[Manystyles]

I met this girl saturday night. As she is walking out to the smoking area she stops near me. Holding a glass of champagne she hesitates on drinking it. I catch her attention and tell her to stop being a wuss. She goes ok read on 3... She downs it and i don't lol... She walks outside and i wait before i approach again. I walk out and just hit her directly with... "your adorable, i want to talk to you..." We are in a 10 minute conversation til my friend walks to us. Now he's engaged for a while with us. She makes an exit and says, "you going to be around here? i want to come back and talk." I tell her we'll be around the area. I walk in in a lil bit and i see her. She looks over at me and smiles. She starts walking over and we continue where we left off. Eventually she says, "why don't you give me your number in case we get lost again. I put my name in there as "christian grey" she texts me "hello grey..." I went in for a kiss and i can't remember if she was receptive or not or i hesitated its foggy. Instead i motioned to my right cheek and she kissed. She mentions something about texting her to do something. I said something about surfing that week that she should come. She was receptive to this.

My phone fucking dies that night so i couldn't contact her again for food or something. I text her the next day and she hits me back. We are going back and forth not too much of convo just feeling her out to get a logistical meeting.

her: At the noodle house getting some hangover pho... can't wait!!!!
me: cool... Any crazy plans this week?
her: no more crazy!
her: I'm hungover and starving... The pho place we chose to go to had a long wait
me: I'm free tomorrow lets hang out... nothing crazy maybe
her:I have a bunch of errands but maybe after

ok so i called the next day and left a vmail... "hey its... wanted to see what your up to tonight, hit me... later"

now its been 2 days. She never hit me back... I was thinking of texting her again. I think the vmail fucked it up. Suggestions?

[R Smoov]

Fuck her dude! She's a lame ass Pokemon.

You shouldn't have to keep throwing Pokeballs to try and capture that! If she's not getting caught by the first few Pokeballs, then don't waste any more of them!

Try to catch another one!

[haywire]

(11-15-2012 07:52 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

ok so i called the next day and left a vmail... "hey its... wanted to see what your up to tonight, hit me... later"

now its been 2 days. She never hit me back... I was thinking of texting her again. I think the vmail fucked it up. Suggestions?

Don't overthink it, don't think you did anything wrong. Flakes are anyway a part of the game, and even the best of the players aren't immune to it. Also, if she's a young girl, it's likely that she doesn't even know how to have a phone convo so she avoided getting into that awkward situation, in this day and age of texting. Hell, some girls don't even check their voicemails. Ask her out again over texts instead.

[Manystyles]

(11-16-2012 03:32 AM)haywire Wrote:  

(11-15-2012 07:52 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

ok so i called the next day and left a vmail... "hey its... wanted to see what your up to tonight, hit me... later"

now its been 2 days. She never hit me back... I was thinking of texting her again. I think the vmail fucked it up. Suggestions?

Don't overthink it, don't think you did anything wrong. Flakes are anyway a part of the game, and even the best of the players aren't immune to it. Also, if she's a young girl, it's likely that she doesn't even know how to have a phone convo so she avoided getting into that awkward situation, in this day and age of texting. Hell, some girls don't even check their voicemails. Ask her out again over texts instead.

I feel like today you have to more aggressive with girls. The old rules of waiting 2-3 days is over. I was going to text her either to find out her plans for the weekend or just wait til sunday.

[littleG]

I would just say: "Play it cool," but many guys when they're first starting out with game do not understand what that means. I'll let someone else explain what you should do, but don't make getting laid harder than it actually is. All I will say is this: if you're chasing her you are doing something wrong.

-PJ

[mental]

It's simple: since it's emotions first and logic second for girls, she was telling you the truth at THAT moment because she was feeling she should bang you, but then the emotions faded and she ain't feeling that she should bang you anymore. Remember: they are telling the truth at THAT moment, and only that moment. It's kinda like when you promise yourself you won't drink or jack off but then suddenly you say "fuck it, I'm doing it".

[MrXY]

(11-16-2012 05:29 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

I feel like today you have to more aggressive with girls. The old rules of waiting 2-3 days is over. I was going to text her either to find out her plans for the weekend or just wait til sunday.

No. You texted her the day after you met her and then called her the day after that. You are acting too eager and chasing her. Of course, she might have flaked anyway, but you signaled to her that you are "into" her which her subconscious will interpret as you not having a lot of other options with women. Women want men who are desired by other women.

Always make yourself scarce with women. Wait a week then send her a funny or random text. If she responds, have a short text convo with her every few days then after a couple of weeks tell her you're going to be somewhere and to come meet you.

[Manystyles]

(11-17-2012 12:44 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(11-16-2012 05:29 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

I feel like today you have to more aggressive with girls. The old rules of waiting 2-3 days is over. I was going to text her either to find out her plans for the weekend or just wait til sunday.

No. You texted her the day after you met her and then called her the day after that. You are acting too eager and chasing her. Of course, she might have flaked anyway, but you signaled to her that you are "into" her which her subconscious will interpret as you not having a lot of other options with women. Women want men who are desired by other women.

Always make yourself scarce with women. Wait a week then send her a funny or random text. If she responds, have a short text convo with her every few days then after a couple of weeks tell her you're going to be somewhere and to come meet you.

but in today's day and age how many guys are getting to her before me? with fb social networking, i figure you have to act quick

[Manystyles]

update:

"hey lizard, how's your weekend?"
lizard: "good, how's yours?"
me: "awesome, want to hang out this week?"
lizard: "depends on what you got planned! Jk ;p sure!"
me: "how's tuesday or wednesday night?"
lizard: "that's def a maybe!"
lizard: "i have a random schedule so i say maybe a lot"

What say you roosher's?

[rationalize_this]

(11-18-2012 08:42 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

update:

"hey lizard, how's your weekend?"
lizard: "good, how's yours?"
me: "awesome, want to hang out this week?"
lizard: "depends on what you got planned! Jk ;p sure!"
me: "how's tuesday or wednesday night?"
lizard: "that's def a maybe!"
lizard: "i have a random schedule so i say maybe a lot"

What say you roosher's?

me: hey there how's your weekend
her: good, how's yours?
me: just getting warmed up. Free this week
her: depends on what you got planned! Jk sure! ( you have to sell it here)
me: good wine, great scenery, better conversation
her: sounds good to me!
me: meet me tues at x @ 9
her: 9 is perfect