard child." He said the look on her and her families face was priceless.

Man=1
Women=0

[jammer]

(02-17-2013 02:54 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

This shit happened to a former coworker. He was big money and her a waitress, and 20 years his junior. When she announced her pregnancy, he called her a cheating whore and kicked her out. For 9 months her family tormented him, and all she'd talk about was how much child support was going to be owed. Fucking snakes.

He kept his cool, and the day the kid was born, walked into the hospital and announced, "You stupid bitch, I had a vasectomy years ago. Fuck you and your bastard child." He said the look on her and her families face was priceless.

Man=1
Women=0

Sounds more like an urban myth to me than a true story. I always hear that story on the internet.

[Aliblahba]

The guy in the story is beta. Straight up. He's making six figures, and in an LTR with useless bitch making $10, probably with no insurance and not fit to be a mother. WTF?

As for his situation, most women aren't going for a paternity test in the womb. Even bringing it up will piss her off, which will only make his life harder. At some point he'll grow up and want time with his kid, and she'll make his life a hell over it with custody.

Now for the real pain in the ass. B/c he doesn't know if it's his or not, he'll be expected to pay out for her medical expenses. Even if the kid ain't his, that's money lost. If he kicks her to the curb, and she uses the system, and it's his, he may have to pay anyway.

In this situation I'd probably just suffer though the next months and wait till it was born. It's a tough call, but I doubt she'd take a payout for abortion as she sees big money in the long run.

So to sum it up, the poor guy is SOL.

@jammer- No urban myth. The guy already had two kids and was paying out big for child support. Which is why he had the vasectomy. Maybe his story started the urban myth.

[Big Nilla]

I read that in China they use heavy dosage ginger tea to induce miscarriages.

Guys who don't want kids should sit in hot tubs for a few weeks to cause infertility for a few months.

[Parlay44]

Quote:

The guy in the story is beta. Straight up. He's making six figures, and in an LTR with useless bitch making $10, probably with no insurance and not fit to be a mother. WTF?

I don't care if a bitch is working at McDonald's. If she's hot then she can get it.

[el mechanico]

(02-17-2013 03:43 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Quote:

The guy in the story is beta. Straight up. He's making six figures, and in an LTR with useless bitch making $10, probably with no insurance and not fit to be a mother. WTF?

I don't care if a bitch is working at McDonald's. If she's hot then she can get it.

I prefer that and less cash to hire to better lawyer than you which is the main thing pretty much. He needs to move that girl away from her family and file custody in a lienient state.

[Sailor]

Guy makes 6 figures and never heard of lambskin condom? If he does and those aren't good enough for him,well then,he can always let his floor wet when she is around...

[esperar]

(02-17-2013 03:37 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:  

I read that in China they use heavy dosage ginger tea to induce miscarriages.

Guys who don't want kids should sit in hot tubs for a few weeks to cause infertility for a few months.

Taking a woman in to a hot tub can cause a spontaneous miscarriage.

[speakeasy]

If she'd been raped she'd terminate faster than I can type this sentence. This was nothing but a bait and switch tactic. Fucking bitch.

He should consider just writing her a $10,000 check in exchange for an abortion. It will be a bargain compared to the pain in the ass he'll experience for the next 18 years. If she's that poor and compulsive I bet she'd take it.

[Aliblahba]

(02-17-2013 03:43 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Quote:

The guy in the story is beta. Straight up. He's making six figures, and in an LTR with useless bitch making $10, probably with no insurance and not fit to be a mother. WTF?

I don't care if a bitch is working at McDonald's. If she's hot then she can get it.

Agreed, but obviously we see now why not to LTR with such a pay disparity.

[Timoteo]

Bottom line, if it's his, it's going to cost him. At that point, the only decision is if he wants to be a real father to the child, or just a sperm donor that writes checks to a bitch he can no longer stand. If it isn't his, it may cost him something regarding her medical costs, etc., but he needs to find out as soon as possible it it's his or not. Yeah, she'll be insulted, but she's also scandalous in the way she got pregnant in the first place, so she can't really take the high road on this one. He has every reason to distrust her.

[Aliblahba]

Another guy I worked with got raped in court when his wife took off with the kids. She had earning potential at the time, and he was a registered nurse. He had to work a shitload of OT, live in a rundown trailer, and drive a shitty car.

Years later, his kids dimed their mom out, as she'd married a dude with bank, and had used the child support to finish college and was making more than baby daddy. He took her to court and got a HUGE chunk of pay back. She and her new husband purposely had not reported to the court their new earnings. After that baby daddy was able to buy a house, better car, and stop working so many hours.

[Timoteo]

(02-17-2013 04:58 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Another guy I worked with got raped in court when his wife took off with the kids. She had earning potential at the time, and he was a registered nurse. He had to work a shitload of OT, live in a rundown trailer, and drive a shitty car.

Years later, his kids dimed their mom out, as she'd married a dude with bank, and had used the child support to finish college and was making more than baby daddy. He took her to court and got a HUGE chunk of pay back. She and her new husband purposely had not reported to the court their new earnings. After that baby daddy was able to buy a house, better car, and stop working so many hours.

Yep. Women won't think twice about doing this. They know they can't collect anymore even if they are only living with another man, so they'll try to hide this if they can get away with it and live large on that extra money they're receiving. They don't care if you're struggling. They're vindictive, and it doesn't matter how decent a man you are.

[Aliblahba]

The child support hustle is an ugly one. Because she is making so little, he'll be forking out big time. And she'll use that money on herself, and drop off the kid every other weekend looking like a rag doll. I've seen this shit for years, and paying extra don't mean shit to the courts.

I got a relative that got kicked to the curb, and moved out of state. His ex went to a feminist cunt judge and set the child support WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. It was so bad his lawyer told him to quit work. Eventually he got it dropped to half.

Not learning his lesson, he got a chick knocked on the Rezzie, where white man has no rights. Of course you can guess where this story goes.

[GreenGranted]

Hahah, one of the reasons why NuvaRing beats the pill. You can always know if she's wearing it.

[FretDancer]

(02-17-2013 05:43 PM)GreenGranted Wrote:  

Hahah, one of the reasons why NuvaRing beats the pill. You can always know if she's wearing it.

Can you elaborate more on that? From personal experience.

[jammer]

One of the benefits of being a black man. Few white women want to go thru the shame of creating a mixed baby. Plus you are perceived to be poor so she won't look at me like I'm a meal ticket. And its easier to tell if the baby is mine.

[Timoteo]

A Brazilian chick I had a thing with in London raised a red flag to me the first time I smashed. She's got 3 daughters, and though I've never asked her about it, I get the feeling they're all from different dads because they all look so different. She was talking about how much she loved babies, and that she wouldn't mind having another one. She's in her early 40s! Right then, I knew that I ALWAYS had to wrap up for this chick, because if she got pregnant, she'd keep it. And she was probably one of those super-fertile types that would get pregnant if you looked at her too hard.

[LouieG]

Careerist 20-something SWPL chicks take a lot of abuse on RVF, but one good thing about them is that when the sperm hits the egg, they're gonna abort.

This guy didn't need a condom, or fancy IUD or any of that bullshit. What he needed was a slut with some ambition. Once you get that, you can rawdog with absolute peace of mind.

[Moma]

(02-17-2013 05:23 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Not learning his lesson, he got a chick knocked on the Rezzie, where white man has no rights. Of course you can guess where this story goes.

Where is Rezzie?

[IRTdenialist]

(02-17-2013 03:37 PM)Big Nilla Wrote:  

I read that in China they use heavy dosage ginger tea to induce miscarriages.

Guys who don't want kids should sit in hot tubs for a few weeks to cause infertility for a few months.

Interesting you say that bro. I'm Indian and we have a custom where the pregnant women doesn't eat garlic or ginger for the whole duration of her pregnancy as it is considered harmful to the foetus. Everybody in my family/extended family.... fuck, every single Indian person I know abides by this custom.