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04-20-2010, 02:16 AM
i doubt its a good idea, especially if you are in any kind of supervisory position. I have a really cute girl on our staff who acts like the office slut, everyone is prbly messing around her, but i wont. It just causes to many headaches. If you really get hooked on these girls at your work, its just another case of one-itis (or small pool-itis) Remember, its only the close proximity that makes them seem really good.
Do what i do, friend them and use them as a pivot. Worst case scenario, you end up with hot girls out with you to up your value. There are always other girls. Ive made that mistake in the past, and it turns out most girls cant handle a sexual and professional relationship. Something always gives.
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04-20-2010, 03:03 AM
I agree with the pivot idea. You don't want to be facing HR.
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04-20-2010, 01:23 PM
bad idea. spelling like that is also a little troublesome to take seriously.
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04-20-2010, 02:27 PM
My friend/manager got fired a couple of months back because he was banging the supervisor and there was no checks and balances at work since they always agreed with each other. They had to let him go.
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04-20-2010, 04:26 PM
I started banging my supervisor when I was living and working in South Korea. She was rich, pretty, and worked to give me better job conditions (less contact hours, lucrative after school tutoring, etc). I figured it was worth the risk. The benefits lasted about 6 weeks.
She then started with this Psycho obsessive behavior, I cut off the relationship, and then she started stalking me after work and making weird threats. I put up with it for 4-5 months (hell, btw, because I saw her every day at work and she had control over my work life), and eventually had to quit my job AND leave the country because she wouldn't let up. I left the country because I was just exhausted from the whole experience, and would have lost a lot of money in the time it would have taken me to arrange a new working visa.
She tried to follow me (immigrate) back to the USA, and would have if her visa wasn't denied at the last second. She actually applied to, and won, a national competition that would pay for a foreign earned Masters degree, just so she could follow me. She explained to me her plan about how she would fly in from her University city every weekend to see me. She already had the Masters degree that they offered to pay for, hence the visa denial.
Overall, t was one of the more legitimately traumatic experiences of my life. Of course, there are details that make it so that would require a lot more effort to explain here.
Don't do it. You can't get away if something goes wrong, without quitting your job.
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04-20-2010, 07:02 PM
I dated 3 co-workers from my last job. One in my own department. After things didn't work out I had to deal with her bullshit for 1.5 years. The other two were bitches. At least that's what the guys said behind their back, and even one guy went as far as telling one of them "fuck you" to her face.
I'm glad things didn't work out, I would of probably hanged myself, or even worse married one of them. I still have a friend working there, he didn't fuck any of the three, as far as I know. He did hook up with another chick that used to work there, one day she just quit and he never saw her again.
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04-21-2010, 12:38 AM
I was lucky. I learned this lesson at age 14 or so.
Don't do it.
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04-23-2010, 12:24 PM
This stuff almost always backfires in some way.
Last year i was messing with 3 girls in the same company but i was very careful.
I set it up like this:
Girl # 1. Asian, Tan, Swimmer. Born in Taiwan. Works in accounting, only hangs around other Asians and her crew in accounting. Stays in her office area almost all day. Great girl. submissive in bed.
Girl # 2. Black/White, Just moved from South Africa, Hangs around other Africans, 21, great butt, very sexy, is now stripping also. Works in food area. Said she hates guys her age cause "they are stupid". Banged her in the storage room once for about 10 minutes.
Girl # 3. White, works in Human Resources, great body, 24 , very smart, hates games. Admits that she has a thing for older guys.
Major keys:
Its a very big office complex, over 10 different buildings, over 1000 employees.
They work in different areas.
They have totally different social circles.
THEY ALL SPEAK A DIFFERENT LANGAUGE AS THEIR PRIMARY TONGUE.
They are not Facebook friends.
I honestly don't know how in the hell I did not get caught. It was a miracle. I probably should have gotten fired. It became very hectic at times.
I was also working on a few other girls.
Do not try this if you wanna keep your job and your professional reputation. I was just very lucky.