[ehans]

There's this bar with some good looking waitresses I went to last week. A fellow member here (currently overseas) hinted that you can get numbers followed by dates and bangs in this place.

Anyway, It was happy hour so it was so busy that even the bartenders are difficult to talk to. I tried to game one of the staff but she's more concerned with getting my order fast.

So I'm going to game a few of the staff when it's less busy during the early weekdays.

Some things to keep in mind are:
- Making friends with the male staff could do wonders in minimizing cock blocking.
- Perhaps it's better to sit far from the counter.
- Considering these are people working on their job, should I go straight into the dry introductory Q&A after the opener?

[Cruisen_Chubby]

I hope your game is top-tier. These chicks get hit on all the time. If your game isn't memorable it isn't going to happen.

Bring the heat Lebron!

[fresh]

Hey Ehans,

Ive been working in bars and nightclubs for some years. Started when I was 16 as a busboy. Later I got to stand behind the bar, now I been managing a few cafees and a night club.

My What I have noticed, after all these nights are as follows:

Since there are so many who try to score these girls, the only girls who tried Haarder /'s more wardrobe girls.
As are all the losers who have not found anyone at the club.

My trick is:
Keep up sober, give a little tip, not big but not stingy either.

Wait with your big approach to the bar is quiet, like one hour before closing time. '
So you can offer her a drink, maybe she has time before they close, and she busy counting up, bottles, cash etc.
You must be very charming, as I said, your minimum number twenty, That hit for tonight. Then a sharp level, whether you want to invite her out or think shes down for SNL.

Lot of my bar girls did som SNL, but mostly with rich blokes.

a lot of good luck

[ehans]

Thanks alot guys. I've decided to hold back on this excursion until I work on a few things. I've only been working on game for 3 weeks.. Got 3 dates. 2 women about 7 years older than me who I met via a speed dating programme and approached further. They feel akward about the age gap. Despite that I managed to escalate kino with both of them 1 younger girl but I lost interest in her for some reason. So there's still some work to do especially on cold approaches.

I'd like some tips on working on humour. I've bought this book 'The Quotable A**hole' by Eric Grzymkowski to spice up some 1 liners which worked here and there.

[WesternCancer]

I'd lay off on trying to bang them until you have a solid gameplan. I talk to these kinds frequently but I know my end goal with them is to have a conversation and get into a good mood that will translate to my approaches for the night.

[Brosemite]

I think your best bet would be to not play the role of typical super sleezy type. By that, really distinguish yourself from what you perceive to be the typical guy who would hit on the wait staff every night. Can't really put it into tangible words. It'd also help if you have a big group of guys and gals accompanying you at this venue as going solo while hitting on the staff might be a little too obvious.

There was one instance where I dated a chick who waited on my big group table as a typical socialite tried coming hard onto her at first. She kept looking at me as I was the polite one, so there needs to be luck involved as they kinda have to be attracted to you at first. Course things didn't work out in the future as she would move back to college after summer break...the tough part was after we ended it, she ended up starting a long distance relationship with another guy being someone who worked at the same restaurant she did. Other than that, I've really had no luck hitting on staff besides getting a measley email address, which I'm sure you can imagine how those instances went...

[fresh]

Good work! Keep up the job mate!