Quote: (02-03-2013 03:27 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:
I don't know why there is such a huge concentration of Omegas / Grass-Eaters in Japan. From what I see, the women there have neither gotten fat nor feminist, and the level of game required is not too large. It seriously confuses me.
My Japan exeprinece, Five years, recently returned to the states:
Its the 40 year recession coupled with their horrible test hell, critical thinking killing, any thinking at all killing, soul crushing ultra-conformist school system coupled with their whole shame, saving face culture. Not to mention the fact that women (in their 20's) are actually making a LOT more money than men are (usually in the fashion,make-up, and blogging business)
Most men in their teens are 20's are grain eaters, BUT once men turn around 35 and ESPECIALLY at 40, they become way more alpha than most American men would ever hope to be. Because of this, and the fact that these men have money and there isnt much of a taboo against adultery(as long as you're not flaunting it to the community)
pretty much 100% of women at a looks level of 6+ have been with an older man, prefer older men, dated older men even in their high school days.
Which means, that most men in their 20's aint gettin pussy, and have no money. The little pussy they get, they omega themselves to the girl, and pretty much in many cases only has sex with the girl like once a month.
Usually because of this, J-guys in general have no game, and cockblock the shit out of you in Japanese clubs (there's a difference between Japanese clubs that have a Japanese clientelle, and Japanese clubs that cater to foreigners and women who like foreigners) but yeah if you're chatting a girl up in one of those clubs, dudes WILL cockblock you, usually two guys (friends with each other) will come up to the girl and try to embarass her to get her to stop talking to you, then try to talk her up, buy her drinks, etc etc, hell, they'll even cockblock THEMSELVES.
You'd think that having game in these scenarios would help but no. the best thing to do is to go the clubs that have women that already like you, or become a DJ/club event organizer (like I did I didn't do it for the girls though, I kinda just stepped into that) that got me access to the kinda of J-girl that most non-Japanese people wouldn't even dream of being about to touch. But yeah, I didn't have to work hard, made friends with some great musicians (who are usually alpha or close to it) and just generally had a blast.
there ARE young J-guys who do get mad pussy though, usually they are either DJs, entertainers, rich, are with the organized crime (which is a whole different topic for another day)
Anime, yeah I never really watched it in Japan, (or much at all in general). When I got there it wasn't popular but it is now. For example, I went to Akihabara like four years ago to get a cheap laptop, and it was just all electronics and parts, then I went their before I left, and there's all this anime stuff everywhere.
Interestingly enough, the whole "old dudes into young girls" culture is pretty rampant there, for example, there's this group called akb48 that this older fat dude started(most likely for the purpose of banging cute high school - early 20's girls), and they got HUGE, their main draw was 48 girls singing in high school uniforms. they got HUGE(I could write a book on that alone) ALSO the members get kicked out once they reach the age of 25!
It's a very strange place, its great for older men, and foreign men.
It's bad for J-Dudes in their 20's
I had a few male Japanese friends in their 20's straight up moved to the philipines, because they "couldn't stand Japanese girls" within a week or two of going there, they got philipino girlfriends.
Oh and its funny, a lot of women wont date you is you are younger than they are hahaha. (the older women I've been with I never told them my age, or had them guess and just say they were right hahaha!)