A girl made me think recently.
We had sex once a few months ago and that was it (I guess she wasn't impressed, doesn't matter), but we went out for a beer the other day.
After a while of nice chat and lots of laughing we went out for a smoke. A few cars were leaving a nearby parking lot at that time and every man in his car turned around to look at her while driving past us. Every single one.
I asked her jokingly: "Did a guy ever crash into another car or a traffic sign while looking at you?"
She said: "No, but one guy ran over a red light while looking at me."
I asked: "Did he get his photo taken?" (I mean an automatic traffic camera that catches people that ignore red lights here in Germany.)
She said: "No, but he stopped his car and got out. He got very angry and shouted at me for distracting him."
I: "Oh, nice. And then what happened?"
She: "I got into the car with him."
I: "One night stand?"
She nodded with a serious look on her face and then changed the subject. I didn't inquire further. (I should've.)
What do you make of this?
A sentence that someone said rang in my head when I heard it: "A girl will tell you how she wants to be seduced." Thinking about my failure to have sex with her again I wondered what the right approach might have been.
Some stats: She's a very feminine girl, adorable in her inability to find her way on the street and her repeated mentioning of her failures, how she isn't smart enough etc. I find that very sexy. But I find it hard to imagine that shouting at her will get her turned on.
Obviously I am a noob in this case. Help me out, RVF!
We had sex once a few months ago and that was it (I guess she wasn't impressed, doesn't matter), but we went out for a beer the other day.
After a while of nice chat and lots of laughing we went out for a smoke. A few cars were leaving a nearby parking lot at that time and every man in his car turned around to look at her while driving past us. Every single one.
I asked her jokingly: "Did a guy ever crash into another car or a traffic sign while looking at you?"
She said: "No, but one guy ran over a red light while looking at me."
I asked: "Did he get his photo taken?" (I mean an automatic traffic camera that catches people that ignore red lights here in Germany.)
She said: "No, but he stopped his car and got out. He got very angry and shouted at me for distracting him."
I: "Oh, nice. And then what happened?"
She: "I got into the car with him."
I: "One night stand?"
She nodded with a serious look on her face and then changed the subject. I didn't inquire further. (I should've.)
What do you make of this?
A sentence that someone said rang in my head when I heard it: "A girl will tell you how she wants to be seduced." Thinking about my failure to have sex with her again I wondered what the right approach might have been.
Some stats: She's a very feminine girl, adorable in her inability to find her way on the street and her repeated mentioning of her failures, how she isn't smart enough etc. I find that very sexy. But I find it hard to imagine that shouting at her will get her turned on.
Obviously I am a noob in this case. Help me out, RVF!