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What would you do?
#1

What would you do?

So I've been banging this chick for the past couple of weeks, and we've done boyfriend/girlfriend type stuff. I wouldn't mind keeping her as a gf but I'm not pushing for anything before she brings it up.

So I tell her my friends aren't going out tonight and that we should get drunk and smash. She says she's going out with her friends but I can come along.

What would you guys do? I don't really want to meet her friends as they'll judge the fuck out of me, but I don't want to bail as she knows I have no other plans and it makes me look too antisocial.
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#2

What would you do?

It seems you've become too comfortable with the relationship. Telling her "we should get drunk and smash" wasnt the best of ideas. First you're already telling her what you're planning to do waaay ahead of schedule, thus leaving any mystery out of the date. Secondly, even though you "told her" it still comes across as a form of begging because she can always say no and ultimately refuse you sex since she knows that is what you want. Also telling her your friend werent going out tonight wasnt too smart. Its none of her business what your friends are doing(if anything they can always be used as an excuse to bail).
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#3

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My advice would be to go out w/her but dont get your hopes high for getting laid that night. Go out and "try" to have some fun. Keep in mind though as soon as her friends are done analyzing and interrogating you you'll most likely be given the third wheel treatment, after all this kind of is a girls night out. As for her friends you better hope they arent fat ugly cockblockers. Run some very light game on them and hope it takes effect in your favor.
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#4

What would you do?

My precise wording was "want to get smashed and make some bad decisions?" so it wasn't as overt as "let's get drunk and have sex" but I probably agree with you somewhat.

I don't know man. I can feel myself starting to get oneitis, but this chick is pretty cool, loves sex, and is sweet. I'm trying to remain as emotionally distant as possible but it's getting tougher.

I think I will go out tonight and be a bit aloof, whilst lightly gaming her friends and maybe even eye-fucking some random girls around the bar just for the confidence boost. It's just going to be weird when they have so many inside jokes and stories and I'm the outsider.
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#5

What would you do?

Do not go out with her and her friends. Are you insane?

Reply "no it's cool, I'll get a couple of my mates and we'll head out ourselves. Might meet you lot later".
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#6

What would you do?

Quote: (11-21-2012 04:49 PM)MattC Wrote:  

Do not go out with her and her friends. Are you insane?

Reply "no it's cool, I'll get a couple of my mates and we'll head out ourselves. Might meet you lot later".

Good call. I haven't responded to her yet, so I'll hit her with that when she asks me again. It seems tempting at first, but there's absolutely nothing good that can come from meeting her friends.
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#7

What would you do?

yep fuck her mates, your mates are cooler.

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#8

What would you do?

You've been banging her for a couple weeks.
Accept it..You guys are in a unannounced relationship.
You said it yourself that you have some oneitis going.

Going out with her and her friends isn't gonna kill your chances of getting laid.
How do you know her friends will judge you?
Use the same game on her friends that you used on her.
Game isn't just to pick up girls..its a whole package. You should be able to make yourself look good in front of them

If anything. I think acting aloof and whatnot will kill your chances of getting laid.
You say she's sweet and whatnot..
It doesnt sound like she's inviting you out so you can watch her hook up with another guys

It almost sounds like she is inviting you out with her friends as a test to see if youre worth holding on to.
(that's how women think)
If you wanna keep banging this girl..suck it up...go out and be on your best behavior with her friends.
Try to join there conversations. Engage the girl your with.

Does she live with her friends?
If not..at the end of the night when everyone is on the way home..you can go back to her place or take her to yours.
You'll be rewarded for passing the test.

You said it yourself...you will probably be sitting at home anyway.



On the flip side..if you don't want the oneitis..get out and do some more gaming

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#9

What would you do?

Who cares if they judge you? You've already won because you've been hitting it for weeks.
This is a situation where you have nothing to lose. Flip a coin.
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#10

What would you do?

Oh and if you're gonna send that text and tell her you might meet up with them later, don't meet up with them later. You've already chased her, and she expects you to try see her and come calling. Just fuck her off for the night now, tell her you're going out with your mates and you might see her later but if you end up staying in jacking off, she's none the wiser. Not seeing you will stir things up in her head the right way for you.
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#11

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What makes you say that hanging out with a girl's friends will lead to you not getting laid?
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#12

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Quote: (11-21-2012 05:56 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

What makes you say that hanging out with a girl's friends will lead to you not getting laid?

He's been seeing her for a couple of weeks so I don't doubt that he will get laid at the end of the night if he goes. It's not about that though. He's lost a bit of his frame chasing her to go out and he needs to get it back by showing that even though she's given him the choice to go see her, he's not arsed by it and will go out with his mates instead. The "might see you lot later" gets her thinking when he doesn't show up. "Why didn't he show? Was he having fun with other girls?" Etc etc.

The only way I would advise him going out with her mates is if he goes there and is the life of the party and is the ringleader of them all, and comes out of the night with every one of her mates wanting to fuck him. That will drive his girl wild. Judging by what he said though, that wouldn't be the case.

Get your frame back, mate. Forget about her tonight. Don't even reply to her texts.
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#13

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So much good yet conflicting advice in this thread.

Basically I went full beta with this one. I can feel the hot, flaming dagger of oneitis slicing its way into my heart. If I go meet her tonight, I will be off my game and be miserable and make a bad impression. I'm not in a good mindset to make her friends love me right now.

I wound up texting her "I might not be able to get there til after 12" to which she responded "okay, just text before to make sure we're still there". So I'm going out with my friend and will hit on a bunch of chicks, then if I'm feeling back to my old self, then I'll meet up. If I still feel like a pussy then I'll say something like I can't make it.

Fuck man, I was doing so well but this holiday shit always trips me up.
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#14

What would you do?

You are already having sex with her. Dont sweat it.

However in this case I would not go. These types of nights out with all her friends are usually a bust and then you are forced to see drama unfold that might taint your good image of her.

Not sure how old you or she is, but that makes a difference as well. Perhaps its my high interest in people, but when I meet a cool girl, I look forward to meeting her friends. They are often interesting and cool people as well. Think of it as networking (although not all relationships end on good terms).
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#15

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Quote: (11-21-2012 06:20 PM)Jackhammer Wrote:  

So much good yet conflicting advice in this thread.

Basically I went full beta with this one. I can feel the hot, flaming dagger of oneitis slicing its way into my heart. If I go meet her tonight, I will be off my game and be miserable and make a bad impression. I'm not in a good mindset to make her friends love me right now.

I wound up texting her "I might not be able to get there til after 12" to which she responded "okay, just text before to make sure we're still there". So I'm going out with my friend and will hit on a bunch of chicks, then if I'm feeling back to my old self, then I'll meet up. If I still feel like a pussy then I'll say something like I can't make it.

Fuck man, I was doing so well but this holiday shit always trips me up.

Wrong choice with that text, you should've said what I said. It sounds like an apology and your plan of the night is to follow her.
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#16

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[quote='Jackhammer' pid='312679' dateline='1353531378']
My precise wording was "want to get smashed and make some bad decisions?" so it wasn't as overt as "let's get drunk and have sex" but I probably agree with you somewhat.

I don't know man. I can feel myself starting to get oneitis, but this chick is pretty cool, loves sex, and is sweet. I'm trying to remain as emotionally distant as possible but it's getting tougher.

I think I will go out tonight and be a bit aloof, whilst lightly gaming her friends and maybe even eye-fucking some random girls around the bar just for the confidence boost. It's just going to be weird when they have so many inside jokes and stories and I'm the outsider.
*** At this point it didnt really matter exactly what was said. The damage had already been done.
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#17

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Yep, I fucked up. Shit happens. Lets see if I can salvage this. I ran such strong alpha game, but let the idea of a relationship mess with my head and cause me to overthink everything.
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#18

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Get over it man. Tomorrow is another day. Hopefully for Thanksgiving the turkey's breasts wont be the only ones you'll munch on. [Image: tard.gif]
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#19

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Quote: (11-21-2012 05:19 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

Going out with her and her friends isn't gonna kill your chances of getting laid.
How do you know her friends will judge you?
Use the same game on her friends that you used on her.
Game isn't just to pick up girls..its a whole package. You should be able to make yourself look good in front of them

This and this only.

Or if you really dont want to go out with her friends, or feel the timing is not right, tell her that you would love to meet her friends, but perhaps some other day because you where feeling a bit tired from work and had planned staying in, having a couple of beers and just relaxing. She is more than welcome to join you later.

And please, please, tell me that you are not using the word "smash" to refer to sex around her.
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