[Hunterdoingfieldresearch]

Hey guys,

At this moment i am 28 yrs and in he coming years it will be my ultimate goal to find the *****perfect latin girl. In most cases i prefer the younger girls (18-22) and maybe some special ones in the group of (22-24) I prefer this kind of ages, because i believe these girls are in the best shape of their life and i want to have a piece of that....I heard that the latin girls don't give a shit about a age gap 5-15 years.

Some of you went to multiple places in South America...What is your opion about this matter? and are there differences between Argentina, Brazil and Colombia?

***** i was watching this Adam Sandler movie and this girl showed up...

[Biz]

Emmanuelle Chriqui, very hot!

[lilseezie]

She's of Moroccan descent, but yes, super hot.

I haven't yet been to South America, but I've heard what you're saying is very true. I have dated Latinas here in the USA with as much as 8 years between us (I'm also 28).

-LS

[Rocco81]

Yeah its not a big deal...the girls that are 18 will be a little too young for you. They are very well developed of course, but they are babied a little more and act like 16.

It is very common for you to pull an early 20's Latina while you are late 20's early 30's...this is normal. They see you as more mature and stable. ***

Remember this though, they will expect you to have a job and pay for shit. It's not they are money hungry (Remembermost are fine with DIY parties with friends, ie Cases of beer and barbecue...very cheap. They aren't like American girls typically wanting to go to the "hottest" clubs and buy $12 Rum and Cokes either) but its a macho thing that the man is the provider and protector. In return you get a very feminine hottie on your arm who (depending on which country she is from) will still want to please her man.

[lilseezie]

Yea, that's perhaps my only gripe with Latina women, at least some of the one's I've met here in the States. Through conversation I've often gotten the impression they're just waiting to find the right man to marry so they can quit their job and spent the rest of their life as a homemaker, relying on the man to take care of everything and pay the bills. As Rocco pointed out though, this isn't because they're gold diggers, it's just embedded in their culture. They often shack up with guys making 30 or 40 grand a year, as long as he's paying the rent and putting food on the table so they can focus on popping out some kids.

I'd prefer a woman who actually can and wants to contribute to the finances of the relationship. Makes things so much easier when there are two incomes. But wait a minute...I have no interest in getting married anyway so what the fuck am I talking about?

[PartyTime]

(04-14-2010 11:03 PM)lilseezie Wrote:  

they're just waiting to find the right man to marry so they can quit their job and spent the rest of their life as a homemaker, relying on the man to take care of everything and pay the bills.

I think these are the true inner desires of every woman. Women in America were this way 60 years ago. Women throughout most of the world are this way now. And for hundreds of thousands of years these were the gender roles, with very very few exceptions.

I actually prefer this to a woman who whats us to have "equal roles" in the relationship.

[PartyTime]

Yeah, large age gaps are no problem. But realize that if you want a quality girl, you're going to have to learn the culture and language at least well enough to do 2 things:

1) to be able to meet enough girls to find "the one". And just as importantly to be able to read her and know the type of girl she is. Is she a good girl, bad girl, psycho girl, gold digger. Its much harder to make these judgement in a new culture, and much easier for her to disguise her true self long enough to tie the knot.

2) to win over her family & friends, which will be necessary for any quality girl.

I met a 33 year old guy with a 22 year old fiancée. She was really cute too. Looked like a good girl, marriage material.

[Rocco81]

Yeah PT I agree with you again. The true desire of any woman is to be protected, sheltered and comforted by her man. That means the following:

Physically (she doesn't want a pussy that can bully and beat up)
Financially (she needs stability, to feed kids and keep a roof over her head)
Leader (I dont care what all the fembots have been telling us from the day we could speak, but women want a leader. Like the father of the house calls the shots they want that in a man.)

[Rocco81]

Many other cultures outside our own, still embed in their daughters (or rather don't actively teach against human nature) the need to be loyal and caring to their man. Stay sexy and keep them satisfied in bed, while at the same time keeping him fed, keeping the kids bathed, house in order etc.

I do think that a woman working to pay the bills which come in handy, is not a bad idea. But that should not be the first concern. The problem is you have the American feminist idea that the true worth of a woman is the monetary contribution to the home. Replacing a caring mother and companion with an independant money making machine or degree chaser. Meanwhile, trying to transform the man from patriarch and old school bread winner, to a sensitive stay at home dad with a fucking baby carrier strapped to his back.

[Hunterdoingfieldresearch]

(04-15-2010 10:41 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

Many other cultures outside our own, still embed in their daughters (or rather don't actively teach against human nature) the need to be loyal and caring to their man. Stay sexy and keep them satisfied in bed, while at the same time keeping him fed, keeping the kids bathed, house in order etc.

I do think that a woman working to pay the bills which come in handy, is not a bad idea. But that should not be the first concern. The problem is you have the American feminist idea that the true worth of a woman is the monetary contribution to the home. Replacing a caring mother and companion with an independant money making machine or degree chaser. Meanwhile, trying to transform the man from patriarch and old school bread winner, to a sensitive stay at home dad with a fucking baby carrier strapped to his back.

I have the same ideas about this. I would like to have a more traditional girl instead of the girls out here in The Netherlands. The girls here are real feminist career chasers, but they forgot how to satisfy and treat a man.

I want a hot, loyal and caring latin wife in my future.
The latin girl wants a stable life and roof above her head? fine by me...it's a win-win in my opinion.

[PartyTime]

(04-15-2010 10:37 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

The true desire of any woman is to be protected, sheltered and comforted by her man.

Yeah I agree.
Its too bad that western culture brainwashes women to forget all those things that they knew they wanted when they were a 4 year old girl playing house and dreaming of prince charming.

Now that I think about it, I think in many ways a 4 year old girl understands herself better than some of these western women. How ironic.

[PartyTime]

(04-15-2010 10:41 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

The problem is you have the American feminist idea that the true worth of a woman is the monetary contribution to the home. Replacing a caring mother and companion with an independant money making machine

Some people think that this was an intentional plan carried out by corporations. If you can get 2 incomes in every household, and you can also weaken the man to the point where the woman (who is inherently an emotional spender) makes the spending decisions, well that equals large profits for corporations.

I'm not sure I go along with the conspiracy theorists, but they do have a good point. Without the feminist revolution we would not have such a culture of consumerism, overspending, and under-saving.

[PartyTime]

(04-15-2010 03:44 PM)Hunterdoingfieldresearch Wrote:  

in The Netherlands. The girls here are real feminist career chasers, but they forgot how to satisfy and treat a man.

Yeah, I've heard that Scandinavia is really feminist. (is the Netherlands technically part of Scandinavia?)

(04-15-2010 03:44 PM)Hunterdoingfieldresearch Wrote:  

The latin girl wants a stable life and roof above her head? fine by me...it's a win-win in my opinion.

Yeah, exactly. One day when I settle down, I don't mind supporting her if shes an amazing girl. A lot of us here expect a lot from a woman. We have to be willing to give back.

She takes care of you in her feminine way. You take care of her in your masculine. Its the way the world has worked since the beginning of man. Men hunted down the animal, women cleaned and cooked it.

You know, I used to have the attitude of not wanting to spend a dime on a girl. As if she was the enemy or something. Too much seduction community rhetoric had invaded my mind. But these days, if shes truly a good girl and she treats me well, I want to take care of her. And I dont mean only by spending money on her.

[Rocco81]

Hunter if you are from the Netherlands you do have allot to learn brother. Latin women have long been my muse, I love them... however they are tough cookies to crack at times. By this I mean that they are good at working men (some not all). Its working from a different angle of course but working non the less.

You bieng from Holland, will have to learn to be more Alpha with your woman. Some of the upper class Latina's might understand a more soft approach a little better, but most of the Latinas I know will want you to be take charge. Their fathers raised them that way and they will expect you to be that way. If you're not in charge and a little bold, they will probably start fucking someone who is. They will assume you might be gay, or maybe just a run of the mill pussy.

Now what really helps is, if you are an Alpha gringo, but yet still are loyal you will be her lover and hero. This is in direct contrast to her brothers, friends, maybe even own father who have GF's while married. Its almost expected at some point in the relation that the man will atleast fuck another woman and more extreme actually carry on a relationship with another woman. Its more rare the women do it, but it does happen. Its a huge stereotype, but unfortunately from what I've seen its pretty common.

In summation, machismo is still very much alive in Latin America (Less in Chile and Argentina where the people are more Euro) if you learn to have a little macho brivado AND be a nice blondie gringo who doesn't beat her or fuck her cousins, and you will be knee deep and have your pick of the woman you want.

[OGNorCal707]

I wouldn't go to South America with the goal/mission of finding a wife, just go have fun, game the women, get laid, and if you happen to meet a girl that you really like, then see where it goes. To develop anything beyond just a few dates/lays you probably will need to spend an extended amount of time in one area.

[lilactag]

I am with Rocco on this one about CA and SA girls.
My 5 years living in The Netherlands showed me that even fun dutch men are way too beta on average to get their women truly interested. I had dutch girls give me long BJs, once even around 45m without complain, cook for me, take care when I was a bit sick etc, everything you would expect (by your post) on a SA girl or wife.
They used to tell me that their men are just too bland and nice and they had to take charge of almost everything, but when they sensed a macho vibe, they melt as most womn still do.
Yeah, obviously, no woman likes to be beaten, cheated and what not, but feeling they have a man who can be as sofisticated as primitive, is what they crave for. IMNSHO.

Upperclass chicks in LA will be hard to crack and to please, they will more often than not be independent and high earners, some will hate cooking (or not know how to) and cleaning, but if you click, they will probably go out of their way to be good to you. I think is the same way in most of the "western world".

I think asian women would fit more your pretensions, in most ways.
Mainly, just go to SA and find the chicks and answers by yourself, if you search enough you might find the type that more closely resembles what you are searching for, OR maybe you change your search patterns.

I am to a point that I like all types of women (maybe just not into black, pakistani, fat and way older than me women), for the rest, I am willing to enjoy them with an open mind as to what they can offer.

[gringoed]

I get the impression that in the cities of Argentina, that the women are too much a victim of Western brainwashing for them to be significantly better subservient wives than Americans.

Small town/rural chicks here are a different story, though.

[Rocco81]

Gringoed I think you are right. Because Argentines, Uruaguayan and many Chileans are more of white European decent, I think they purposely try to mimic what they see other Euro and American acrtresses, singers , models , doing but maybe they took the wrong fork in the road.

I think small town girls anywhere are going to be better wives. I mean you can find cool chicks in blue collar neighborhoods of Chicago, Dallas, Philly, etc. but a DC, NY, Miami, LA chick is almost always going to be a lazy self absorbed bitch, more interested in her Yoga class and work functions than giving you any action.

[Hunterdoingfieldresearch]

(04-16-2010 11:14 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

Hunter if you are from the Netherlands you do have allot to learn brother. Latin women have long been my muse, I love them... however they are tough cookies to crack at times. By this I mean that they are good at working men (some not all). Its working from a different angle of course but working non the less.

You bieng from Holland, will have to learn to be more Alpha with your woman. Some of the upper class Latina's might understand a more soft approach a little better, but most of the Latinas I know will want you to be take charge. Their fathers raised them that way and they will expect you to be that way. If you're not in charge and a little bold, they will probably start fucking someone who is. They will assume you might be gay, or maybe just a run of the mill pussy.

Now what really helps is, if you are an Alpha gringo, but yet still are loyal you will be her lover and hero. This is in direct contrast to her brothers, friends, maybe even own father who have GF's while married. Its almost expected at some point in the relation that the man will atleast fuck another woman and more extreme actually carry on a relationship with another woman. Its more rare the women do it, but it does happen. Its a huge stereotype, but unfortunately from what I've seen its pretty common.

In summation, machismo is still very much alive in Latin America (Less in Chile and Argentina where the people are more Euro) if you learn to have a little macho brivado AND be a nice blondie gringo who doesn't beat her or fuck her cousins, and you will be knee deep and have your pick of the woman you want.

True. The most guys here are way too beta and soft. I don't consider myself as a real macho alpha guy. I am more laid back relaxed guy in my approach to women. I can't complain about the quantity of girls in my past, but the quality is much more important for me nowadays.

I know the latin girls are used to be with macho alpha males, but i am confident to find a perfect girl. I will change some things in my game with the latin girls and adjust to the culture. I think direct game and be obvious about you want of the girl (taking the lead) in combination with treating her not like shit is the best way to get with them. I will see...

I will speak fluent spanish before heading to south-america and know how to dance Salsa and Merengue. I will be well informed about thje countries, culture and all that shit.....so it's not like i think: Let's go to south america and see all the jessica alba's and Salma Hayek's screaming for my attention.

So to find a girl will not be the hardest part, but to stay in a relationship with them i am a bit worried about...They are used to all that drama and actually i will be a lot different then the average alpha colombian guy.
I know the girls can be clingy and jealous (sometimes i think it's a bit funny and i will laugh about it) but they can cause a lot more drama then the average western girl and then it will not be funny at all...

[gringoed]

(04-19-2010 01:26 PM)Rocco81 Wrote:  

Gringoed I think you are right. Because Argentines, Uruaguayan and many Chileans are more of white European decent, I think they purposely try to mimic what they see other Euro and American acrtresses, singers , models , doing but maybe they took the wrong fork in the road.

I think small town girls anywhere are going to be better wives. I mean you can find cool chicks in blue collar neighborhoods of Chicago, Dallas, Philly, etc. but a DC, NY, Miami, LA chick is almost always going to be a lazy self absorbed bitch, more interested in her Yoga class and work functions than giving you any action.

Yeah, many of the Argies I know here know more about American culture than I do. Yesterday I was on a date with a girl and she did an impression of Joey from "Friends." This does not bode well for her.