This is from another thread...
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It all comes down to what is going on in her life at the moment and how she views you. For example, this has happened to me numerous times. I get a girls number, try to contact her, nothing. Put her in rotation, keep contacting her once per month, then suddenly a month, two month, even more later she starts responding. Has anything changed about me? Nope. Usually, they were seeing someone and now there are not. It's that simple.
I just let them know, in no uncertain terms, that I find them attractive and that I don't fuck around. If she contacts me she knows what's going down. Society teaches women that they can be flaky and inconsistent, that's its their right. The best way to combat this is to be the opposite: consistent. I use to try being flaky in return, just to punish them but you can't beat them at their own game. A girl can always out wait and out flake you.
I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile